This is not as sleazy as it sounds..I met a married man on the net, a very religious married man and we became friends 8 yrs ago. We clciked immediately and spent a lot of times playing games online etc..and talking in Ims. we chatted on the phone a couple times but mainly talked online. I fell for him in a big way and he knew it and he fell for me too but we are both married so we kept it friends only. I would give him advice to help him in his marriage and he would do the same for me and both of s just wanted the other to be happy in our marriages. Things crashed around the same time for both of us in our marriages and we discussed meeting. before I met him we discussed the what if we fool around question...I was very worried that if we kissed or more he would regret it and we would not be friends anymore.he assured me that he would be fine with it even though I told him no sex because I know he would regret cheating on hsi wife so we werent going to do that and he said okay....Well
2007-02-07 03:52:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jenny T 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't ruin your marriage. An affair would only cause you a heart break.
2007-02-07 04:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine the scenario in which your wife and her husband is planning the same thing and that will give you your answer. Stand back and take a look at your life. Why the lack of interest in your current wife? What is it about this other woman that makes you think you love her? Is it just the thrill of the "forbidden fruit"? Why did you marry your wife in the first place? I'm sure you loved her, or thought you did. You just need to figure out which it was. If you truely loved her, then deep down inside somewhere you still do. If your reasons for marrying her were something other than love, than think about what they were and if the circumstances are different now, you need to assess them. This married woman that you "love", do you forsee that changing in the future as well? If you do, or think there is even the possibility of it, then you probably shouldn't pursue anything with her. You both have a lot to lose, and if it is on a gamble, is it really worth it? I think you have a lot to think about.
2016-05-24 03:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... what? You need to end this. It is not right and you both know it. You said he is a religious person, don't really sound religious to me. If you guys are having problems in you marriages you need to find some way and work things out. There is no guarantee that your husband and his wife will not find out. It will catch up on you both, so stop. If you guys have fallen out of love with your mate, then talk to your spouses, before some thing messy happens.
2007-02-07 04:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Natty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are still married, your relationship with each other is not appropriate.
This is probably the reason you all are having problems in your marriages anyway. If you all truly want to work things out with your partners, stop the double life and work things out.
However, if Both you would like to be together, it's only fair to dissolve your old relationships first.
2007-02-07 04:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don;t ou find it odd that both of you are in fine relationship and you meet and start talking and agree that you are into each other but stay just friends because of the marriages and then both of your relationships crash at the same time? You are both cheating on your spouses. Maybe not physically, but definately emotionally.
Sounds like you both subconsciencly destroyed your realationships with your spouses so you could see if you could have a relationship with each other. You both need therapy with your original spouses.
2007-02-07 04:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Roger B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is not a very religious married man or he wouldnt be doing any of that. you both are wrong, why did you get married? you guys should do marriage counseling. maybe its love....
2007-02-07 03:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what? Sounds like you two are already having an affair.
2007-02-07 03:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your divorces are final. Don't cheat on your husband or sleep with other people's husbands. Get divorced and stay single. Your husband deserves better.
2007-02-07 04:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait for the divorce before you do anything. Then its all fair game.
2007-02-07 03:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There won't be anything good out of this
2007-02-07 03:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by hunter6543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋