Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

i know a lot of people get back together but that's when the guy still says he loves the gal. but what if he doesnt now, will he still be back in the future?

2007-02-07 03:33:04 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

he found a new girlfriend 8 months ago. They are already engaged and expecting a baby in about a month. I have been more than nice to this new girl. I got her a gift when I found out she was pregnant and made her homeade salsa. She now has told my ex that he cant watch our daughter during the week at my house. He is only aloud to watch her at there home. We live about 30 minuets apart and she goes to school in my school district. It would be too much to get her in the evening all the way out by him considering she has to be in bed early. He has just not been very fair. But my question is his new Fiance is having a baby shower this weekend and my daughter is going should we get her a gift? Mind you she never said thank you to anything else I have done for her. Or am I just being a *****?

2007-02-07 03:32:57 · 26 answers · asked by lmw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together 4 three years we are now about 2 have our second child. We live 1.5hrs apart. He is 20 and I'm 22. I feel like I can trust him not to cheat, but if he does I feel like it want really affect me. Also when I first met him he was dating 2 girls at once, but he dumped them 2 be with me. Do u think I can trust him now? He has a pretty bad case of the flirts.

2007-02-07 03:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by bigmumu2003 1 in Singles & Dating

On Valentines Day

Red Roses...
Heart-Shaped Candy...
People think of these
When thinking
Of the day of Love...

I don't...
Thoughts of You
Stream through my mind
You and only You

Stupid day-dreams...
Yet full of ecstasy
And hopes of things
That will probably never happen

But these are happy times
Because you are in my thoughts
If not my arms

Thoughts of you...
Crowd the living-space of my thoughts
Visions of you blind my mind's eye
There is no room for thoughts
Other than the ones of you

So remember on Valentines Day
When others are thinking of
Red Roses and Heart-Shaped Candy...

I am thinking of you

2007-02-07 03:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by rep da yay 2 in Singles & Dating

to appreciate what she has? She's 14 and thinks life "sucks" because she has to follow rules and do homework.

She doesn't help in the house (my fault) and her grades are horrible. She treats everyone, including friends, bad.

We've started her with counseling, but I need to know how to make her see that there are others who have it so much worse.

I've presented her with cases of misfortune, handicap, etc., but after an initial "wow, it sucks to be them" she goes back to lamenting her life.

Please, no smart-*** remarks, I need advice.

2007-02-07 03:31:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ANYTHING BUT CHEATING!

2007-02-07 03:31:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to know,

and I won't tell!

2007-02-07 03:30:57 · 48 answers · asked by gumtrunk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is my friend lying to me???!!! She "like" keeps saying "like"?
She is just a friend, but I think she likes me more than that. I like a girl who is a mutual friend of ours, but she keeps trying to divert me from that girl. When she e-mails me she uses "like" excessively when talking about the other girl! She doesn't do that much with other subjects. ...almost every sentence like she doesn't know what to say. She doesn't talk that way!!! Is she lying to me!!!??? Is this a sign or just girl talk?

2007-02-07 03:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by 80srock 2 in Friends

I met this girl a few months ago and we were working toward a relationship. We went out a few times and she said she's not ready. She really meant i wasn't her type but she didn't want to let me down hard. I bugged her about giving me another chance for about a week...texting her and talking to her online. She called me a stalker and banned me from her myspace page and stuff. Now i feel really bad cause i didn't ever want to hurt her and now she don't want no part of me. I don't want her to think i am crazy. Help!!!

2007-02-07 03:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

If you knew w/mathamatical precision and scientific certainty that their would be a great calamitous event on Mother Earth Dec.21,2012,would you live life to the fullest,or expend your resources to try to survive and propagate the species?

2007-02-07 03:28:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I could take myself away
To any place or any day
I think I’d pick a place
Somewhere deep in out of space

And then I’d turn around
To see what I have found
I’ll look down on this earth
The place of all our birth

I looked then to the right
Over there they always fight
To the left I set my eye
Over there, they all do cry

And then I see a spot
Which isn’t cold and isn’t hot
The people seem carefree
That is where I want to be

It then came to me quite clearly
The people there love me dearly
The place I want to be
Is home with family

2007-02-07 03:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by gary_b04901 1 in Family

does anyone really believe that there is someone out there for you i am starting not to of course i am 17 so i shouldnt really be worried but i have a feeling i am going to die alone there is one guy that i really like but he wants action and i dont he said he doesnt want to hurt me and that if he was with me he wanted it to last but i dont know if i beleive him i think he is saying that but my friend also his friend (like a sister) says that he really likes me what do i do i really like him?

2007-02-07 03:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by formerffagirl05 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I get into a relationship with this guy who I won't see for about 8 weeks...he's getting a job in which he has to work for 12 hours and 7 days a week...he won't have any time to talk to me or see me...what should I do?

2007-02-07 03:26:41 · 10 answers · asked by piper_69_77 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so to be fair- its not all men, but a lot. I know my bf really cares about me. but he just can't seem to say it, or tell me why. whats wrong with him?

2007-02-07 03:26:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance will not wear gold nor white gold. I am just concerned that if we get sterling silver rings they will show more wear over time, or may tarnish. Are there any other types of wedding bands that are not gold that will last a lifetime and still look like new years from now?

2007-02-07 03:25:38 · 16 answers · asked by mom2omar 1 in Weddings

I got this friend. She got a bf, but working in another country and have not met for few months. She mentioned that she loves her bf very much. And her bf don’t know about our friendship. We go for movies, clubbing and for walks. Also she mentioned to me that when her bf is back, she cannot meet me. And so I should not feel bad about her thinking she used me when she was alone. Also told me that if she was single, she would have liked me.

We talk almost about everything. We discuss about sex. When I mentioned about porn dvd’s, she even ask me to borrow her porn dvd’s. But in a funny way to show that she was joking. She even comes to my place where I live alone for watching movies. I have never touched or kissed her.

My question is, is she expecting me to kiss her or she want to have a physical relation with me? Please advise.. ThankQ

2007-02-07 03:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by master J 1 in Friends

How do you really know yo are in love with someone?

2007-02-07 03:24:59 · 22 answers · asked by nicensweetnurse 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 03:24:27 · 5 answers · asked by What? 2 in Singles & Dating

My Girlfriend's fiance has a ex in which they have a child but they have been apart for almost 4 years now because my friend is with him 3 1/2 years now in which they also have a child together.

What i want to know is: Y everytime he's back home because he's in the navy, his ex keep texting about things like why did u leave me & stuff like that?

Is it me alone who finds this kind of behaviour annoying? Be real, it's been almost 4 years now. What does it take for someone to see that there's nothing there for them anymore.

2007-02-07 03:24:05 · 17 answers · asked by fancyface 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've lost the passion/love for my girl of 9 years.. and I am beginning to like her best friend, she's been friends with her for over 20 years. Well her friend likes me. Would it be right for me to break up with my girlfriend now and then ask her best friend to marry me???

2007-02-07 03:23:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do think he is intrested in me ? I am 22 and 6 months pregnant , He said he would like to take me to lunch . He also told my brother that he is buying a car seat for my baby ( it isnt his by no means ). We havent really talked and I have never thought of him in that way till now . Do you think he just wants in my paints or is really interested in me for me ?

2007-02-07 03:23:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cook food for my husband to carry to work, so i empty it in a plastic container, cover it half way since i see no flys. for it to cool then i went to do something in the livingroom. Which was like 3 mins....when i walk back i saw my husband in the ketchen.....say" i just saw a fly in the food..i said "i didn't see any" he got vex so while he was walkin out on me i ask him to throw out the food......
A fight started from that he started to yell at me, & curs as well, saying" i fed-up with you, you doing listen to me, and you disrespect me......" i was shock...didn't know what to do?

2007-02-07 03:22:25 · 16 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

...when the partner takes issue with the fact that their woman is sleeping around with other men?
That's "CONTROLLING"???...I thought of it more like "A NORMAL REACTION!"

2007-02-07 03:22:13 · 3 answers · asked by bradxschuman 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 03:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Someone who cares 4 in Singles & Dating

My daughters father keeps blaming me for everything! He is court ordered to only have supervised visitaion one hour once a month unless he can dane a person he knows that can pass a background check the supervisor...then he can see her when ever the supervisor is available and I am available. He hasn't done that yet and things have been this way for 14 months...this is beside the other things the court said he had to complete which he hasn't yet. I got pulled over this morning for a suspended lisence I kne NOTHING about and come ti find out it was for unpaid tickets that my daughters father got in MY car!! I was livid and an hour late to work and I wasn't supposed to be driving after I got pulled over but what was I to do...couldn't get ahold of my mom or husband!! Next thing I know I get to work and the jerk (my daughters father) call me and says that I am ruining the relationship between him and HIS daughter and then hung up...this was due to him missing his visitation today. (cont.)

2007-02-07 03:21:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i m 20, gud looking female... a bit studious and quite intelligent too
i wonder when theres luv all around ...even those looking less gud than me hav guys who luv them.. until today i hav never been proposed by anyone...
donno why it is so... will i ever hav someone in life who loves me from his heart and soul?

2007-02-07 03:21:47 · 5 answers · asked by kat 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend whose boyfriend is gay/bi, and she's aware of it... But she's okay with it... What about you girls out there, is it okay for you to have a bisexual boyfriend?!!

2007-02-07 03:21:32 · 3 answers · asked by athame 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it his mind, his word, something about his body, an expression, something he knows how to do, something he does just for you, the way he says or does things, etc....

2007-02-07 03:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by msupmod 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a very hardworking man, loyal and all the good thing a woman would ever ask for a man.
He is also a dedicated Apostolic Christian. He goes to church every Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday and Sunday
(Church Service, Sunday School etc.) Also, he wakes up at 3am every single day just to pray, read the bible and
bible study online before going to work. It drives me crazy and I am getting worried, He was one time upset
because he missed church for a day or two because they had to work late in the office. He said he would
considerlooking for another job if that happens again. He also brings his very huge and thick Bible wherever
he goes and reads it whenever possible (lunch break etc). He have read the Bible back to back a million times
over and over again and he said he would still do over and over again. (note he also reads Bible Study online)
He also mentioned that he prays for me everyday that I would go to heaven and blah bla

2007-02-07 03:19:47 · 24 answers · asked by Faith H 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister was with a guy for nearly 9 years. She gave him an ultimatum 5 years ago and said that if he didn't want to move their relationship to the next level, she wanted out. He said that he was okay with things just the way they were. She didn't want the status quo so they went their separate ways.

Now she wants to contact him after all these years. She's dated many men and had other relationships since but believes that he is "the one" .

She was told that he was living with someone but she says that she would like "to just talk to him" and tell him how much she "regrets the breakup". She thinks maybe he does, too.

Although she may be unable to get over him, I think she needs to get past him. If she was "the one" for him, he would have been able to commit back then. Besides, too much time has passed.

I'd like to be more supportive and hate to discourage her feelings but I think calling and/or seeing him will only open the wound.

Any advice? She's 53, he's 58.

2007-02-07 03:19:38 · 5 answers · asked by Angela 7 in Singles & Dating