I got this friend. She got a bf, but working in another country and have not met for few months. She mentioned that she loves her bf very much. And her bf don’t know about our friendship. We go for movies, clubbing and for walks. Also she mentioned to me that when her bf is back, she cannot meet me. And so I should not feel bad about her thinking she used me when she was alone. Also told me that if she was single, she would have liked me.
We talk almost about everything. We discuss about sex. When I mentioned about porn dvd’s, she even ask me to borrow her porn dvd’s. But in a funny way to show that she was joking. She even comes to my place where I live alone for watching movies. I have never touched or kissed her.
My question is, is she expecting me to kiss her or she want to have a physical relation with me? Please advise.. ThankQ
2007-02-07 03:24:59 · 4 answers · asked by master J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why would you want to get involved with that? That is the question. She's obviously wanting a little bit more attention from you, and she's not that committed to her own relationship, or else she wouldn't be hiding stuff from her bf like hanging out with a guy that she just considers as a friend. I guess the ball's in your park, but make the right decisions for yourself because she just might be at a stage of weakness and if things go wrong, she just might blame you for everything and tell her bf that. Just remember, that relationships are complicated for those that are in it, and seriously, how many of those situations have you heard of that don't hurt anyone? It's a Jerry Springer show waiting to happen.
2007-02-07 03:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she is just lonely and wants someone to hang out with while her boyfriend is away. I wouldn't get involved with her physically because it will make the situation messy when the boyfriend comes back into town. As for borrowing the porn, she is "missing" her boyfriend. I would recommend that you just be a friend to her.
2007-02-07 04:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Erin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if she is never going to see you again when her bf comes back she wants you for a booty call. you should ask her if she wants more from this realtionship! and if she does you need to know if your going to have sex with her or tell her you just want to be friends.
but you need to remeber shes weak, she hasn't had sex pro. scene her bf was home she pro wants you for that reason, you need to decide if your going to take advantage of her time of needing sex.
2007-02-07 03:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i answer in a short way she wants sex from u but she will not want to fell in relationship with u thts it surely.
2007-02-07 04:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋