How do you really know yo are in love with someone?
2007-02-07 03:24:59 · 22 answers · asked by nicensweetnurse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really will just "know"...deep, abiding, mature, true love, can only come from feeling that this person ADDS to who you are...(Not IS who you are...that's not love)...when you are best friends...when you trust that the other person would NEVER hurt you in any way, shape or form...when you look into their eyes and just "know"...you are on your way to be being "in-love"...however, love changes as you grow and learn...you must grow and learn right along with it to be successful...that first "blush" of love does not always last..but grows into a deeper meaning...that is quite, honestly, difficult to put in to words...
2007-02-07 03:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answer your own question within your question. "How" do you know? You just do. If you are wondering if you are in love or not, then you probably are not. When you are in love, you just "know" it. You feel it all within yourself, with every breath you take and every thing you say or hear or do. It "becomes" you, it's an overwhelming feeling of completeness that is hard to describe to someone who has not experienced it.
Aside from that, there are other things that might lead you to think you are in love with a certain person, but they don't define being in love. For example, a feeling of wanting to share whatever is on your mind with someone, no matter how random. Having the urge of being with this person out of the blue, no matter the event, and when you are with this person, everything feels fine. You are in "a happy bubble". These are just a couple of tiny examples, it probably varies from person to person.
2007-02-07 11:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Foodie Monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chemical bonding process between two people that are attracted to each other.
Physical part of a good relationship, the fact that the potential for chemistry does not have anything to do with a smart relationship.
The reality is "the one" is one of potentially many people, first eliminate all idiots weather there is potential chemistry or not, then you are down to good relationship material look for someone you have chemistry with, Then you done found "THE ONE." Simple stuff actually.
2007-02-07 11:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty simple. When you care more about someone elses wants and needs then your own you know its real love. The hard part is know if the other person is really in love with you. Hope I helped some, good luck.
2007-02-07 11:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"in love" is a biological attraction and isnt always sensible, but it does ensure continuation of the species, since people often mate before finding out if they are truly compatabile.
To love someone is quite different and is based on caring for them, and wanting to share a life with them, and being willing to put thier needs and desires on the same level as yours.
2007-02-07 11:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by G's Random Thoughts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you wake up, your thoughts go straight to her. Your chest feels hollow when she is no longer near. Every waking hour you know you could not live without her gentle touch. When you look upon her and watch her move it's like poetry in motion. Every word she utters bring you peace that you have never felt before. When you hold her in your arms the world means nothing to you and you want for nothing else.
2007-02-07 11:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definition:Love--> When one forgets all the flaws of (other), is there through thick and thin, always thinks about that person, and wants to always be with that person, yet has a healthy relationship with friends, family and co workers when one is not with other.
2007-02-07 11:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by *Bella Reveuse* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put them first in all things, even if it is time consuming, ordifficult. Love comes after infatuation, so it is a calmer more encompassing emotion. Infatution is when you love the way they make you feel - LOVE is when you love the way your makes your partner feel about life in general.
2007-02-07 11:30:36 · answer #8 · answered by nilam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u know ur in love is when the whole world is shut out when ur with that person and nothing in the world matters. when u would do anything 4 that person and no matter what happens ur there 4 them.
2007-02-07 11:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by stefstudy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best definition: wasting time on Y!A asking the same questions over and over again even though thousands have already answered. Questions like:-
What is love?
Does he love me?
How do I get her to notice me?
How can you tell it's real?
Sound familiar?
2007-02-07 11:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋