ANYTHING BUT CHEATING!
2007-02-07 03:31:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start just saying you need to hang with the guys more. And if that doesnt work, you need to start withdrawing how much time you put into things. I.e. dont do the 'thoughtful' things anymore and start making it apparent that you have different interests. works like a charm.
if all else fails, just move.
2007-02-07 03:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you cant, dont play anyhting bad.
just tell her i have to dump you your not the right one for e tell er that you tried to make her dump you but it didnt work, really come on youll be here for years
if you dont you obviously care about her so tell her you would like to be frineds
hope i could help
sincerily. Christina (just wanted to point out if there were more sweetguys like you the earth would be better)
2007-02-07 03:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it yourself. you might feel bad for a while, but think about her too. if u dump her, you should give her a proper reason, something she can work on in the future, possibly.
pls dont be a baby, i know my friend said that's what he usually does. is distant, till the gf breaks up with him, because he doesnt wanna do it. pls dont do that!
2007-02-07 03:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by blithe_vow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do it. There is no other way. That is a weak way out. Have some respect for her and just be honest. Its easier to be honest. You will hurt her, but its better with words than actions. In time she will respect your decision. You have to do it the right way.
The only way I can think of that is somewhat okay is to say to ask for a break to think things through. It will put doubt in her head, and then break up. At least that way she knows its coming and she can better prepare for it. But don't avoid the issue!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 03:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest if your feelings have changed for her. If you don't want to be with her anymore, tell her. Someone is always going to get hurt unfortunatly. Why prolong the situation if you are unhappy, things will just get worse and tempers will flair then who knows what will happen next. You are just better off telling her how you really feel.
2007-02-07 03:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answer B Davis!
If she has low self esteem you need to encourage her to spend more time with her friends. Convince her friends that she shouldn't like you (show them your a$$). Go on double dates and make the other guy look good. She will eventually think that she can do better and move on. Man you gotta be an *sshole to let a girl down this way.
2007-02-07 03:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to break up with her if this relationship is working out for you. she might think things are going just fine between the two of you and you think the opposite. its better if you go ahead and tell her that the two of you need to sit down and talk and tell her how you feel. tell her you dont want to be in a relationship you have things you need to think about. it will be better for the both of you in the end.
2007-02-07 03:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by clemsongurl0714 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better just dump her instead of hurting her and making her want to dump you. Girls talk and whatever you do will get out! I promise!!! That puts your reputation on the line!!!
2007-02-07 03:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by 80srock 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. Your subconscious mind will take care of this for you. Just go on like you always do and you'll end up doing something, saying something, etc. that will seal the deal. No need to worry!
2007-02-07 03:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to sit her down and be honest. There will be more pain if you drag her along. In the end she will realize it was better for you to be honest and cut it off then drag her emotions through the mud.
2007-02-07 03:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Morals 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋