Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

My school has a barbershop quartette that sing love song on V day, should I buy her a song?

2007-02-07 04:40:47 · 6 answers · asked by inferno0424 2 in Singles & Dating

in a previous question i asked about how i should tell a friend about my interest and also asking how to tell if a friend was interested in me. well, the thing is that i'm interest in both....any suggestions?

2007-02-07 04:40:27 · 19 answers · asked by Laura 4 in Singles & Dating

when become a real monster and hit any1 tht make me angry..no diff boy,girl,black,white,old,young....yesterday i hit my 12 y old brother hard bc he broke my guitar and tht was just an accident. when some1 make me angry.and thei know its wrong and always try to do somethin to myself but i cant..what should i do?plus im 19..

2007-02-07 04:40:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

One of my guy friends and I get along really well, and I think we could be dating but he smokes.For me this is a real turn off.As I have not dated a smoker I don't know how bad it could be...But for some reason I don't want to give it a chance!! I don't smoke and find it gross!! So I am really torn!! Choose the smoker or just keep it as friends and ignore the sexual tension.

2007-02-07 04:39:10 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i a women and i dont know why women have kids. do they have them to take care of them to pass time to keep them selves busy to to have them for their husbands.

kids can be a blessing but why do women have them. a lot of women do and please be nice

2007-02-07 04:38:49 · 20 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know why I get so turned off by the fact that my husband is so much like his mom and dad. It bothers me. I guess it's b/c I don't agree with a lot of stuff his parents do (i.e. bad habits) and maybe b/c of the fact that I just think his parents are very obnoxious. I love him for the person he is but when we're all together, boy do the similarities really shine! I have to try really hard not to think about it. I keep telling myself over and over..."he's not them, you love him for him." Sometimes I'd rather not be around his parents just b/c of it. It's crazy, I know. I was wondering if anyone else felt this way about their husband or wife.

2007-02-07 04:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by c_sosa29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

You live your lifes in hoping you'll find the One....so you "fall in love" and give up ur virginity before marriage, but that relationship fails and you try again and again...even after marriage your still not Happy as you wished.....So always remember this when it does come true....because sooner or later you'll realize that God and Jesus and everyone in heaven is your true love....Right now things like that dont matter....but when your older you'll see, and when your at that point just turn to God and he will heal you.....please always remember this.....Bye

2007-02-07 04:38:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always thought cohabitation was the way for me to go. I was not interested in getting married. At 23 I realized the only reason I would want to ever be married is to create a family. I wanted a baby, but born into a family. 3 months ago we find out my husband produces no sperm, which means no babies. I think I have been in denial for this long. I finally broke down last night. I dont blame him, I completely understand it is not his fault. He did not choose to be like this. I am sure he is also in pain. He however asked me if I wanted a divorce. And as bad as I wanted to answer "let me think about it" I told him it was a challenge that was put upon us and we have to try to get over it or make it work for us. I've become distant with him. I'd rather not say anything rather than have the subject come up. I work full time and am enrolled in school now. I hardly see him. I avoid him. How do I make this work?

2007-02-07 04:38:17 · 4 answers · asked by Hotcakes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

mean, hurtful, nasty things to me? he is so cruel. i don't understand why he trys to hurt me so bad? my ex husband also did this to me. why?

2007-02-07 04:37:49 · 18 answers · asked by higa1980ash 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, so my boyfriend of almost a year broke up with me on Sunday- and it really hurt. It wasn't a bad break-up; he broke up with me because he has to move to Indianapolis due to the fact that his race team is doing so well now, and he doesn't want to be tied down because he needs to focus all of his attention on his career. And I am very happy that his race team is doing so well- but I am still really upset. Is it wrong to feel so upset and hurt? I can't help but to think I am being selfish. Am I? We are both 20, and I always knew this was a possibility since I first met him- but I guess after a year of being exclusive, I thought that I meant more to him. This is the first real long term relationship that I have ever had- I truly loved and cared about him a lot. How can I get over this?

2007-02-07 04:37:47 · 16 answers · asked by playdoh1986 6 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i like in my church but he doesnt kno i like him.were near each others age.and i kinda like him but i dont want him to find out but in the same time i do.im afraid to ask him and im afraid he wont like me.i kno i wont kno till i ask but still........another problem is hes white and im light brown he's not racist or anything.and when i do tell him wat i feel bout him and he doesnt feel like dat towards me its gonna be pretty uncomfortable for both of us but even though its not gonna work out i still want to be friends with him.wat should i do?

2007-02-07 04:37:28 · 2 answers · asked by lilcutie 1 in Singles & Dating

Got chatting to a girl who I thought might go on a date. She knew I had been in jail recently but said that was sort of OK but the fact that I smoked (cigarettes) would be a No No. Thought it was a bit strange.

2007-02-07 04:37:26 · 12 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Singles & Dating

He just got a Nintendo DS for Xmas but he asked my grandma for the game I wanted to get him.... What do I do? But most importantly WHAT DO I GET HIM????

2007-02-07 04:37:13 · 9 answers · asked by samdkd 1 in Family

2007-02-07 04:36:18 · 7 answers · asked by JESSICA H 1 in Family

i know i know, try to talk to people but i always seem to make things more awkward i used to be able to talk to people but now its like im just one big awkward mess i need help i cant live my life with out ever having a boy friend. im nice its just... i have no clue.

2007-02-07 04:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

think my sister asked this already but I want to get different answers.My mom and step dad are having another baby.I have a big enough family and no one(but my mom and step dad)are excited about this.I don't even want to try and act excited because I dont wanna lie.So....what can I do to get out of the house and stay away from my house?????????

2007-02-07 04:35:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi i have been on here confused. i knew my husband cheated on me in the past and i he says he doesnt cheat on me anymore. my gut instinked tells me he still does so i decided not to have his kids. i am almost 30.For the time being i want to stay with him because i still love him . we have a nice house together and we been together for years..
but it would be stupied to have kids with a man i cant trust . alot of women do it though they get married have kids and get divorced and they are stuck with raising the kid by their selves i feel bad for them. they can do it thought they are strong but i dont want to do it l i am thinking smart. later in life i may never have them cause i may never trust a man again

2007-02-07 04:35:38 · 9 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents were married for almost 18 years and I found out that my dad had been cheating for 5 years before they turned 17 years married. It was really hard to understand, but I tried not to say anything. Later on I found that she was only 7 years older than me! is it right for me to hate on her? should I pretend i dont care???

2007-02-07 04:35:18 · 36 answers · asked by Bbita 2 in Family

I moved in with my boyfriend about a month ago and he already had a guy roommate. This didnt really bother me then cuz i know the guy and hes a pretty good/nice guy although he is a little full of himself. Well after living here for a little while ive learned that his roommate likes to have friends over almost every night and they're always drinking. Dont get me wrong..alcohol is good but every night? im not much of a partier..but oh well. So then the next day he doesnt clean up the beers or the mess, doenst do dishes or any other cleaning. My boyfriend and I do ALL of that. I dont know how to tell my boyfriend all of this because my boyfriend is a great guy/great friend and all of this doesnt bother him cuz he used to be like that. Oh, and our roommate had friends over last weekend and they got wasted and one of the guys just walks into our room in the middle of the night (4:30 am!) and just lays down on our futon and goes to sleep! Would this bother anyone else? And what should i do?

2007-02-07 04:34:25 · 10 answers · asked by michakitty87 1 in Singles & Dating

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-07 04:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

also what are some programs for single mothers? details please & only serious answers!!! in pgh, pa thanx

2007-02-07 04:34:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys, How do you feel when a girl was very serious with you and you were just going out with her to fill your free time.
Little by little, the girl comes to know/ suspects that you were just playing with her feelings when before you told her that you were serious with her, what are your feelings and what do you do?

Do you feel bad or you just don`t care?

What are your feelings?

Thank you for your genuine answers

2007-02-07 04:33:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help i have no clue what to get my boyfriend for valintines day what in the world could a girl get a guy for v-day we just started dating 2 weeks ago so it can't be real mushy what to do HELP!!!!

2007-02-07 04:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should i get my boyfriend for valentine's day.. i want it to be really special...

2007-02-07 04:32:17 · 5 answers · asked by Mz. Robbinson 1 in Singles & Dating

how can I get a boy I like to like me?

2007-02-07 04:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

The son I placed for adoption will be turning 18 very soon. This was an open adoption & his mother has always been kind enough to send me pictures & updates. We had a wonderful relationship during the pregnancy & afterward, but I felt there was a point that I needed to draw back & allow the family to grow without a lot of involvement/inteaction from me. We still have kept in touch - he & his mom even came to my wedding 5 years ago. My question is this: I have been thinking about him a lot now that he is getting ready to turn 18. I am going through a lot of grief, because even though I placed him for adoption, I love him very, very much. I would like to approach him about having more contact, but I am afraid of rejection (he has always been told that what I did I did out of love, not rejection, but I still fear I may have hurt him), I am afraid of hurting his adoptive family-who I love & appreciate. Does anyone have experience & how did things turn out?

2007-02-07 04:31:08 · 4 answers · asked by nexgenjenith 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont understand why its wrong.

2007-02-07 04:30:58 · 10 answers · asked by StinkyDec19 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating this guy for a little less than a month, he is really nice and sweet, what would be a nice gift for him...im pretty sure he has something for me too....any ideas, please no dumb answers thank you

2007-02-07 04:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why would an individual take all of someone's elses possessions, even their underwear, while going through divorce proceedings?

2007-02-07 04:30:06 · 20 answers · asked by Starbrite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship another female for 1.5 years. This is my first same sex relationship and I feel like I love them but am attracted to no other females and always fantasizing about being with a guy. She is very serious about the relationship and wants to be with me forever. I feel completely dependent on them and fear that is why I'm staying in the relationship....what should I do? I'm terrified to be without them but we've been arguing all the time...it's just so painful. We've even seen a therapist and continue to argue. I love them with all my heart but I don't know if we're meant to be together....I'm so confused.

2007-02-07 04:29:57 · 14 answers · asked by partypooper 2 in Singles & Dating