i cant dating girls or even hav friends cause i hit them when i become a bit angry..honestly wht should i do?

Question

when become a real monster and hit any1 tht make me angry..no diff boy,girl,black,white,old,young....yesterday i hit my 12 y old brother hard bc he broke my guitar and tht was just an accident. when some1 make me angry.and thei know its wrong and always try to do somethin to myself but i cant..what should i do?plus im 19..

Answer 1

You need to seek anger management therapy and find out where your anger really comes from. Some people don't think that a shrink can help, but it really can. In your case, if you don't seek help now, you may run into bigger issues such as being arrested for battery or abuse! Help yourself now!

You have already taken the first step by admitting that you have an anger problem. Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

This will eventually turn you into a feared person, you need to seek some kind of help before you really hurt someone no woman wants to be with a bully and that's exactly what you will become.If you can hit a Young child of 12..just imagine who else u would hit... seek some anger management and find It where ur problems are stemming from by seeing a councilor

Answer 3

ok,is very good that you realize at least the things and events that make you in that situation,is true also that you should seek for profesional help just before you get worse and do something that you might regret all your life but my nly advices are that before you star punching people take just your energy in the analisys of what really happend,after ask the person that upset you to explain the situation to you and after tell him/her the way you fell about what happend,sure you will have a lot of advices and also apologies before you can even be mad at that person,and in case they don't just remeber yourself that you can do better that been violent,you can be yourself and walk away,you can take your time and make a better desicion out of the drama.all in one,you can be happy.trust me and go to qet conseling from real profesional.am just anonimus friend trying to give you a hand,at the end in our life that is most all the time whta we really need.A HAND.good luck.jimmy.

Answer 4

you really should talk to a concealer. i know people don't like to, but they can help. in the mean time u should take a step back and walk away when you get mad. find a special place where u can go to be alone. then set and think things over. invest in a punching bag. and take some boxing classes. they spar you can get rid of some of u anger there

Answer 5

Have you tried anger management? I'm not trying to mean but thats a real problem. Try it cuz if you keep hitting people nobody will like you anymore. Or try asking a parent,teacher,or counseler.

Answer 6

you need to seek help on your anger problem. Talk to a parent on how you can get help for this. You do not want anybody to get seriously hurt. The best thing to do is talk to a parent about your problem and see if you can go somewhere for help

Answer 7

you need antidepressants and anger management. I'm not kidding, sounds sarcastic but you do. I have a mean temper myself and nothing really helps. Trust me if I knew of a place that had anger management I'd go.

Answer 8

you wont much like this, but i gotta share it... i just read some info on Jeffry Damer, Ted Bundy,..other serial ...well... other people with 'anger' issues,... and you sound some what like them. By the way..they were 'aware' of there ''personal'' issues as well...and didnt seek help... how DO YOU INTEND TO DEAL WITH YOR SELF?

Answer 9

hun not sound mean but you need go to anger management to get help someday it could lead to you getting seriously hurt or seriously hurt someone else...my brother has anger problems and he isnt getting help but that is b/c we dont have the money but we are trying to get him some...plz do it for your little brother i know im terrified of my brother when he gets that way so get some help.

Answer 10

Anger management.