Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

He works offshore and everytime he is gone he texts me a lot and I text back and my bill is just insane. His job pays for his phone and I've told him to just call me but he won't listen. I don't want to make an issue out of this but it is becoming ridiculous...

2007-02-07 05:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:04:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

gay men. I'm going to call it "Leave it, it's Beaver." What do you think?

2007-02-07 05:03:58 · 8 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

Reason such as were nothing alike when everything about you is so the same
Reasons like i don't want you as much as you want me
Reasons like i'm still in love with my ex-girlfriend who cheated on me with two people while i was in the same house as them and all she ever did was yell at me.
anyone know????????

2007-02-07 05:03:17 · 44 answers · asked by b2uandthem 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:03:11 · 16 answers · asked by ALICIA P 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry! for got to mention i just turned 32 yrs the 6th.

2007-02-07 05:02:37 · 3 answers · asked by katana b 3 in Singles & Dating

Im into my co worker but al he does is looking at me,and its getting BORING,its been going on for mnths now..When i chat to other guys he gets jealous?why?Why should i feel bad?he doesnt really do anything bout it,if a guy takes long to ask u out,he has doubts,should i just forget bout him,coz its leading to nothing-EVER!hes starting to irritate me

2007-02-07 05:02:13 · 12 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:01:15 · 31 answers · asked by tprincl 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a male friend and i broke up with him but he kept coming over he was really good friends with my parents well eight months later i called him at work and we went to lunch a few times i still care and love him and someone told me that he was married i asked him and he told me that when we first met he told me that he was married but separated and he was living home with his mom well my feeling are hurt because i think that he is lying i think that they are together but he says they are not well we had sex 3 days ago and after we were finished he stayed for a while and he left he didnt shower didnt wash nor shower befor he left he called me when he made it home please give me some answers

2007-02-07 05:01:04 · 18 answers · asked by shy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What should i do for my birthday?

2007-02-07 05:01:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It seems like many people get married for the wrong reasons. What's up with that?

2007-02-07 05:01:00 · 19 answers · asked by Liberal City 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 05:00:45 · 8 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6 in Singles & Dating

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-07 05:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-07 05:00:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 05:00:24 · 13 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

I got a new tattoo on Monday. It is on the inside of my right ankle (sorry, spelling(?) but you know what I mean) about as low as you can go. It is a lilly. Part of it is over my bone and part of it travels onto my foot / heel area.

My question / problem is this... I am in a huge amount of pain. I know what a tattoo should feel like due to the fact that I have others. I can hardly walk and it hurts half way up my leg and on the under side of my heel. Two of the petals are very raised and swollen but not a normal swollen at least not the "normal" that I have experienced before. And in those two areas it has pushed out almost all of the pink that was put in there. The area is also "weeping" a little as wounds will do but again, I have never had this happen before.

I had it done down in L.A. and I live in Washington state. I am consulting an artist when I get off of work 2day but I was wondering if anyone had some insight or suggestions to my situation.

Thanks

2007-02-07 04:59:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

without much budget/money, after college...? If I want to get a job back east for example and then think about going to grad school later, how realistic would it be for me to just pack up and leave this state and go to say DC and to be able to find an apartment, job etc. etc. on a very small budget, and completely on my own???
Please if you have experience with that - help!
thanks

2007-02-07 04:58:28 · 10 answers · asked by Jackie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 04:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by daks 2 in Friends

we're broke!

2007-02-07 04:56:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

usually in school,when i'm with my boyfriend we kiss and hug and all that stuff,but we dont feel the need to have a big kissing session in between every class.So today i walked my boyfriend to his class,then saw my ex(who is my best friend now) and he was in my class so told my bf i would walk with him, and my bf grabbed me and wouldnt let me go!Later on,when we saw this guy that all my friends say fancy me,he grave ma a big hug,then seeing the guy he asked me for a kiss(which he never does between class usually) and when i said no,walking away, he just stole one from me anyway!I felt annoyed by this.What do you think?

2007-02-07 04:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does that mean men are the rocks we crash against?

2007-02-07 04:56:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 04:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by Doubtful Debbie 2 in Singles & Dating

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The couple were married for just four short months, following a four year on-again off-again courtship. The divorce proceedings were basic, as the couple have no children together and the assets each brought into the marriage were halved.

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2007-02-07 04:56:01 · 3 answers · asked by qwerty t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 04:56:00 · 14 answers · asked by annie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have 4 flower girls (2 younger, 2 older) and my wedding is tropical. I would like 2 of them to toss shells (instead of flowers) and I need a job for the other 2 - any unique suggestions??
Thanks!

2007-02-07 04:55:42 · 12 answers · asked by TiffanyKaye 2 in Weddings

He is 22 and I am 21. We've been seeing each other about 3 months and last night we had a deep conversation about marriage. we always talk about it and what we think about it. He asked me that if he went into the military, what would I do, and I told him i'd ask him to marry me or break up with me. he later told me that made him think. Then last night he was saying how he wishes he was still young and innocent at 18 without worries and he feels that now his next step is to have children. I told him not many men his age think that way at all, and he said he is different.

He jokes about how he doesn't want me to get pregnant or he'll go broke. Last night i told him jokingly i want to have babies with him and he said what do you want them to look like.

and he also doesn't want me to take birth control, just condoms

Does he want to marry me if he's talking about this with me?

-confused

2007-02-07 04:55:42 · 13 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I also know that she recently had an affair and although they did not go all the way other things happened. She was really wild and free like in the beginning or our relationship. Bottom line is we have kids, and are trying to make it work but I need the things that she used to give me. She has told me that she did not cheat for sex and that I fulfill her but I still question the fact. What do I do to get things back to where we are totally hot together again?

2007-02-07 04:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by biggrazer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 04:55:25 · 7 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

A coworker is moving out of her husband's house this weekend and will soon be seeking a legal separation. I'm thinking she should take her name off of as many bills and loans as possible. They have a mortgage, a large loan from a bank, and of course utilities, etc. What can she take her name off of so that creditors don't come after her when her husband can't pay them (long story there, but he probably won't have money to pay)? HOW does she take her name off? Just call up the utilities company and say, take my name off?

2007-02-07 04:54:48 · 11 answers · asked by Katie L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Everything is great & we love eachother. But last night I guess my sex drive is very high. We usually do it everyday...but last night when I though it was going to happy he said " Baby please don't take this the wrong way but I tired. He said...just because we don't do it for a day or 2 does not mean I don't want you or love you. He said he gets tired & sometimes feels like he has nothing left inside and it hurts somtimes. I certainly don't want sex to become routine or that he feels like he has to give it to me. He said you make me happy and I just don't want to do it just to do it...I love it when it happens unplanned. Do I make sense? So I just wanted to see if this was normal...that I should not feel unwanted. Thank you everyone :) I must mentioned he has mentioned the " let's take a little break from time to time before" I'm not a machine lol

2007-02-07 04:54:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating