Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.
One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.
Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?
I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.
How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.
Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit
2007-02-07 05:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like you are sufferring from OCD. Excessive worrying about things that are not true or will not happen. You are happy. You are afraid something will stop that happiness. Even you. I cant tell you to relax because it is not that simple. I think that it is a good idea that you are taking meds. But when those thoughts come into your head dismiss them. They are not real. Focus on something else. Dont let anything steal your joy.
2007-02-07 05:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing him for alittle while ,if you end up missing him
and wanting to be with him then you may be more sure you love him.How fair is it to him not knowing weather you love him or not.5 months is not a long time to really know if you love someone or not anyway.All the best!!!
2007-02-07 13:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sandora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're over-thinking the situation. Just relax and go with the flow. I'm glad to know you're taking medication to help you with what appears to be a genuine anxiety problem.
2007-02-07 13:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pill wont help you much. sooner or later you still think about it again and again. Give yrself a break, try to be separated for a while, and see whats going on. If you miss him so much, its really tell you how much u needed him in yr life. One thing for sure its you, everything is in yr head, try to set it free, dont lock in. Take it out from yr head, by convicing yrself, by doing something to show or to prove yrself again. How much you really loves him.
2007-02-07 13:10:50 · answer #4 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
all you are doing is over thinking this and this could mean you love him alot but you are afrid that you are going to lose him. Dont worry about all that just go on with it and if you really feel that wya you do then fix it
2007-02-07 13:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by sexycanadiangall2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno why youre feeling that way. if your guy is there with you and being supportive. I hope you feel better. peace
2007-02-07 13:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋