i have a male friend and i broke up with him but he kept coming over he was really good friends with my parents well eight months later i called him at work and we went to lunch a few times i still care and love him and someone told me that he was married i asked him and he told me that when we first met he told me that he was married but separated and he was living home with his mom well my feeling are hurt because i think that he is lying i think that they are together but he says they are not well we had sex 3 days ago and after we were finished he stayed for a while and he left he didnt shower didnt wash nor shower befor he left he called me when he made it home please give me some answers
2007-02-07 05:01:04 · 18 answers · asked by shy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's married...........run as fast as you can the other way!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 05:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's lying, then why have sex with him? That's one of the most intimate and emotionally attaching things you can do with someone.
On the other hand, I think that if I was hiding an affair from my husband that I'd take a shower before I went back home after sex.
If he's legally separated and he's going forward with a divorce, then what's the hurt? If he's separated and doesn't seem to be thinking about divorce anytime soon, I'd rethink my feelings for him. You might want to walk the other way and find a single man who will be honest with you and who will value you.
2007-02-07 13:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Katie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go visit him at his house... where ever that may be. Call his home number. Just because he didn't shower doesn't mean he's not married, Maybe his wife was out for the evening and he took a shower at home, before she returned.
2007-02-07 13:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More then likely he is married... Dump him now and run the other way and move on with your life without this guy in it! You will be better off for it. he is only trouble and heartache to you and to his wife! Ask him for proof of his seperation or divorce too! I doubt he can prove it. You should not even think about being with him anways as he is not divorced from her . He is still married! Like I said get away from him asap and dont look back!
2007-02-07 13:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend did this to me. He got married while he and I were going out, after 4 1/2 years too. Anyway, The whole thing was is that even though someone is seperated, they are still married. My advise is to avoid him and wait until you know something for sure.
2007-02-07 13:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well now did he call you from his house or did he use his cell ? if he used his cell then he was calling from his car and was in the driveway . if he called you from his house then he may still be married but she was away . But i cannot imagine someone not showering before they went home to be with their wife or husband . Ewwww.. that is just sick . and I would be getting a drs appt you never know what else he may be leaving you with . think about that .
2007-02-07 14:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and stop seeing him as a friend for now till you get him out of your system.....if he aint married or getting a divorce or seperated, he too needs time to not get all tied up with the extra goodies ( you ). you dont want to be the rebound gal cause that isnt always successful. but most importantly show him how to respect you by respecting yourself.
2007-02-07 13:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your parents if he married I'm sure they Know. maybe he washed his *** when he got home. You should leave him alone if people say that he's married.Some women like to get violent when they find out their husband is cheating.Sooner or later shes going to find out who you are.
2007-02-07 13:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? What a slime--and he's getting your parents involved too?..Being nice to them to get to you?...And why would you sleep with someone who was not seriously dating you?..Are you asking to get hurt?...Learn from your mistakes and expect a bit better from and for yourself...What would your parents want for you?...Set the bar higher...
2007-02-07 13:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Shay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're wondering this AFTER you've slept with him? You'd have to do some investigating - we can't possibly know. Your gut instinct is usually a very accurate gauge - when you suspect something isn't right, it usually isn't.
2007-02-07 13:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is your ex why do you care if is married or separated? Just be happy that you got rid of him
2007-02-07 13:09:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋