Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

I recently met this guy. We have been dating for about 2 months. I really like him but he's been keeping the fact that he is still married a secret from me. He is in the middle of getting a divorce but I still feel uncomfortable dating or seeing him until his divorce is final. The bad thing I ended up knowing his wife I had went to school with her. She knows he is seeing someone but doesnt know that it's me. They do have kids. So I think the best thing for me to do is walk away right. I mean he lied to me. Or at least till his divorce is finalized. What should I do? I care about him and no we havent had sex thak god.

2007-02-07 05:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Valentines day needs to be special

2007-02-07 05:28:57 · 19 answers · asked by monkey_pg 1 in Singles & Dating

and her teacher thought I was her mother. I mean what the hell I'm only 18 how can ahe possibly be my daughter.It didn't really upset me that much.But seriously I'm not tall and everybody who sees me thinks I'm like 15 years old. What would you feel if you were put in the situation?

2007-02-07 05:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by Grace 2 in Family

2007-02-07 05:28:14 · 25 answers · asked by hotstuffd2000 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple days ago, the guy I liked found out that I liked him for sure (thanks to my "friends" bitching behind my back to be popular) He told them that he kinda knew, cuz I was being a bit obvious.. Now he only talks to me on MSN, and even then all he says is "hi". We used to be really close, and talk to eachother a lot. I want to be his friend now, not anything more. I want things to be the way they were. He doesn't know that I know (that he knows) and he is one of these "popular" guys and won't just talk to me......I dont think I have the guts to talk to him face to face.....I can't. I don't want to admit to him, JUST be his friend again....how do I do that?

2007-02-07 05:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by flashingsigns♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:27:25 · 3 answers · asked by What? 2 in Singles & Dating

What kind of birthday presants do you think i should get my girlfriend any ideas would be appreciated such as good perfumes and other stuff that girls like lol! Cheers!

2007-02-07 05:27:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i am 19 and my gf well she is 15 her mom is ok with it well the real problem is with her friend kevin he said to her that i was talking to him on her myspace and well he likes her and she kinda likes him back so it caused an arguement between me and her and she dumpped and he is taking advantage of her and asking her out well she told me we can date again when they break up but we can be friends with benefits but i dont want that cuz i love and she doesnt seem to wana listen to me. we have been dating for 6 months and i have been there for her for all the problems shes had and she just wont listen when i tell her he is taking advantage of her and she just gets madder and says u dont know kevin which i can say the same for her bc she has only known him 1 month and her friend kc even told her bout how kevin is cuz kc used to date him she said he is nothing special

2007-02-07 05:27:03 · 2 answers · asked by james d 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well its official. i really want this guy to know i like him but im really scared and keep expecting the worst. like hell say no or it will spread around school and people will keep talking about it and i dont want that to happen. im thinking about having my best friend go up and tell him someone likes him then after that drop the hints so he has a better view. i want him to know so bad. this happened the first time when he liked me but then one day something happened and im not going to get into it right now. so this chance is like a wake up call. so anything more i can do to drop hints. like touching, speaking, stuff like that. i just feel like if i dont do anything now it wont come again. so help me out. im 13. thanks!!

2007-02-07 05:26:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In other words, are you the first born, middle, or third or more child?
I am the devil may care.

2007-02-07 05:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Jen of Eve 3 in Family

My boyfriend has had a LOT going on; he got kicked out of his house, had to double up on classes to pass, is having some problems with money, and has just been really tired lately...he's been a little distant lately. He still says I love you when we get off the phone and still says Hi baby and hi beautiful and stuff...but our phone calls used to be an hour or longer and now they're 15 minutes and he doesn't talk much...I ask what's wrong and he says he's just tired. He still does nice things for me, but it's just not as much like he used to say he misses me all the time and we'd always talk about our future and how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He doesn't do it as much now and when I ask him about it he says "You know I do, it's never going to change"...so am I just over reacting? Do guys really just get distant when they have a lot of stuff going on? Do you think he's changing his mind about the future or is there just so much going on in his mind right now??

2007-02-07 05:26:00 · 4 answers · asked by imperfectsimplicity 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by R..S 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i went to chruch and shake everyone hands and there were 3 girls there and i go shake there hands and one of the girl i look in her eyes for long and she look in my eyes for long right after i shake her hand she start looking on the ground and smileing. then i shake more poeples hands and i go back to sit and i hear a wispering of 2 girls one girl i think she was talking about me i hear a lound wisper hes cute and her firend look at me then the girl who says it look at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fast were the girls talking about and does then girl likes me?

2007-02-07 05:25:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LOVE ME !!!!

2007-02-07 05:25:35 · 13 answers · asked by Dustbowl Blues 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we would like to be married march 11th. kinda in and out ceremony. and not that far of a drive from pennsylvania

2007-02-07 05:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Lori H 1 in Weddings

I can either take this 19 yr old or a 33 yr old to my cabin this coming weekend. The 19yr old is a great young woman, and says she can make me happy...but the 33 yr old has a proven track record, we've dated before!

any ideas?

2007-02-07 05:24:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 05:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by tyra 1 in Singles & Dating

Married for 15 years separated last year for about 8 months. Im not happy! I don't think shes happy(although she says she loves me) I dont think I know how to make her happy ... but we have a 12 year old daughter... to make matters worse we married very young and since I didn't want to go around spreading children I had a vasectomy, my biggest fear in leaving is that most women my age would probably want to start a family I don't want any more kids, but I also don't want to continue being miserable!

2007-02-07 05:23:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I seem to get along with girls my age (around 20 or so) but only when there's no attraction (like boyfriend-girlfriend attraction). I tend to get along with girls better than with guys.

Just so you know, I'm NOT GAY. Granted, I've been on one date my entire life, but that's because I'm so shy that I always get too scared to talk to girls I like. Besides, I have very few friends, and they aren't even close friends, just people I talk to at school when I run into them.

2007-02-07 05:23:35 · 4 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy went out for a couple of years. we broke up, tried staying friends, but in the end it was nothing but bitter. so we haven't really talked in ages.

then out of nowhere he emails me asking if i would stand in his wedding........wtf?! apparently he was secretly dating this girl and told everyone he was single. why he found the need to lie about it, i don't know.
so, why the hell would he ask me to stand in his wedding? things did not end on a high note for us, so it's not like we have been the best of friends.
anybody have any clue as to why he would ask his ex to be in his wedding?

2007-02-07 05:23:33 · 3 answers · asked by obvious 2 in Singles & Dating

My mentally ill brother is in the hospital and has no where to go when he is released. The hospital is going to set him up with a homeless shelter. He does not take care of his illness and usually ends up on my parents couch for a year or more. He is 35 and does not work. My parents are no longer willing to take him in. I recently married and my husband and I discussed before we married that we would never allow anyone to live with us. What do I do?

2007-02-07 05:23:31 · 5 answers · asked by bilowi 1 in Family

ive been wit my bfriend 4 a long time n our relationship has been over for ages, we both no this but he wont admit it and refuses 2 move out of our house( we both co-own it) anyway a guy we have both known 4 ages started paying me alot of attension and to cut along story short we slept 2gether....actually wev slept 2gether ALOT! heres the problem i think im falling 4 him but he is not the type to settle down, i know he has feelings for me but do i ask and risk him saying we shud stop seeing each other or do i just carry on and enjoy being with him? plz help, im goin crazy

2007-02-07 05:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by wkdbrd 1 in Singles & Dating

i flunked am exam in math and I have to tell my parents...but i don't know how to break it to them so it won't turn into a big fight.....cuz the'll say i didn't study enough...and they will be all mad and say nasty things to me...

2007-02-07 05:22:35 · 4 answers · asked by flaming red 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

*sigh* I am upset, mad, frustrated, angry, peed off, and any other "mad" word.
Why? Because NOBODY believes me that I didn't start a rumor.
About my 2 GOOD friends: Tori and Jacky. Here are the 2 rumors:
Rumor #1.) Tori said she hear from about 7 ppl that I started a rumor saying she was pregnant.
Rumor #2.) Ppl are saying that I started a rumor saying Jacky was pregnant, also.
Here's what I have to say about those:
R#1.) SHE DOESN'T EVEN LOOK PREGNANT. SHE'S MY GOOD FRIEND, I'M NOT LIKE THAT. I'M NOT A RUMOR-STARTER!
R#2.) ONCE AGAIN SHE DOESN'T EVEN LOOK PREGNANT! SHE'S ALSO MY GOOD FRIEND! I'M STILL NOT A RUMOR-STARTER!
But, thankfully I have other friends who say, "Sarah is NOT like that! She knows how hurtful it is to have a rumor started about her!"
And one of my best friends' dad works for our school. He's met me b4, and says that I'm not like that. I wouldn't start any rumors about ppl.
It still hurts. A lot of ppl are mad at me. I don't know what to do.
Help me

2007-02-07 05:22:15 · 21 answers · asked by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 in Friends

I like silver(wedding band) and my husband likes gold (wedding band) , is it ok to wear seperate colors like that?

2007-02-07 05:21:52 · 18 answers · asked by Darcher 3 in Weddings

his wife know about it and he tells him that i harrass her and calls her home and brag about our sex life. then he keeps treatining you about it that if you i dont stop calling his wife he will call the police. What would you do to prove you dont have nothing to do with that calls or maybe his wife made it up to turn him against me which is who cares about him after all this mess.

2007-02-07 05:21:00 · 17 answers · asked by loka 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a crush on this guy but he told me he was gay but then he grabbed my *** and i am getting the wrong message he says he is gay but he asked me to the dance. what should i do?

2007-02-07 05:19:40 · 5 answers · asked by baby_gurl_graves 1 in Singles & Dating

picks my side about the kids

2007-02-07 05:19:26 · 19 answers · asked by chrisandlindsayjohnston 4 in Family

I am a married man that would like to know if married woman find married men attractive. I ask this as I have a friend that is married and she hits on my all the time. I would be interested in her but that is too close to home.

2007-02-07 05:19:24 · 18 answers · asked by willy46232000 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for almost two years and I want it to be special and romantic PLEASE HELP ME.

2007-02-07 05:18:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating