ive been wit my bfriend 4 a long time n our relationship has been over for ages, we both no this but he wont admit it and refuses 2 move out of our house( we both co-own it) anyway a guy we have both known 4 ages started paying me alot of attension and to cut along story short we slept 2gether....actually wev slept 2gether ALOT! heres the problem i think im falling 4 him but he is not the type to settle down, i know he has feelings for me but do i ask and risk him saying we shud stop seeing each other or do i just carry on and enjoy being with him? plz help, im goin crazy
2007-02-07 05:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by wkdbrd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why stop. Sounds like u have a little happiness after alot of unhappiness for a change. Just set your boundaries and know that it will never be anything more than what it is right now.
Dont tell him anything, just roll with it. As long as you keep your mentality of just being what it is, then anything more will just be a plus.
In the meantime, get rid of the bf. Buy his portion of the house out, or push him out by being a total nag. He will wanna leave then. No point in dwelling in the same place. Thats just crazy.
2007-02-07 05:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the sex is good you should just keep enjoying it.
you need to resolve your domestic situation, either by fully separating or by accepting living with one and being serviced by another, or you could resume sexual relations with your bfriend as well as keeping your lover....but you should tell them both that it's just for pleasure and you are not ready for a commitment.
you really need to be making the best of the situation until you get a firm offer of marriage or until the ownership of the house can be agreed.
your bfriend isn't going to give up on the house, so a little quality time between the sheets may help negotiations.
2007-02-07 06:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but it really bugs me when women already know a bloke is not the settling down type and then start fretting about wether to broach the subject with him or not! If you want something more serious, speak to him and find out where you stand if it's good news then great if not, just move on and don't get too attached.
Then find someone who's actually right you!
2007-02-07 05:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in bad water hunny...this is a big no no...your going to hurt you b/f so bad when he finds out...I would keep your mouth shut and move out he cannot stop you and then make your choices..But this is not fair to your b/f at all
2007-02-07 05:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know he is only interested in having a good time,and doesn't want to settle down,so just don't get hurt when he decides he's been in this place long enough.
2007-02-07 05:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with the boyfriend if it is over sell the house split the equity and do your own thing by the way cheating never solves anything
2007-02-07 05:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt you rather know if he cares for you instead of not asking and eventually you guys break up cuz u werent sure of his feelings?
2007-02-07 05:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by michakitty87 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TELL HIM POINT BLANK THAT HE HAS ACTUALLY LEFT YOU BUT HE CANT JUST ADMIT.BECAUSE YOU HAVE TASTED THE LOVE OF THIS OTHER GUY YOU WILL BE ABLE TO IDENTIFY WHO WILL BE ABLE TO CARE,LOVE AND DO ALL SORTS OF THINGS THAT LOVE REQUIRES.
2007-02-07 05:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the fun, but take it for what it is.
2007-02-07 05:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
live for now and be happy to be commitment free.if its meant to be then it will last EAT FISH ABOVE IF THATS U YOUR NIIICE
2007-02-07 05:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋