i a women and i dont know why women have kids. do they have them to take care of them to pass time to keep them selves busy to to have them for their husbands.
kids can be a blessing but why do women have them. a lot of women do and please be nice
2007-02-07 04:38:49 · 20 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women's bodies are designed to have children, that's one reason. People like to re-create themselves as they have nothing better to do, that's another. Fear of loneliness in old age is another. Peer pressure can be a reason too. The ticking of the biological clock also forces some women into a "now or never" decision.
2007-02-07 04:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
I'm a mother. I have three kids.I had my babies because I got pregnant, though I saw it as a blessing and I was totally in love with their dad. An immature woman would have a child just to take care of it. But it's way easier to take care of a pet. I think a lot of people have kids because they got pregnant. And I think a lot of those people look at that pregnancy as a blessing. But there are a lot of those same people who look at that situation without really thinking and have that child. Children are a serious matter and I think no one really realizes before they have one how much they can change your life. Some people have kids because they think parenthood is "cute." Or they want to keep that other person, whether it's getting pregnant or getting that woman pregnant on purpose. Children are a burden and a blessing. For some, that blessing is just so huge and full of grace. For others, the burden is bigger and can be a regret.
2007-02-07 12:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Vasilly 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
They have children b/c they want to love and nurture them. It's a part of nature. They do want to share their love with their husband and create something that the both of them can be a part of and love. Some women have children just to keep a man but that doesn't always work out...Sometimes, it just happens and they are stuck to take care of them all by theirselves.
Some have them for companions or to live out their dreams through them. There are many different reasons why women have children. There are many women who wish that the males could have them too LOL!
2007-02-07 12:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons!
Genesis 35:11 says to be fruitful and multiply, so it is the most natural thing in the world.
Unfortunately, many people have babies that are unplanned, that probably accounts for millions of people in the world.
Babies are sweet, people are precious!
My first daughter was unplanned but so welcomed and loved.
My second daughter was a miracle and an unexpected blessing when I was unsure whether I could have another baby. I had a strong strong desire to have my husband's babies. I hope we have more. More than anything right now, I want my newborn to grow up with a sibling close in age to her so she always has a playmate.
Family is wonderful and I love people. Those are my reasons.
2007-02-07 12:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had my children because I wanted children and the time was right in my life for my husband and I to do so. I didn't have my children for my husband at all. I wanted a family and so did my husband.
Some women get pregnant on accident and decide to have the child regardless if there is a man involved at all, and that is their personal decision to do so.
2007-02-07 12:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many want children. and want to be moms... Some lower class women try to trap a guy for a mealticket.... it doensn't work... he leaves in less than 4 years, she has another with another guy, etc., etc. so you read of all of these women on welfare with 8 kids, 5 with different fathers. Big cities are filled with single moms with many children and no husbands.
More and more women are opting out of becoming moms.... In the US, Europe,,,,,,,,,,Italy, for example, has so few children that they are not even reproducing to keep their population up. If it were not for illegal Albanians, Italy's population would be declining... And even in third world countries(Africa, South America, etc.,) when women are given a chance for education, they don't even bother to marry..... because in most tribes, women are liabilities. (married couples in India if they can afford a sonogram, and find the foetus is female, abort it.)
Parents have to pay a ton to marry her off, in most third world and tribal societies....
2007-02-07 12:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my kids early because of fertility reasons but I've always wanted kids luckily i was with my now hubby from the age of 15 I'm now 28 and would love more they really are a blessing but only for people who are maternal its just something you feel in your heart alot of people have them for the wrong reasons though its something that shouldn't be decided lightly.
2007-02-07 15:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by t bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i like to think that we have kids because both ( woman&man) want them , like the completion of love
i know some women have them for other reasons but for me they are very selfish and i dont want to get into this
u cant have a child without wanting one just to put pressure on someone , or for money
anyway , i might be a dreamer but for me the reason should be love and nothing else
2007-02-07 13:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I believe that for the most part Women have kids with their husband or boyfriend cause they love them and they planned on it or it was a compleate accident due to carelessness and they raise it anyways cause they love it together. Me and my gf agreed to have a child and its definitly a blessing.
2007-02-07 12:43:55 · answer #9 · answered by Malice 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have a young baby and I can assure you it is NOT to pass the time, I run my own business with my husband and we take it in turn to look after our beautiful daughter.For me it felt very natural to have a child with the man I fell in love with. Its wonderful to be a family.
2007-02-07 12:46:48 · answer #10 · answered by looby 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋