Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

My husband and i have been together for almost three years. He hasnt had many relationships but i have. He has very stong morals and for some reason has never agreed with mine. He thinks that its ok for him to have a problem with other men looking at me. Recently i had a problem with a guy at work, he kept making dirty jokes witch i am used to cause i work in a restaurant. This didnt bother me an i didnt see why it should be a big deal to our realtionship. My view is that two people should love and trust each other enough so that people like that dont matter, if you make them matter by having a problem then you are bringing him into your relationship. I understand his view witch is if someone is disrespecting his wife then it disrespects him but he disrespected me by going down to my work and talking to my bosses. We have never seemed to be able to resolve this issue when it comes other men. Im sick of my morals not being as important as his, and i think it should be ok to feel sexy

2007-02-05 11:45:13 · 15 answers · asked by emesumau 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have insecurity issues. ive been with my girlfrienmd for five yrs. i cheated on her for seven months with one girl and she found out. we patched things over. this happened early in the relationship. because of circumstances and my alcoholism ive gone down hill and consiquently i have bad self esteem. my question is do people look at others and have sexual desire even though their in love with someone else?

2007-02-05 11:44:58 · 2 answers · asked by lewismcneillis 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 years old and still a virgin as in my teenage years i had problems dealing with some personal issues which meant i wasnt into all this as a teenager.
I guess now i have come up to this age, i have decided to only to do it after i get married. I know its not common for people to think like this and when i was asked this buy a close friend i felt kinda embarrassed saying it. I am just wondering what people think of this?

2007-02-05 11:44:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About a week ago I asked my boyfriend (of two years) if he looked at porn, out of curiosity. He said that he does, but very rarely, mostly when he's away from me. (He and I go to different colleges.)I honestly think porn's degrading to women and that a man should only be looking at the woman he's made a commitment to, but I didn't say anything about it. I guess he could tell I wasn't exactly happy about it, so he voluntarily said "I won't anymore. I don't want to make you sad. I promise I won't look at porn." And that was that. Yesterday I went to visit him and I was using his computer to check email. As I started to type into the internet bar, I saw porn sites pop up below. I wanted to see WHEN he looked at these sites, so I looked in the history and saw it had been the night before. I was little sad that he had looked at porn, but mostly upset because he had broken a promise to me that he willingly made. He's never given me a reason to distrust him. Is it wrong for me to be angry?

2007-02-05 11:44:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 11:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by farhad 1 in Weddings

I have met this girl who is absolutely amazing. Bright, cute and fun to talk to. I'm taking her on our first date this Friday. But what should I do on this date? The girl has done a lot of partying in her day, but something tells me she wants it to be a little romantic, stressing that Friday has to be one on one and neither of us are to be with friends. Actually, she's kind of a Bad Girl. Lol. She doesn't usually hang around people our age (late teens), she usually hangs with much, much older people. I'm just very confused on what to do. Little help?

2007-02-05 11:44:02 · 14 answers · asked by Drew 2 in Singles & Dating

hi im 12 years old i love god jesus and all but when it comes to loveing myself well i just hate myself i hate my face and the way i look i starved myself before but i stoped because i could not to continue to harm myself but agian i am over weight my mom says im find i weigh 130lbs. i have big breats my perid is a pain i pray to god but i think i need some help can any one please help me i have even staped myself before. i get made fun of at my school i have only one friend to truely talk to and its god i feel like everyone hates me i put myself down and tell myself im not as good as them thats not my fault there if people were not so cruel to me and gossip and hurt my feelings.people well kids treat me like i have a disease i just feel hated

2007-02-05 11:43:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy that im friends with in person never myspaces me or initiates convos thru instant messanger, what does that mean?
can he still like me?

2007-02-05 11:43:31 · 4 answers · asked by becca 3 in Singles & Dating

I had been talking to him for almost four years online, and we finally decided to meet. He came to visit my town for a week, he stayed at my house for 3 days and then went home. I found out two days ago that everything I knew about him...his age, his occupation, his past history.. Was a lie. He had been lying to me for four years.

I feel incredibly used and angry and hurt.. I feel betrayed..we made love and I gave myself to him..mind, body, spirit and now everything I knew was a lie.

He has since come up with many excuses as to why he lied,and has said that he loves me..will always love me ..but once he had lied, he was afraid to tell me the truth. He was afraid to lose me..so he was going to tell me when we met, but chickened out.

He wants me to give him another chance..to get to know -him..- I'm still furious and told him where to go..that I never wanted to talk to him again...but my heart hasn't caught up with me yet.. I miss him so much.

I need some advice...

2007-02-05 11:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my friend got in a fight and i was kidding but know she thinks i was not and if i tell her i was kidding now she wont beloive me

2007-02-05 11:41:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

thers this girl that likes me and i like hur and i wana ask hur out i nw she will say yes...bt i dnt just wana ask hur out like w.e so i had this idea. like 4 the summer ima go 2 europe so i was like do wana come she was like yes hur momn would let hur so i was thinking of asking hur out on top of the Eiffel tower all romontic u nw what i mean?? so what u ppl think?? my friends think its stupid

2007-02-05 11:41:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About a month ago my b/f friend broke up with me. I was deverstated but as time went on i relised he was a jerk. I did'nt hear anything from him for over a month now he is calling me all day and night showing up at my house just begging me to give him another chance. i said no and i mean it but he won't give up. It is tearing me up because i know exactually how if feel cose it was not that long ago i was the one asking him not to leave. What should i do to help him let go? Should i ignore his calls? or should i answer and be him friend cose i am happy to be his friend but i just don't won't to make it any harder for him.

2007-02-05 11:41:24 · 11 answers · asked by k_lollie 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this great guy in his 30s.hes fun,likes to do the thinds i do,caring,exellent dad,hard worker ect.the problem is hes divorced with an only child that he has 50% of the time thats really spolied and demandes my bfs attention all the time.plus his exwife is in your face, golddigger type,still calls the shots,jealous of me,and calls my bf consently for the smallest thing regarding thier son which leads into personal things about her.now add he has 20k in debt and with a huge child support payment,plus pays most of daycare and health care.should i bail or is this just what you have to deal with datting a divorced man?

2007-02-05 11:39:37 · 14 answers · asked by heather97greener 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy, lets call him shawn says that these black dress up pants that i wear looks nice on me and he likes my butt in them. am i reading him wrong or does he like me. i need help its driving me crazy

2007-02-05 11:39:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this great guy in his 30s.hes fun,likes to do the thinds i do,caring,exellent dad,hard worker ect.the problem is hes divorced with an only child that he has 50% of the time thats really spolied and demandes my bfs attention all the time.plus his exwife is in your face, golddigger type,still calls the shots,jealous of me,and calls my bf consently for the smallest thing regarding thier son which leads into personal things about her.now add he has 20k in debt and with a huge child support payment,plus pays most of daycare and health care.should i bail or is this just what you have to deal with datting a divorced man?

2007-02-05 11:38:58 · 22 answers · asked by heather97greener 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i get angry and mad and cry and i still love him and we have done went through counseling and of course he chose his job over his family mr detective, but my problem is i dont know how to put it behind me and go on ,,i have a daughter and i stay busy with her but i sometimes get jealous inside of myself bc she misses him and i feel like she loves him more than me when hes the one who left me and i know its ridicoulous to feel that way but i am just having all these stupid feelings . someone help me understand myself i have never been through this before.

2007-02-05 11:38:49 · 11 answers · asked by katie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am worried about when i get married and do it for the first time that it wont be enjoyable at all and i have hured by many people that it hurts really bad. Please tell me your experiance with your first time and if it hurt and if you can, can you tell me exactly the feeling? I am scared!!!! Please Help!!!

2007-02-05 11:38:27 · 21 answers · asked by peace love & lipgloss 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like i can be better at relationships, but i dont know how. I am definetly not a girl you can just hook up, and never talk again. I just want to know what guys are really looking for?

2007-02-05 11:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when do u say i love u? whens 2 soon?

2007-02-05 11:38:13 · 11 answers · asked by littleprincessbond 1 in Singles & Dating

WHAT SHOULD I DO....? PLEASE HEPL!
I AM IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY, I MET HIM WHEN I WAS 18, AND WE HAVE BEEN SEEING EACHOTHER FOR TWO YEARS, I AM NOW 20, AND HE IS NOW 33, HE KNOWS ABOUT ME BEING A VIRGIN, AND WE HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING YET, BUT I WAN TO. I MET HIM WHEN HE WAS AROUND 31. SHOULD I DO ANYTHING WITH HIM OR NOT. I KNOW THAT THE AGE MAY BE MEESED UP BUT I DON'T WANT TO FOCUS ON THAT....! HE SAYS HE'S READY WHEN I AM, AND HAS NEVER PUSHED ME OR ASKED ME TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM, HE HAS ONLY BEEN WITH 4 PEOPLE, AND HE HAS NO KIDS, AND WANTS THEM LIKE I DO.WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE HELP...!

2007-02-05 11:37:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 11:37:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i have a "friend" and everytime i tell this "friend" about something that is bugging me he goes and tells his friend all about it and it makes me upset because most of the time i would rather not have her know. I feel like i can't trust him

2007-02-05 11:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by cherytwist 2 in Friends

My friend Chris likes to call me babe and hun when he knows I have no romantic intrest in him. Its really annoying. I've asked him to stop and he doesn't listen. What do I do?

2007-02-05 11:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Friends

This friend of mine refuses to leave her husband even tho he treats her like his property (A slave) complains the kids took away his freedom, Planned to have the bank foreclose on thier home, cheats on her and wishes out of the marrage. She says she stays because she loves him and wants him to change his mind and stay and love her and the 4 kids!

2007-02-05 11:37:01 · 8 answers · asked by dan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Everyday i really miss him, no point i call him because already know impossible get back together. i cried everyday. my heart feel very pain and suffer. almost 3yrs relationship. Please help me to forget him.

2007-02-05 11:36:41 · 5 answers · asked by babyga1 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom recently overcame breast cancer. My fiance and I do not want gifts for our wedding, but would rather ask people to make a donation to the breast cancer society in our names. I know you are not supposed to put registry cards or requests for money in your wedding invitations, but can we put a separate insert with our donation request in with the wedding invitations?

2007-02-05 11:35:52 · 17 answers · asked by gettingmarriedsoon 1 in Weddings

He is telling the truth and is concerned, however, he is not attracted to her. Neither is cheating....But how common is this??? There have been minor attempts on her end but got cold quick.
If you were in this relationship, what would you be thinking? (this is kinda obvious)

2007-02-05 11:34:34 · 20 answers · asked by MrsJR 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, im 13, and idk, i think some1 likes me, but i cant b sure so help me please! thanks!

2007-02-05 11:33:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

'Women get married in white to match all other dommestic appliences'

This comment was made a while ago by Bernie Exxlestone of F1 fame. Do people still think like that or is he just a dinasour?

2007-02-05 11:33:16 · 29 answers · asked by footynutguy 4 in Weddings

HE has everything!! He has a new watch, new cologne, new video games, new DVD's, new clothes....I am stuck!!!! He is 30 years old, loves sports, music, movies, golf....need help!!

2007-02-05 11:33:02 · 5 answers · asked by brooklyn7582 5 in Singles & Dating