hi im 12 years old i love god jesus and all but when it comes to loveing myself well i just hate myself i hate my face and the way i look i starved myself before but i stoped because i could not to continue to harm myself but agian i am over weight my mom says im find i weigh 130lbs. i have big breats my perid is a pain i pray to god but i think i need some help can any one please help me i have even staped myself before. i get made fun of at my school i have only one friend to truely talk to and its god i feel like everyone hates me i put myself down and tell myself im not as good as them thats not my fault there if people were not so cruel to me and gossip and hurt my feelings.people well kids treat me like i have a disease i just feel hated
2007-02-05 11:43:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie please don't starve yourself that is just crazy, you are not overweight i too was 130 around 12 15 years old its normal your body is changing and it is alot for a person to deal with i also didn't like to look at myself an a lot of woman don't every time we look in the mirror we are criticizing our selves ... dang i shouldn't had that candy bar my butt looks huge.... oh i should have done 500 crunches..... i need moisturizer on my face ...... i should have seen my waxer...... we are our own worst enemy about school all i can say is don't worry study that will pay off in the long run in 3 4 years in high school you will have tons of friends or even when you graduate an go to college or work, look into some church youth groups you can find some good friends there or even a boyfriend ....... an about your period take some Advil every 8 hrs it will take care of them cramps an make it go lighter for you good luck you seem like a sweet girl i know if we were the same age an went to school together we would have been good friends. keep your chin up an god bless ps if you ever need to talk e mail me at justanotherrodeogirl@hotmail.com
2007-02-05 12:15:21 · answer #1 · answered by rodeogirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a Christian Girl but I am a Christian Boy saved by the Lord Jesus Christ and God created you the way you are for a reason. Your Body is Gods body. Read 1 Corinthians 6:20.Just dont make things hard for yourself. Just live for and glorify God for he is worthy!
2007-02-05 19:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by JKB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay A. if you love god why hate yourself? love thy self as you would god. who cares if people treat you like a disease, hell i sit in my room and jam out by my self, i dont really hang out with alot of people and alot of people think im weird so it's just me, granite my music isnt the typical Llamb of God) but hell be fine with your self the 20 or so pounds are probly from your huge knockers hell be proud of them. im dating a beautiful red head with huge ones too and hell it's not the outside it's inside now think more if your self i know you have potential out the ***! now take the world by the balls twist em and run with it look more positive and love god as you would love yourself, be more poditive and up lifting dont bow your head and let the waves crash upon your soul, open your eyes stair your enemy down open your arms and spread the sea to create your own path do not sink to a level of unimaganble deapths of dispar but rise rise above all and look down at all the sad fish swimming the same ways and doing the same things you and i are different **** what they think, go and be yourself love god and create your own path and may god one day seperate the evils of this land and clense us all to love and see what is good inside us all, i believe you are beautiful both inside and out
2007-02-05 19:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋