Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I have been hanging out with this guy for about a month now, the first week or so he would call me all the time and want to hang out with me everyday and he seemed really interested. Recently he doesn't seem the same at all, he still asks me to hang out with him a couple times a week and calls sometimes but he treats me like his buddy and has stop acting interested in me romantically. I don't know what happened. Could it be because I backed off in the beginning because he was coming on so strong? Is he waiting for me to make a move or did he just suddenly become uninterested in me in that way?

2007-02-05 11:09:04 · 3 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is going into the military. Anyway, he has a son that we don't get to see very often because we don't see eye to eye with his mother. She has never let us see much of the baby and our son always went along with her except every now and then when she was working, he would let us see him. To make a long story short, they have split up and he will be leaving soon. He has told her he wants his family to see the baby while he is gone and he will be sending her money for the baby. If she still gives us a hard time about seeing the baby, is there anything we can do about it?

2007-02-05 11:09:04 · 1 answers · asked by Angela F 5 in Family

My sister in law wants my step son to stay in school until he earns his high school diploma. My step son is so behind in his studies, thats he will not graduate. I want him to get a part time job, since he doesn't want to study. My sister in law knows he won't study, but is against my wanting him to get a job. My husband (his father) won't be strict with him about his studies. My step son is 17 yrs old who spends hours on the computer and has no job. Help!

2007-02-05 11:08:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hubby and I are seperated. in our marriage there has been alot of pain, verbal and physical abuse,cheating, etc.we tried counseling didn't work so we've been seperated now for 5 months. yesterday he called me,he got out of control, starting bawling and crying, sometimes yelling,telling me he can't live this way,he's got to find someone else and move on,that I don't love him, that this is who he is and he's not gonna change,he said i'll accept his financial help but not him and that he won't be screwed over anymore, he called me a cheater,he said what I did was worse than anything he's ever done to me and will affect him forever he finished by saying he will come and get the kids so he can be around someone who loves him,unconditionally. that is what he needed right now.after this, I spent the rest of the evening having an emotional breakdown,my nerves were jerking, i felt anything from fear, guilt, exhaustion, and broken.i sat in the dark for hours, crying. later i was angry. what's up

2007-02-05 11:07:52 · 9 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the cure

im good looking and all

2007-02-05 11:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by Sergey 2 in Singles & Dating

My son is going into the military. Anyway, he has a son that we don't get to see very often because we don't see eye to eye with his mother. She has never let us see much of the baby and our son always went along with her except every now and then when she was working, he would let us see him. To make a long story short, they have split up and he will be leaving soon. He has told her he wants his family to see the baby while he is gone and he will be sending her money for the baby. If she still gives us a hard time about seeing the baby, is there anything we can do about it? Her mom has been very selfish with the baby and has had a lot of input so far and is now taking care of the baby alot because the mother is out running around.

2007-02-05 11:07:19 · 1 answers · asked by Angela F 5 in Family

My guy friend or i REALLY like is kinda being werid these last couple of days so i desided to go on a date . before i left my friend came over to see whats up and to say hi to my dad , When i walked out he just kept staring at me cause i was lookin good that nite :) Anyways he said where u goin ? I said out with a friend , he got an attitude like oh ok . Well i told him afterwards that i would meet up with him and my dad at the hardrock cafe to party for superbowl weekend. I was gone maybe an hour . I ended up metting them and he seem to be really excited to see me and asked if i had fun i said not really he is not my type he just smiled and said he was sorry if he was being rude i accepted and then he was being really sweet and very talkative . WHAT is his deal ?

2007-02-05 11:07:15 · 2 answers · asked by I_luv_my_kids<3 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so everyone @ schoool is sayin im emo but im not and i just dress/look emo not act how do i get people to stop saying im emo?

2007-02-05 11:06:47 · 25 answers · asked by cali_icedragon 2 in Friends

2007-02-05 11:06:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has asked me before, and I have kind of skirted the question. Now, because of some things that have happened in both our lives, I think its time I actually talk to her about it, but at the same time, I don't want to upset her or make her feel guilty for my problems, 'cause they're not her fault.

2007-02-05 11:06:06 · 17 answers · asked by wonderer152 2 in Friends

He is like a huge Bears fan (he is from Chicago), and I dont like the Bears. So we made a bet that if the Bears win I will do whatever he wants for a week. And if I win, he has to do what I want for a week. But I've like never won a bet before, so I dont know what to have him do. Anyone have any ideas? He says he'll do anything i want.

I learned from a friend of his that if he won he was going to have me wear real sexy clothes for the week.

Thanks for any ideas....

2007-02-05 11:04:52 · 29 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Singles & Dating

ok hi so I have a bf and well we adore eachother but we are teenagers here he is always trying to kiss me and hug on me and stuff... I hug on him and stuff but sometimes I refuse kissing him BUT when I get home I regret not kissing him... IDK if I'm just scared or what .... I absolutely adore him and love him so much though

2007-02-05 11:04:25 · 20 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I separated a month prior, she immediately filed for divorce but it hasn't been finalized as of yet. Yesterday she said that she wanted to repair our relationship, and that she hoped that I still loved her and wanted to repair the relationship as well. She also informed me that she feels she made a horrible mistake when she had tried to rekindle a relationship with her ex-husband and the father of her children (for the childrens sake) she admitted she slept with him in the past week and thats when she realized that they were finished and that she feels her place is with me now. We've all heard the cliche "Once a cheat, always a cheat" and I feel thats probably the truth in most situations,and probably in this one as well, but my question is does anyone have any ideas in which we could repair our relationship? or am i to optimistic, and better off divorced from this woman?

2007-02-05 11:04:20 · 11 answers · asked by dannyjohn4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 11:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by broad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she has brand new clothes of her own but she still tends to wear mine. why is that? what can i do to make her stop wearing my clothes? what can id say to her to get her to stop wearing my clothes all the time??
help!!!!

2007-02-05 11:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by *BABY NENA* 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married almost two years. We got married very quickly after meeting. Now, I'm feeling smothered and annoyed all the time. He's always mad over everything I do or say. He's never cheated or been violent, but he is constantly angry. Almost like a five year old who isn't getting his way... Anyway, I've been advised to try and work it out, but when I suggested a marriage councelor to him, he flat out refused. He demands that I move away from my friends and family at the end of the year. He also has become EXTREMELY jealous, telling me who I can and can't be friends with. As much as I love him, I'm fed up. Is it worth sticking around and trying to save? Or should I let it go? Either way it's going to suck... Can someone help me out here?

2007-02-05 11:03:49 · 5 answers · asked by Darling Nikki 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 11:03:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

anyone ever date a controll freek. wow, what should i do?good sex thoe im confused!

2007-02-05 11:03:28 · 16 answers · asked by wis12pack 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend, who i love some much even though she broke up with me, left me. I still love her and i want her back so what do i do??? Help me out here yall!!!

2007-02-05 11:03:26 · 17 answers · asked by super_nole 1 in Singles & Dating

The first 17 years of my life I thought the man my mom was married to was my biological father. Then I accidently found some papers that said I was adopted at 1 year old. I asked my mother about it she became very upset and all she would tell me was the mans name.

I dug around on the net and I think I've found this man. He's about 70 now. I'm 41. I really have no feeling for this guy. I would just like to see what he looks like though. He lives in another state.

Have any of you had a similar experience? How was it?

2007-02-05 11:02:17 · 3 answers · asked by philosofurrier 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do you guys know any ther website like it?

2007-02-05 11:01:54 · 8 answers · asked by Omar S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 11:01:22 · 2 answers · asked by Sofea 1 in Singles & Dating

omg ok so my bestfriend kelsey, we're so close and we are with eachother constantly, i pay a lot of attention towards her but my other bestfriend (not as much as kelsey) kim is getting annoyed and says that we are like obbsessed with eachother and i feel bad but shes like a drug that i cant get off of and i talk about kel all the time and im afraid i might loose kim bcuz of my relationship with kelsey
what do i do??

p.s i already told kim about this and she said its true

2007-02-05 11:00:23 · 13 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Friends

my ex finished with me 4 weeks ago over an argument at work. She was with me for 8 weeks and got with me 4 weeks after leaving her 4 year bf. Over the past 8 weeks i have been with this girl i treated her like a princess, spoilt her with gifts i was tooo nice 2 her. Now wen i ask her to get back with me she says she likes me, she fancies me, and has got feelings for me but can only give me friendship for now. i really really like her what do i do ??? i used to txt her and ring her often, and now i have stopped doing that. i have not txt her for 2 days now and she hasnt either, my ex gf doesnt usually send sms first nobody, even if her best mate doesnt txt her she doesnt txt either. i want to give her some space but also find out if shes ok, how many days or weeks after should i txt to see if shes ok and if she is feeling different ? Also her parents are on holiday for a week so i know show wont miss my attention as much because she is enjoying her self while her parents are away! help

2007-02-05 10:59:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy and he is really bad [drinks, smokes, the whole nine yards] and i cant stop thinking about him and i know i cant like him because all my friends would flip. i want to call him but i havent talked to him in forever so wouldnt that seem weird? what should i do?

2007-02-05 10:58:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 10:58:27 · 9 answers · asked by dreams2much 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 10:58:14 · 7 answers · asked by Tamara S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my youth group has 12 people minimun in it sometime this yr we r giong to new york city either this winter, this summer or this spring. i really wanna go. i get two days two days off in march and thats it till end of the year. two people are homeschooled and msot liekly cannot take breaks. of the majority of people's schedules works out for the two days i have off they will go to new york city (we go on a weekend)). the problem is i dont know what to do, ive ben offered a four-day trip to Canada but i would take nyc over it. if im the only one who cant go then ill miss it. teh canada trip form is due soon so i wont have time tto find out everybodys schedules.what should i do go or stay

2007-02-05 10:58:02 · 1 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 10:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's awful... But true...

I used to be a prostitute for a period of 3 months when i was 19 years old, ( I was desperate ) now i'm 25 and in love with a guy...

Now I don't know if should i tell him that i was a prostitute or not...

Would you leave a BF for this ??

Please help me decide !!

2007-02-05 10:57:23 · 35 answers · asked by Look-At-ME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships