omg what do i do?

Question

omg ok so my bestfriend kelsey, we're so close and we are with eachother constantly, i pay a lot of attention towards her but my other bestfriend (not as much as kelsey) kim is getting annoyed and says that we are like obbsessed with eachother and i feel bad but shes like a drug that i cant get off of and i talk about kel all the time and im afraid i might loose kim bcuz of my relationship with kelsey
what do i do??

p.s i already told kim about this and she said its true

Answer 1

well y dont u bring kim along when ur with kelsey and r u really obsessed with her?

Answer 2

Talking about one friend to the other can really put a strain on the friendship. It makes you sound like you are comparing the two friends, or that you miss Kelsey when you are with Kim.

I suggest that you mend the situation by bringing these two "best friends" of yours together. What's wrong with a trio? I bet you'll find that the three of you have a lot in common. Kelsey and Kim have at least one thing in common: They both have a great friend in you!

Have fun with your friends!

Answer 3

do you think you spend too much time with kelsey? do you feel like you're actually obsessed with kelsey? and do you feel like you need a break from kelsey?
if your answer is yes to any of the above questions, you probably need to spend a little time apart from one another.
it's great having a best friend, but when all you talk about, think about, obsess about, is that person, you're over doing it a bit.
try to be friends with kim too, and include her in some of the activities you usually do with kelsey. if you usually go to the movies with kelsey on friday nights, include kim. and make her feel welcome. if you usually go to the mall with kelsey, ask kim to go with the two of you, and have fun with her. make kim feel included in your friendship and activities with kelsey. it will be good for all of you!
Best Wishes!

Answer 4

that always happens. you have a better realtionship wit kelsey. thats ok. Maybe kim is jealous because kelsey is all you talk about. Dont talk about her and kim will probably start to accept all of yall being eachothers friends.

Answer 5

Tha't hard because some people just click better then others!
If Kim is a true friend..she'll hang in there and try to hang out with you when she can!

Just never compare the friends or talk bad of one to the other!

Remember...The more Friends the Merrier and to get friends......you have to be one!

Answer 6

i remember high school drama - i had the same situation. you gotta stick it out and explain to kim that you love her too but kelsey is a different type of friend that you cant live without. explain that you love both of them but certain things are gonna seem unfair.

Answer 7

If Kelsey's ur best friend then Kim should understand if she doesnt then shez not a true friend anyway.

Answer 8

well you could try spending time with both of them at the same time or set aside EQUAL amounts of time for them both so that neither friend feels left out. if this doesn't work then you might have to ask yourself why your frined wants you to choose one or the other. talk to them both at the same time and put all the cards on the table. in this day and age if you are not entirely open with your closest friends then who are you truthful with???

Answer 9

That's a tough one, why don't you get them both together so that both your friends can get to know each other? Maybe if they know each other more, you'll all be able to hang out without a fight. It worked with my friends, it may not be the best way, but it works.

Answer 10

Well you need to tell both of them that the more the merrier! You shouldnt have to be put in a position like that.