My husband and I have been married almost two years. We got married very quickly after meeting. Now, I'm feeling smothered and annoyed all the time. He's always mad over everything I do or say. He's never cheated or been violent, but he is constantly angry. Almost like a five year old who isn't getting his way... Anyway, I've been advised to try and work it out, but when I suggested a marriage councelor to him, he flat out refused. He demands that I move away from my friends and family at the end of the year. He also has become EXTREMELY jealous, telling me who I can and can't be friends with. As much as I love him, I'm fed up. Is it worth sticking around and trying to save? Or should I let it go? Either way it's going to suck... Can someone help me out here?
2007-02-05 11:03:49 · 5 answers · asked by Darling Nikki 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he's not willing to do anything to change things then how are things going to get better? He sounds very controlling. If you give in and isolate yourself from your friends and family what will be the outcome? Will he all of a sudden become happy with things or will he have that much more power and control over you and push things even further? You also seem to be saying that he's never cheated on you or hit you as if that's supposed to be something in his favour. It's not, that's how people should treat each other. In short if you're going to stick around and try to make things work he has to honestly try to do the same thing. Otherwise it won't work.
2007-02-05 11:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by buzzbomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never over. Any marriage can be saved..trust me.
Remember all relationships are 50/50. Look in the mirror and find out what your half is. Also remember a person will only treat you how you allow them to treat you..
In saying that, counseling and some therapy. Easy work here.
Later.
2007-02-05 11:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by The Internet Is Yours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you could be in an emotionally abusive marriage. Your husband is trying to control you--don't confuse it with love. A good book to read is "The Emotionally Abusive Relationship" by Beverly Engel. Read it before you decide what to do. Good luck and God bless you.
2007-02-05 11:55:02 · answer #3 · answered by lizz_ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm try 'smothering' him some...maybe he'll welcome you to have some free time with family and friends. a jealous guy usually will be more jealous after marriage...now youre his 'object'. try to do some things that make him realize youre his lovely partner and not a piece of furniture. good luck dear. peace
2007-02-05 11:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs anger management classes and help and if he does not get this you have to leave or it will get only worse....I wish you the best. He seems abusive and controlling. If it were me i would leave though.
2007-02-05 11:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋