I had been talking to him for almost four years online, and we finally decided to meet. He came to visit my town for a week, he stayed at my house for 3 days and then went home. I found out two days ago that everything I knew about him...his age, his occupation, his past history.. Was a lie. He had been lying to me for four years.
I feel incredibly used and angry and hurt.. I feel betrayed..we made love and I gave myself to him..mind, body, spirit and now everything I knew was a lie.
He has since come up with many excuses as to why he lied,and has said that he loves me..will always love me ..but once he had lied, he was afraid to tell me the truth. He was afraid to lose me..so he was going to tell me when we met, but chickened out.
He wants me to give him another chance..to get to know -him..- I'm still furious and told him where to go..that I never wanted to talk to him again...but my heart hasn't caught up with me yet.. I miss him so much.
I need some advice...
2007-02-05 11:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, I'm so sorry you had to go through that! Lying is ugly. I would be thankful that he's not your husband or the father of your children and walk away. Maybe even break into a run. And NEVER look back. Forgive, don't forget, and move on. Good luck to you.
2007-02-05 11:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a Pretty big lie, i just dont know after that elaborate of a lie if i could trust him again...
2007-02-05 11:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ttech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get an honest guy, because if you don't your whole life will be just one big lie. You'll get over him. Just give it time. And how can you ever trust him?
2007-02-05 12:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how bad he lied. if he said he was a doctor and works a mcdonalds, thats bad
2007-02-05 11:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by lewismcneillis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋