Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

Husband has been acting like a world class jerk but will not admit it or the fact that he has hurt my feelings.

2007-01-27 11:26:49 · 27 answers · asked by blaak_grl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 11:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm in love with a female coworker that I must be with everyday at work. The problem is she is seeing another guy and it appears to be getting serious. She really likes this guy alot and I think the feeling is mutual. The only problem is out of 60
coworkers, I am the only person to know about their relationship. The girl slipped upone night while drinking a few too many martinis and spilled the beans. I wish she didn't tell me this because it bothers me to know she is always thinking about him. She constantlytext messages him at work in front of me and talks about him with me because I am the only coworker that knows about them. I don't want to destroy their relationship, however I don't want to continue to carry on a friendship with a girl that I have deeper feelings for. Should I just tell her that I can't be friendly with her because of how I feel, or continue to supress my feelings,ride the storm out and hope my feelings change? She's a really great person

2007-01-27 11:25:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 11:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by bbscr12 1 in Singles & Dating

thats ok i hate to ask cause you have this female thats being very funny on her oneday she will need help also ,i hate to ask thsi question

2007-01-27 11:24:40 · 4 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a friend of mine some stuff about my past, and now people are confronting me about it, what do I do? I also have to work with this person, so I can't make it too uncomfortable, 3 day a week I have to see her. I am really angry, and I feel really hurt.

2007-01-27 11:24:36 · 28 answers · asked by heycodaim 1 in Friends

what should you do??? Because if you "stick it out" you may never be happy and end up breaking up in another couple of years...who knows. OR you could break up now while you are still young and try to find someone better. BUTTT what if you try to find someone better but you end up only finding people that werent as good as what you originally had????

I am so confused!!!!!!

2007-01-27 11:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well there is more to it. we have been going out for over a month and we have never really had a first date. I don't mind that much but i feel like he is really detached from me. So this week I said to him this weekend that i really wanted to see this new movie with him and that it was a 7:30 today, cause he is busy before then. I thought he might take a hint since i told him the movie and the time. and today he tells me can't. I am going to be gone next weekend so we can't do anything then. Even now after all that i still wouldn't have minded that much but i feel like he might not really like me and that the only reason he asked me out was cause he was on the rebound. i told him all this and how I felt and he said he felt sick and didn't even say good bye. i really like him but because of that response i don't know what to think. what should I do I am so confused.

2007-01-27 11:23:10 · 10 answers · asked by kddg2 2 in Singles & Dating

smell...honey, roses, violets, mimosa, lily of the valley, jasmine, carnations,

touch...feathers, ice or the sensation of hot and cold on bare skin

taste...anything tasted blindfold, champagne, a lover

sight...rainfall, snow falling, moonlight, fire, certain animal behaviour, any show of basic instinct, a lovers secret smile

hearing...the silence when snow falls, rainfall, whispering in my ear...

they are but a few of mine...now how about yours?...


yes ive done this before but there are always new people and its good fun...;0)

2007-01-27 11:22:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give me some tips that'll make him notice me. PLEASE!!!!! He so hottttttttttt!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-27 11:21:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok guys theres this new girl right and in a class trip we hooked up in the bus (we are kinda friends) so then about 2 months after that we hooked up again at her house... (we are not dating... and the first time we hooked up i was kinda desperate and she had a boyfriend) shes okish looking right. Then yesterday we went a buncha people over her house, then there were a bunch of people making out except for me her and 2 other guys. She was all over my best friend right, and they almost hooked up about 3 times. She also jumped on him while he had his boxers and no shirt on... and they didnt make out or anything. My best friend could have hooked up with her if he wanted to but didnt. I heard from one of my girl friends that she said she wasnt gonna hoook up with anyone yesterday... but why did she do all that? What do i do? Its all so friggin confusing =/

2007-01-27 11:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by Leo P 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend could be in THE WORST mood ever! Hating everything about life, but mostly me. Then one of her friends calls ( that she really doesnt like anyway ) and she will be the nicest person to her??? I get the wrath of her mood and everyone else gets the normal pleasant her!!

Seriously I mean a telemarketer can call and this will be her..... " Oh Thank you Mr. Telemarketer for calling right in the middle of dinner! I am soooo glad you called, here is my credit card number, I want everything you have to offer!" ** Hangs up the phone***

***Looks over at me*** What the #%@$ are you looking at??? you no good pile of........well you get the point!

So why does this happen and what can I do about it?????

2007-01-27 11:21:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not want to life my lfe all by my self.

2007-01-27 11:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Deana P 1 in Singles & Dating

Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.

2007-01-27 11:20:09 · 4 answers · asked by Nini 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I plan on having four bridesmaids for my wedding but they are all "busty" and I want them to look nice for the wedding, what are some flattering styles of dresses that will look nice on them? I don't want anything real clingy because a couple of them are "hippy" also. And where can I find them/what are some websites I can look at? Has anyone else had this happen to them?

2007-01-27 11:19:40 · 15 answers · asked by new breath 2 2 in Weddings

or
Do you ask God why he didn't stop you from making a bad getting married decision?

Do you think God knows the future and he cud have stopped you from being in a bad marriage?

Or you think it has little to do with God if one makes foolish decisions (you know something is wrong but still marry) and have to pay for it?

Do you get mad and depressed at yourself? How do you console yourself in bad relationship?

I hear this all the time "Deserve better" then, why someone gets into a mess in the first place?

2007-01-27 11:18:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend likes to hang out next door at her neighbords. They are a young married couple. We have been together for a year. I know that she and her neighbord (male) hook up once (2-3 years ago) while his wife was out of town. She told me. And I always wonder about if is someting going on still there. And she knows i wonder. One day I came from work late at nite (5 months ago) and while this guy wife was out of town, my g/f and him were in the backyard drinking in the dark and hanging out. When I got there they were both accting weird. anyway I told her that I dont want her to hang out next door cause they smoke together and his wife until today does not know and they became good friends. I dont like and i think is wrong that she goes next door all the time and she gets mad at me when i ask her to change clothes (not wear anything tight) or not to be there if the guy is there. she thinks I am silly and gets mad at me and will go no matter what.
It is me or I am doing wrong?

2007-01-27 11:18:33 · 24 answers · asked by enriqueflorida1 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge crush on an 8th grader (I'm a 7th grader) I dont have any clue how 2 tell him but I've liked him 4 like 3 years and I have to tell him or I might pop!! LOL (sry not a laughing matter) Anyways I think he likes me 2 and I need 2 know how can I tell him w/ out making a fool of myself??!!!??

2007-01-27 11:18:31 · 0 answers · asked by SydneyB 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 11:17:30 · 19 answers · asked by midnight_star_chaser 3 in Singles & Dating

OK Theres this girl, right. Well it's between me and this other guy. Well she really likes me, she just doesnt wanna break the toher guys heart. Well we were talkin about it, and we came to the conclusion that, if he really liked her, he wouldnt try to own her. ( He hates it when she talks to me, he's threatend to try to beat the hell out me, like 6 times) Well they were mad at each other yesterday. Well, then a strange thing happend, at the basketball game, all of a sudden things were better, and the were all over each other..( not makin out, just leain on each other and stuff like that,) well then after the game, they all went to a party. Sunday me and her are supposed to hang out. It's just really confusing signals....everyonse telling me " dont mess with his girl"...everyones been talkin shi t....and rumors that arent true have been started, i"m just in a stick, confusing, situation, and need some advice on what to do.

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But here's the thing. They are not dating. It's between me and him. SO she's just as much my girl, as she is. He has no right to cross the line, since there not even dating, I wouldnt ever try to steal someones girl. This isn't his girl. This isnt my girl. In the future if they go out, I wont pursue it. In the future if we go out, I guarantee you, he'll have sumthin to say about it. SO what should i do?

2007-01-27 11:17:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok here are the details
my dad owns a limo company and he said i could use 1 and go to da movies with a few friends

the guys i invited all got dates
there is this really beautiful girl in my class and i want2 ask her out
but it is hard 2 even have a nice conversation with her and i wanna ask her out.

look i really like this girl and i wanna just ask her out 2 da movies.
nothin serious just friendly but when i look in her eyes i get this really strange feelin in my gut and i just walk away.

what should i do?

2007-01-27 11:17:25 · 12 answers · asked by Lord Ultimate 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I feel like I am the only woman in the world who is scared of the word 'love'. I have only said it to one man, the man who I planned to marry at the time. Orther than that - it is only for family & closest friends.

I know people who have been in relationships for two days and are already saying "I love you". Am I the only person who finds this fast & immature? Does anyone agree that saying 'love' should be reserved for those who you truly mean it?

2007-01-27 11:16:49 · 15 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, for a year I've hardly talked with my parents because I made mistakes and they were too harsh. they tried to get me back, I always refused, now they think we should have family therapy. What can I expect? Will the therapist be on my side? Will he say what I want to hear? Can my parents force me if I don't want to go?

2007-01-27 11:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my girlfriend had a dream that she madeout with her ex-boyfriend and the next day in the dream i got mad at her i have been dating this girl for 3 months jsut wondering wat u might think this dream might mean helpppppp meee

2007-01-27 11:16:33 · 1 answers · asked by dwcsoup22 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you ever fight over someone you like of the opposite sex? Whether that person likes you back or not? I know of women who beat up girls who their husbands sleep with, I believe that they should be beating the husband instead. What do you guys think?

2007-01-27 11:15:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i was talking to my best friend and she told me that my crush , well the one that i was talking about has a girlfriend! But his girlfriend is one of my best friends! Do i well him that i like him now or wait until he is availiable again?

2007-01-27 11:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Jolly Rancher♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-27 11:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by Lowi :) 2 in Singles & Dating

Is is better for you men to say I love you first. Or would you rather wait for a woman to say it first??

I am 24 and he is 38. I Love him with all my heart, and we have been dating each other for almost a year. I am scared to say it cause I am not sure if he feels the same way, and if i do say it and he doesn't say it back I am not sure what i would do.

2007-01-27 11:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by SARAH S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-27 11:14:26 · 25 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

whats is the definition of s*utty in a 14 year old? how far do most 14 year olds go sexually? thank you.

2007-01-27 11:13:49 · 15 answers · asked by girlie♥ 1 in Singles & Dating