Family & Relationships - 27 January 2007

my wife and i have been together since high school and have two kids ages 5 and 8 weeks(2 months) old but we are always at each others throtes i have just started an appreticeship full time with my father in carpentary and i am sick and tired of everything in our marriage includeing the fact we have a crap sex life once a fortnight (if lucky) and thats after i make a point of it and no im not rough i love takeing my time so thats not it! also nothing ever gets done unless i do it i mean she does the washing (if lucky) and thats her full days work around the house! she says that its because shes always running after the baby but thats rubbish as this has been going on for as long as i can rember! so the other day i stayed up the whole night cleaning only for the house to be trashed again and she didnt even cars about my efforts staying up all night she said something along the lines of thats nice or something like that! im at my wits end and only see this ending in divorce any help?

2007-01-27 11:38:14 · 19 answers · asked by family guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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What do i do if my Girlfriend cheated on me?

My girlfriend cheated on me one weekend with this guy who used to be her friend with benefits. She didnt tell me till 2 weeks after. She said he made out with her, but she didnt stop him because she was angry with me. We had gotten into an argument over that weekend. and that is why she did it. I dont know what to do, she says she is sorry, and she wont do it again...but i feel that it is going to take a long time to trust her again..., what do i do??

2007-01-27 11:38:04 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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How do I find the perfect boyfriend?

how do you know if he is the "one" and if they are not what do you do

2007-01-27 11:38:02 · 23 answers · asked by Janai A 1 in Singles & Dating

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how can i get back with my husband. we are separated because of our disabled child. my husband left us.?

2007-01-27 11:36:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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I like dating married women, so am I wrong for dating her, or is she wrong?

2007-01-27 11:36:14 · 21 answers · asked by captstevenfusmc 2 in Singles & Dating

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Can i find a rich ,educated and beautifal female to marry me . I am a poor, young and educated man? where ?

When? How she will contact me?!

2007-01-27 11:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by waheed m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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is this weird?

my parents are too cheap to buy me a new back pack...so they dig up the first one they can find and found an all (soft) pink messenger bag in our storage...its new, but if its a little weird, how can I make the back pack better?

2007-01-27 11:35:17 · 9 answers · asked by runeboi678 1 in Singles & Dating

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Kinda Embarrassing Question?

Ok me and my husband have a really good sex life. However lately Ive been wanting to suprise him with something different. Ive been wanting to learn how to striptease and pole dance. Theres no one that I can do it in front of first to make sure i dont look stupid. Any suggestions or videos

2007-01-27 11:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by southerngirl 3 in Friends

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Should i allow this????

Me and my fiancee have been thinking about boys and girls names to call any children we may have which is fine. But he has said Emily Ann for a girl to carry my mums middle name on (which is what i want) But that was Ann. The problem i have is that is his Exs name which i found out recently he still liked in between me and his last girlfriend. They Rarely talk since i moved in with him cus he knows i dont like it, Because for the year and a half we have been together i have suspected there is still something still there. And i know he wont drop contact with her without a very good reason, which is hard to get.

When we first got together i felt put down when he said that she was a faster texter than me, in between my texts she sent loads and he used to text her loads. Should i worry about this as he doesnt now, but i still worry. As to me he seemed happier when she announced being pregnant, than when i passed college tests etc. I think i may be being paranoid and he thinks i'm just

2007-01-27 11:34:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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Sexual problem, what would you think? Men and woman?

If you were a woman giving head to a guy and he says, let me know when you want me to ***, and you say, I'm going to make you ***. He says you can't make him, it is up to him when he does, what would you think, how would you feel? And Men would you ever say anything like that to the woman your with? Especially if she gave great head?

2007-01-27 11:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by lost angel 2 in Singles & Dating

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What did he mean by this?

ok last night when I was talking with my boyfriend he said "I love you, even if this doesn't work out." we've been going out for like a week and a half and before we started dating we were really good friends. what did he mean when he said that...? does he think our relationship is going to end soon..?

2007-01-27 11:33:08 · 7 answers · asked by sportzchic09 2 in Singles & Dating

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Help Me Deal With this Porn Issue Please????

Tonight I found that my husband was searching online for porn....not just regular adult porn videos but he was typing in "teens" in the search field. I'm upset and will have to talk to him when he gets home from work. I'm concerned about this and I"m a pretty open gal when it comes to him watching sexy stuff in a book or something but this is really bothering me - the "teen" thing. I can hardly believe it but I don't really know how to approach him on this...any suggestions? (This sucks big time and I"m almost crying here) What does this tell me really? We are in our thirties and I don't understand why he needs to look at teens...we have a healthy sex life (or so I thought) and I"m hurt and upset. :(

2007-01-27 11:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by Sweet Potato Pie 2 in Family

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Is it possible to be afraid of relationships?

2007-01-27 11:32:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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Can anyone tell me some ways to spice up my marriage?

We've been together for ten years and married for three of those years. I think we're in some kind of rut.

2007-01-27 11:32:16 · 17 answers · asked by KT 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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any ideas how i can get a BF???

2007-01-27 11:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Ladies, Is this okay?

There's a girl I'm attracted to in my math class, and I have some reason to believe she's attracted to me also, but I can't be sure. I haven't really talked to her except for once, when I asked about a quiz. The reason for this is that we sit on completely opposite sides of the room.

I am thinking about coming up to her after class and just asking whether she'd like to either work on math together in the library sometime or have lunch together... I am not the most confident guy but I figure I've built up enough confidence to do this.

My question is whether this is okay to do? If you're the girl, and if a guy that you haven't spoke to much (but you might think he's cute) comes up to you after class and just says, "Hey, what's up? I was wonderin if you wanna work on this math stuff in the library sometime? Or we can grab lunch if you want. What do you think?" How would you react? Would it be strange for a guy to just be upfront like this, or is this a good display of confidence?

2007-01-27 11:30:53 · 21 answers · asked by doblechivo 1 in Singles & Dating

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How do you deal wit ur boyfriend/Husband having so many female friends that want him & it not bother u at all?

My boyfriend has a good number of female friends that want to be in a relationship with him knowing that he has been in a relationship with me a year. Most of them just try to make me out to be a bad girlfriend because i had my son at a young age. and the one that has a son trys to constantly push her son upon my boyfriend and complains about him spending so much time and money on my son. i try to ignore it most of the time but some times i just cant take it and i flip out on my boyfriend and the girl some time which just leaves my boyfriend mad at me turnig into one of the many fights that we have. we fight constantly about his female "friends" and i'm just sick of it i'm tierd of fighting what do i do? i love him to much to leave him and he is the only daddy my son knows. i dont think hes cheating but it still bothers me. I i'm with him atleast 5 days a week all day and night. they always call him wanting something or for him to come by when they know i'm around. I need advice please

2007-01-27 11:30:08 · 5 answers · asked by reses 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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family ties can it be fixed?

About 7 years ago, I sent my daughter to Detroit to visit my family for Christmas during school break. Here in La she had 3 months off. My mom and sister stole her form me and went to court and got guardianship during her visit. they never called me or contacted me about any court dates. they just said they did notknow where I lived.

My daughter stayed a little longer cause of a winter storm. she was 13 at the time. during her time there in Detroit. she starting using drugs my youngest sister got her stated on weed. My daughter started using weed and cocaine, having sex and hanging out of motels and with other crackheads teens and adults.
They enrolled her in a school where gangs were where they beat her up with shoes and otther objects now she has seizures.
Today my daughter is 19 and pregnant still leaving in Detroit they made her lie on me but because she did things she would never do with me the judge granted her stay cause of her age. should I cut the lost?

2007-01-27 11:29:05 · 2 answers · asked by bbmodels2003 1 in Family

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dose any one have 4 siblings?

2007-01-27 11:28:37 · 18 answers · asked by heatherlynn 2 in Family

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I am stuck in California and need to get to Georgia as soon as possible and I have no money. What do I do?

I am in a bad marriage and I need to get from California where the military put us, back to a place in Georgia where I am originally from. I can't leave him because I don't have any money! I have 17 month old son who is going to stay with my mom soon and she lives in Georgia. I am trying to get him out the house because of the screaming and my husbands temper. I can't leave my husband until I have someway of getting back to the East Coast. Does anybody have and ideas or organazations that can help me? I need to get my own place and maybe on welfare for a while till I get on my feet. Please Help!!

2007-01-27 11:28:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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Why do i think bad when she goes out?

I think she is going to cheat . The better she looks the worse i think it

2007-01-27 11:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by TOM V 1 in Singles & Dating