If you were a woman giving head to a guy and he says, let me know when you want me to ***, and you say, I'm going to make you ***. He says you can't make him, it is up to him when he does, what would you think, how would you feel? And Men would you ever say anything like that to the woman your with? Especially if she gave great head?
2007-01-27 11:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by lost angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, men what would you do if she stopped? The woman felt like, well I can't make you *** so why even try anymore. Does this make sense to you?
2007-01-27 11:36:15 · update #1
Thank you for all your replys on this. It is not that I can't make him, believe me I can and have everytime unless we have sex or the two times I stopped. It was just what he said that hurt. He said it was said as a challenge thing and I can understand his point of view but it is hurtful to say after you have been going at him really well and in the excitement of it you tell him I want to make you *** and he comes off with that. It just was not the right time for it, yes I am sencative too so not sure anytime would have made me feel good about it but now that we talked about it, I at least understand what he meant. I hope he understands why something like that would hurt.
The other part to the question was how would it make you men feel if the woman stopped? I myself know it is frusterateing but was not meant to be mean or with hold it from him. I probably enjoy it more than he does. To those that gave adult answers and good advice thank you. For those of you sick fu ks, get a life.
2007-01-28 12:31:16 · update #2
Some guys can control when they, we will say, "Go". Some can't. I can sometimes and others I'm just so turned on and it feels so good I just can't stop it. It all depends on the guy, when the last time he had sex was and just how often he does it. There are many factors to consider. Also how long you two have been together and how much experience you have at it. They are too many factors in the equation to give you a black and white answer. I however would never say something like that to my girlfriend. It just sounds mean like he is saying you are no good or something. Good Luck.
2007-01-27 11:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by Vasago 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that we (yes, i've said that before as well) do it to present some sort of a challenge. Men are in fact always into competing with themselves, and trying to find challenges all around. It's really nothing offensive in such a case, perhaps he's just trying to make it a game.
In the end it's only wordplay, nothing more than that; a woman should know that if she puts her mind to it, can make any guy reach an orgasm in no time; guys focus 90% on the groin area for pleasure, so it's nothing umbeatable, trust me.
2007-01-27 19:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes sense to me. My BF told me he had never organsimed into a girls mouth before - even when he had gotten great head. I have given him head a lot and for very long periods of time - he does not (or can not) orgamism just by giving him head. I have wondered about this and tried to find the answer to it - but I have had no luck in finding the answer. He can orgasim into my mouth - but he has to masterbate to do it. He says he does not know why either. So I am going to keep looking for the answer to this too. Good Luck
2007-01-27 19:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be really upset and I think I would stop. See in my relationship i don't have that problem. My boyfriend loves when i give head and i like to do it. But if he thinks the only way he is going to be able to *** is if he does it.. Maybe play a game and set him back and tell him you are going to show him a lil trick! You could either get freaky with it or tell him fine. i won't do it anymore it don't do it for ya..do it your d*mn self!
2007-01-27 19:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by QueenT.Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes sense, I've thought it but never said it. Why say it? Enjoy until you feel like letting go.
Haven't met anyone 'that' good.
2007-01-27 19:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by teachr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been with a couple of guys who said they can't get off that way. Don't let it bother you...just finish it off another way that is more fun for you!
2007-01-27 19:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like others have said, I think it is just something that he hasn't done. Hope he wasn't trying to be rude about it but he may have to finish it!
2007-01-27 19:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by TayLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno some guys cant finish during head they gotta finish themselves off but it doesnt mean they don't enjoy the experience. You shouldn't be so sensitive about that kinda stuff I'm sure if he could do it right in your filthy mouth he would.
2007-01-27 19:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow...a guy with control.... I guess I've been doing it wrong all these years... I was relying on the girl. lol.
He's just a freak...time to dump him. BTW I am available...and I'll even give you all the credit...lol. teasin.
2007-01-27 19:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've never had that happen to me. I'm that good.
2007-01-27 19:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋