We've been together for ten years and married for three of those years. I think we're in some kind of rut.
2007-01-27 11:32:16 · 17 answers · asked by KT 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you want some ideas on spicing up things in your marriage...try doing some activities toghether. try picking up something that you two can learn (or be on a team on). or if you REALLY want something kinky...try your local adult novelty store. or if there are none around you...then you can maybe pick up some karma sutra books or search the internet for some adult novelty items.
2007-01-27 12:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by cfalways 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's what you make of it. Don't give up. I've been with one guy since i was 16. And we have been married for 7 years in february. Try different things, especially if it seems silly. Im pretty sure he will like it a (for some reason men like fantasy.) These are somethings I do. when I know my man is on his way home from work, I call him and act like im someone else (my more bad side personality) I'll just say hey this is melissa can you come over and play for a while. Be Different. I role play like melissa. Also find out what he likes. I could go on forever cuz i like to keep it "hot" I tell my husband i give you no reason to leave, cuz i keep it changing. Also there are always magazines or like ivillage.com, who usually have ideas on how to keep the marriage on "FIRE!" If you need more help don't hesitate to ask cuz i have more I can share.
2007-01-27 20:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure if you have kids but a getaway sounds in order here. If money's tight, try driving a few hours away, staying in a decent hotel, and just having some romantic time together. Get kinky (or kinkier) in the bedroom to spice things up. There's nothing like some good lovin to respark the flame. That's free!
2007-01-27 19:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Luvly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are books and videos you can get that can help. Also a trip to Pricillas might give you ideas. Experiment with different things as long as both of you are comfortable with it. Have sex in different parts of the house, try different positions..just do things different...people get comfortable after a few years and that is what starts to make the marriage boring. Get it spicy again!
2007-01-27 19:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hotel room in your own home town. Drop by the office/job and leave the keys with a lunch invite. Order in, and the best part is you'll have the room after work too! (or two)
2007-01-27 19:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Roll play. Go out on a date nite and give him complete control sexually. If he tells you to reach down and masturbate at the movies, then do it. If he tells you to go panty-less do it. Try public sex. Tie one another up. Buy some sex toys. Pursue fantasies...if you always fantasized about firemen, let him dress up as one, do a mock rescue, and your repayment is sex that rocks his world. Dress up as a cheerleader and play the coed and the professor. Make a video. Go out on a date and purposely see who can sneak in public and make the other on the horniest. Show up at his office and spend some time under his desk without him expecting it.
2007-01-27 21:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest a 3-way?
2007-01-27 20:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new things, buy yourself some adult toys and try them out on him, stay in a hotel one nite have him meet you there find a sexy outfit he'd like and answer the door to him in it start dating each other again a lot of couples stop having dates once they have been togeather for a long time
2007-01-27 19:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by smurf_punky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i understand what you mean, Lot of peoples facing the same problem as you. I wish too someone can give a good and decent answer here.
2007-01-27 19:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married but maybe you can try role playing. The Naughty nurse and her patient. The Sexy housekeeper and the dirty bachelor.
2007-01-27 19:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋