2007-01-27 11:32:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ABSOLUTELY!!!!! If you have been burnt a time or two or even once really bad, its scary putting yourself back into a relationship and risk getting hurt again. I have not allowed myself to care about someone who may have been a really good catch out of fear of being hurt. I call it off if i start feeling anything. Its terrible.
But on the other side of it........if you never allow it a chance....you may miss out on a real good thing.
I have only just begun to think this way and i am ready to take the next steps to try again.
Lets face it......Its better to have loved and lost than to have never known love at all.
I guess we all need to think of that when we wanna run huh?
Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very possible and common. People are so afraid of how people will act. first impressions, the first date, first kiss, meeting eachother's parents, etc. All that puts a lot of pressure on people. They can act really weird during this time. Unfortunately there is no real way to dure it, but the only thign you can do is go through it, communicate, and do the best you can. Just try to relax and have a good time and all the other pressures will go away in due time.
2007-01-27 19:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be afraid of a relationship, it's called being afraid of a commitment. You don't want to have to be tied down to one person, feel that you have to answer to anyone and you're afraid of getting hurt. good luck
2007-01-27 19:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-27 19:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, For some people.
2007-01-27 19:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes because u r afraid and u dont no wats going to pop up in ure face because maybe ure afraid of getting hurt or u have gotten hurt before but wat i think is that u should let the relatiion go on and not be afraid to be loved ayight
2007-01-27 19:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by candyniqua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very much so, I am talking from experience here. But it will pass when you meet the right person. Trust me.
2007-01-27 19:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by destroyerofchaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is... i was once in a happy relationship (or so it seemd)
then he cheated... we divorced.
i met some1 else who then cheated
i fely like i cant keep the faith.
so now im scared of having a meaningful relationship because im scared of having my heart broken again.
2007-01-27 19:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...if the only thing in a person's past is failure and/or pain, then it certainly is possible.
2007-01-27 19:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am! I am soo scared of relationships and I don't know why...
2007-01-27 21:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by sugarpacketchad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋