Ok guys theres this new girl right and in a class trip we hooked up in the bus (we are kinda friends) so then about 2 months after that we hooked up again at her house... (we are not dating... and the first time we hooked up i was kinda desperate and she had a boyfriend) shes okish looking right. Then yesterday we went a buncha people over her house, then there were a bunch of people making out except for me her and 2 other guys. She was all over my best friend right, and they almost hooked up about 3 times. She also jumped on him while he had his boxers and no shirt on... and they didnt make out or anything. My best friend could have hooked up with her if he wanted to but didnt. I heard from one of my girl friends that she said she wasnt gonna hoook up with anyone yesterday... but why did she do all that? What do i do? Its all so friggin confusing =/
2007-01-27 11:21:34 · 5 answers · asked by Leo P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thing is, im not sure if i like her or not.. i was kinda desperate when i hooked up with her the first time and then we made out again and now i dont know =/
2007-01-27 12:26:20 · update #1
Teenagers!! haha Man, yea, it's confusing!! What's with all the hooking up?
Look... obviously, this girl doesn't take "hooking up" or kissing or whatever seriously. She's just looking for a good time, like it looks like you were. She probably likes your friend or was just having fun flirting and didn't want to make out with anyone... Now I don't know what her intentions were, or what your friend's intentions were, but maybe he didn't "hook up" with her cuz he thinks or suspects you like her.
Anyway... I say you forget this girl. No offense, but she seems easy, and doesn't take kissing seriously. Now, if you don't mind that and just want to make out or whatever, go for it, but it looks like you like this girl and it seems like you're heading for trouble. If she kissed you while she had a boyfriend, and if she was looking to kiss your friend right in front of you, she's denitely not somebody you want to deal with... cuz if you do date, you can be certain she'll be "hooking up" with other guys.
2007-01-27 11:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by spanish kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she wants to "hook up" with someone else. She had you, now she is looking for something new. Why are u worried about it? Do you want to be her bf or what?
Sounds like she is lovin like a man. No ties, no strings just doin her thang.
Dont see anything wrong with it if thats what she wants.
If you want something more, then maybe you need to talk to her about it and see what the deal is.
Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wanted u to make a move but jumped ur friend to see if it would make u envious and wish u had her. trying to test someone..head games and BS....guys have tried this on me. once i asked and approach them, they smile like u jealous? and others are like...u like me? i think its stupid. just because every1 else was doing this doesn't mean u should. ignore it. don't be like me and ask her. i mean then she will do that nonchalant thing with u like u are into her but she is not. she wants to play chase but wants u to chase her. i think its BS. either show interest in me or not, but don't test me. but its up to u. i hope i cleared some fog. i used to be there too...and believe me, its like trying to interpret something that makes no sense. don't ask, don't tell...be nonchalant and see if she comes to u. no games, no BS....
2007-01-27 11:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by Wht Hare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow theres so much "hooking up" goin on my head is spinning...y'all should slow down...ur in high school rite?!! take it easy and do other stuff like reading...its a dying art!!!
2007-01-27 11:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,really its nothing u can do!tell her how u feel about her and go frm there
2007-01-27 11:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋