I told a friend of mine some stuff about my past, and now people are confronting me about it, what do I do? I also have to work with this person, so I can't make it too uncomfortable, 3 day a week I have to see her. I am really angry, and I feel really hurt.
2007-01-27 11:24:36 · 28 answers · asked by heycodaim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
friend? you need to recognoze clues about what a friend is and isnt before you go confiding in anyone.
Theres not much you can do, people are cruel.
2007-01-27 11:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know some stuff about her use it against her and tell her that if she won't stop talking behind your back he is going to have a hard time working there also don't give her what she wants bring you down when she see's you don't be sad or mad just laugh with someone else turn the tables on her! let her know that you rule and not her!
2007-01-27 19:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by err. . . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the person, "hey I really didn't want you to tell anyone else. I trusted you with this information with the understanding that you wouldn't tell anyone. This is making me uncomfortable, so if you value this friendship,can you please stop." You don't have to be nasty about it, just tell her. "hey, can you not tell other people about what i'm telling you. You don't have to make it uncomfortable or whatever. I know you have to work with this person, and if they don't have the decency to not tell people your personal stuff, it's not worth putting up with.
2007-01-27 19:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by broncos27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't somebody I would consider a friend. If I were you I would ask why he/she is telling your information and what/where they thought they were going to get out of by telling other people. And don't forget the word KARMA!
2007-01-27 21:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by hypnotic_wht_grl_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too haired up by this because it will make things worse so gently ask your friend why she/he had to go and do this, and say I am so uncomfortable now because I have to face these people.
Don't forget..it is human nature to talk about humans. In fact, I bet what you are saying here is something at one time or another you have done to another. Am I not right?
2007-01-27 19:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Cut all ties with this friend and consider this a lesson learned. What goes around comes around so they will get what they deserve in the end.
2007-01-27 19:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person isn't your friend. Dump him or her, and learn not to trust anyone you work with. When asked personal questions, either give them a blank stare or learn to ask simply, "How does this concern you?" If they persist, keep repeating calmly, "Sorry, I don't understand how this concerns you, can you explain?"
2007-01-27 19:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by g s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you saying here. Maybe you should say to her something about being a adult instead of acting like a immature girl in high school . Then document EVERYTHING she does and says in a journal(to cover yourself).
2007-01-27 19:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a true friend if she is trashing you behind your back not only that but embarassing you as well. She doesn't deserve your friendship and tell her your done with her!
2007-01-27 19:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront your friend and tell that they need to mind their own buisness. That need they need to stop spreading your business in thw streets and a get a life so to speak.
2007-01-27 19:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋