Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I don't do married men!

2007-01-26 20:29:23 · 13 answers · asked by Lost Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 20:29:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how do you get over someone whom you've loved with all your being?

its been almost a year since our relationship ended and there is not a day that passes that i dont think of her.

i miss her so much.

2007-01-26 20:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by El Fauno 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been married for over a year and have a seven month baby girl...Since we've been married and who knows for how long, my husband has been doing drugs and drinking heavily evry now and then..sometimes I know sometimes I don't...at first, I was very forgiving understanding that he just got married and had a baby..naturally he was adjusting to his new roles...but with no money either or career..he has resorted to his friends who are substance abusers like him....well, lately it has been worse...he believes that he doesnt have a problem...but he hides his xanax vicodin pot and his alcohol...I have tried yelling loving talking everything in my power to let him know that i love him and what he is doing is hurting me..today he punched a hole in the wall at my parents (where we are living)...I felt so bad..he was angry and slurring words i dont understand..he needs help.
are there anyone out there who can help direct me to what i can do..i don't think i can handle this much longer..

2007-01-26 20:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by gela 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all, i was wondering what you think i should do. This guy at college liked me but never asked me out and i think it was due to me being a Muslim and he wasn't sure how to go about it but now i like him back and still do but he has a girlfriend now so do you think i should tell him i like him just to get it off my chest for the rest of my life or should i leave it and not say anything and suffer with how i feel knowing i can't have him? I knw i cant but i need to tell him how i felt just so to get it off my chest. What do you think? let me knw.

2007-01-26 20:26:53 · 30 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

i like these two girls so much and a big dance is coming up and both of them asked me on msn while i was in the showerahah wwhich one do i ask the first or the second :S my frends said flip a coin but i dont wanna reject one of tehm and the one gets all choked and stuff

2007-01-26 20:25:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 20:24:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for 2 years, been together for 6. we have a2 year old daughter. we live with my wife’s parents. I know!! Its hard to find a place in Honolulu that my wife will live in and that we can afford. We no longer seep in the same bed. we cant talk more than 5 min with out arguing. Mostly about how to raise our daughter. and money and that I’m over weight. after we got married everything went down hill. Should I just end it or stick it out. Will it get better if i lose the weight? 6'1'' 250. how bad will it affect my daughter. Right now I don't know if I want to be in this relationship, everything I do she nit picks, I mean everything. I don't no if I can handle anymore of it. Sometimes I feel like I'm going to explode. If anyone has gone or is going through this please help me. Thank You

2007-01-26 20:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by josh n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

omg theres this guy he asked me put 7 times in 6 months hes driving me crazzzzyyyyyy everytime he asks me out i say no he flirts with me 24/7 and i never do it back i always tell him we can be bestfriends and i alwaaaaays try and act like his bestfriend he dosent want..he wants to go out with me by any chance i dnt wnnnnnnnt tooooo ukh!! and like tomoro is his birthday and he told my bestfriend that he wants it to be a date no as gf bf but as friend date..wat should i do plz dont say go out with him or give it a try coz i reely dont want to i tryed the same thing with allooot of guys but i regret it i told myself that im nver gna say yes to a guy except if i reelly like him which i no is correct!! wat should i do

2007-01-26 20:22:40 · 10 answers · asked by gurlie 2 in Singles & Dating

husband due to his habits and way of living not matching mine. I tried to adjust but it was beyond my integrity. I wish to leave him and so does he. He has had several affairs behind my back and he knows that I know. I need to resolve this issue but ive got no pushing. We have a sexless marriage. I need a loving man to be at my side. Im very depressed and lonely. I even take sleeping tablets to calm me down. Family ties keep us bonded but one day I know I have to move on. How do I go about it?

2007-01-26 20:22:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and here im to ask you all guys we all do love... but there is something which should not happen like ..exp.. one guy saw a girl and he like her he made a friendship with her and he showed her he love her very much and girl fall in love with him very serious and she strated feeling his love...they went for diner they spend a nite together.. and in morning he droped her in her house and he said hey sweetie... today was our last day.. from now .. you dont know me.... and i dont know you... and girl is like half dead and half alive...and the samething girls do with guys........ useing a word ...LOVE..
what is love? why fall in it and why start feeling someone.....and why trust our love ....and we think our love is true........ why

2007-01-26 20:21:56 · 7 answers · asked by saqib s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 18y.o male and I have a female friend who liked me well. She really liked me, until i decided to be a loser. (over obsessive). i really like this girl but how can i make up for what i have done. She said she liked me until a decided to be a loser. she wont talk to me now. Please help so i can get the girl that i love.

2007-01-26 20:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by ash c 1 in Singles & Dating

recently there was an incident involving drugs at my school and a person that i used to be friends with that im currently mad at was involved with pot they got a few kids in trouble but not this particular girl and its been a few weeks since and im thinking about telling my principal or teacher about the certain person being involved but im not sure since it might sound like im making it up because i dont like this girl and i think the principal might blow it off because its been a while and i dont have anything to prove it. HELP PLEASE

2007-01-26 20:20:30 · 3 answers · asked by a 3 in Friends

well..i'm shy, hard to talk to people esp. some new place. somewhere i'm not fermiliar. how should i speak up. i'm always the quite wan....i'm scare....thats how i don know how 2 make new friend.

2007-01-26 20:19:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife and I are in a bit of a rut....
We decided to talk about fantasies...hers were more of the "loving" kind...mine all involved other guys with her! lol
I'd like to ask other couples -
Do you guys talk about / share fantasies?
Have you fulfilled any/all of them?
Are there any fantasies you would NEVER tell your spouse that you have - but are willing to share it here?

2007-01-26 20:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by deg8158 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(Current Situation) I am jobless, and without transport. Basically leeching off a good friend (Chris) i've known 6 years. I'm struggling with bipolar disorder/meds and am 2,000+ Miles from any family or other friends.
(Sept 2006) Moved to my friend's, things were fine.
(Oct) Became severely depressed due to a combination of bipolar, no job/money, Chris needs help with Rent, Chris doesn't listen when I try to explain what is going on with my head. I left the house some night then to end things. Ended up with police in hospital.
(Nov) Seeing a therapist. Things with Chris ok.
(Dec) Hate therapist, and Chris is going downhill, seeing more faults, and dark sides to Chris.
(Jan 07) Meds seem to be working. I am aware suddenly that Chris has problems I can't deal with. His poor treatment of the cat here, he never cleans up after himself, very selfish, more aggressive, wont listen, wont communicate.

I dont know what to do and I really don't want to lose him as a friend.

2007-01-26 20:17:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im just wondering if anyone knows a good website showing how to kiss because im pretty sure im going for my first kiss soon and i dont have a clue what to do so please help me

2007-01-26 20:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Surfer_69 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if your sis in law would demand that your baby will visit your husband's family at least 3 times a week to be equal because we are staying in my family's house. we stayed with our family because it's convenient to our workplace and we will be moving to Florida after a couple of years. i have the best marriage except that my husband's family would always interfere with the way we are living.
help me pls.

2007-01-26 20:14:37 · 22 answers · asked by pinay22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we went out once (it was my first date ever) and she had to cancel twice for legit reasons. She won't call me, or return my messages. Should I just stop calling? Should we stop talking? what to do?

2007-01-26 20:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking to a really smart, funny and cool seeming guy online for two months. He is 34 and was engaged until last Fall (he broke it off because he didnt se ehimself with his fiance forever)
He lives 200 miles away from me in Boston so we haven't met yet.
I checked out his entire background with his approval so Id feel safe if we met.
The thing is is Im really happy where I live and he couldnt relocate here because of his job. I would have to move my whole life there if things got serious. Also I still need to lose about 15-20 lbs before Im in great shape. Im pretty happy w/ myself right now. But he jokes around that he is 'shallow' & although a woman's mind is important, looks come first when he meets someone. He says he needs someone smart who looks great in a dress
I know that makes him sound shallow. But otherwise he has acted so cool. Plus he himself is handsome and in good shape.
Should I put off meeting him until Im at my best or is this a bad idea ?

2007-01-26 20:13:49 · 18 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1 in Singles & Dating

well "she" has just shown all of "her" goods and shes a he! what is the correct etiquette in this situation ive already given my phone numbers, email address and house address

2007-01-26 20:13:47 · 15 answers · asked by mr_soapytitwank 3 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering...

2007-01-26 20:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend broke up a little over a week ago because his ex is claiming that her baby is his. i am totally in love with him and want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with him, but now he wants to try to make it work with this girl if the baby is his, which we wont know for another 2 weeks, and im torn apart by this. what do i do? do i wait for him? how am i expected to throw away my feelings for him while knowing that he is trying to make something work with another woman? how can i be expected to deal with knowing that the one im in love with is with another woman?? help, please

2007-01-26 20:12:02 · 7 answers · asked by AMANDA 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that the same people keep asking about what to do about the same things over and over again in their relationships?and they keep getting the same answers.after being told the same ol'e thing you would think that they would listen.But i guess there are some people that likes it when a man \ women has complete controll over their minds& their self esteem what do you think?

2007-01-26 20:12:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night my friend K asked me to meet him in a bar. I went there, and met K's friend G who was also waiting for K.
After an hour K still hadn't turned up, but then he called me, and said that me and G should come to another bar. He had stayed there for an hour to talk with the owner about a job (he's a musician.)
G and I went there, ordered two beers, and before we had drunk half of them, K said he wanted to go to another bar, and G and I sould come there when we had finished our beers.
G and I didn't want to run after him again, so we went to a different bar, texting K where he could find us. K didn't come, but I know he got the text.
Late last night, after I had fallen asleep, K called me and was angry because I hadn't come to the bar he was in. He called me again this morning saying the same.
What's wrong with this guy?
Or did I do something wrong?
(K and G are guys, I'm a girl. None of them are my boyfriend.)

2007-01-26 20:11:46 · 20 answers · asked by Amymoni 3 in Friends

Okay, so here's the thing. I am a 17 year old guy in my first year of college, and I am finding it pretty weird how girls who didnt talk much to me last year in high school are all of the sudden trying their hardest to talk to me this year in college? I think this is kind of weird, I mean its not like I look any different or anything.

2007-01-26 20:11:29 · 4 answers · asked by Lebanese_Mafia 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife has decided that she wants to terminate her parental rights to our son, what do I do? I live in West Virginia and reall;y need your assistance. Thanks

2007-01-26 20:08:36 · 10 answers · asked by Firebreather 5 in Family

i really suck at flirting lol what kinda things can i do so the girl im flirtign with gets that im flirting with her and what kinda tips can ppl give me to help improve my flirting

2007-01-26 20:07:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So 2 years ago I was in a very serious relationship with a man, it was wonderful. He's a single dad with full custody and I'm a single mom with full custody. Our children loved eachother and everything was perfect. We got engaged, I got pregnant (on accident), it was a great thing.. We were so excited about the baby. I ended up losing the baby and we started falling apart. We were both very sad and not communicating at all. We ended up breaking up in a very horrible fashion, I was devistated. And he hurt me horribly. I haven't gotten over him, although I have tried to move on. 2 weeks ago he popped back into my life after 2 years of not talking. The connection was instant, it was like no time had passed and it was wonderful. Now we're talking about getting back together but I'm really scared. I'm afraid that he's just doing this out of some sort of guilt or sense of responsibility to make it up to me. Do men do things like that, or am I just freaking out and being insecure?

2007-01-26 20:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you respond?
-I sent my brother an email to establish bounderies ( I have tried in person, but he lashes out at me verbally and blames me)
-he writes me back a 'I guess I am bad person... I'll try to be better' email
-I write him back and say, 'Don't be hard on yourself, but I am surprised and glad that you heard me! I think you are a good person that just needs to finally hear my 'stop''
-then he writes back 'apparently you don't recognize sarcasm'....

how would you respond?

When he is not making me feel bad we get along really good and joke around and have fun... but he makes me feel bad ALOT. we are adults... time make myself heard somehow.. bounderies need to be established, but he just won't accept them and he is starting to bug my kids now. This needs to stop NOW, when my kids get upset from him, that is the last straw!

2007-01-26 20:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family