we went out once (it was my first date ever) and she had to cancel twice for legit reasons. She won't call me, or return my messages. Should I just stop calling? Should we stop talking? what to do?
2007-01-26 20:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she stopped talking to u then u should stop calling and leaving messages. Its seems way to desperate and then she wont be interested.if she says hi then u say hi and thatz all it may ever be.
2007-01-26 20:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by sassyblondgirl94 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your new at dating - and I assume this is what you mean - then maybe you should take a step back and relax. Whatever she's thinking, if you come across as too needy, it may turn her off. If it's really bothering you, you might just ask her directly - in a gentle way. Otherwise, if she's not responding, but you're still interested, just try to be her friend. If she's open to you, another opportunity will come around. In the meantime, try dating other women casually.
2007-01-27 04:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by yggdrasil's gardener 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No telling why she won't communicate---but one date is no reason to continue the pursuit...give it up and try another girl. You have to realize at your age, young love is crazy and mixed up---boys and girls want and try to do it, make some errors and wind up doing things even screwier---stop the calls, take a real good look at the situation, and try dating others and you will definitely learn each and every time you date that there are lessons to be learned. Be cool and take it all very slow.
2007-01-27 04:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes time heal things. However, time can also make things worse. Maybe u shd give her some time to relax. Wt shd be more imp now is nt to cont or end the relatinship, bt to understand y she is doing this. If you find she ignores ur calls or msgs, y nt speak to one of her close frnds? Or, just go to her house, or meet her at school/work. If there's a will, there's a way! Dun even think bout ending the relationship yet dude!
2007-01-27 04:20:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all talk to her about it im sure you see her some where else if she doesnt reply to your calls confront her and ask her because if you end it you will always be wondering why she did it and if you did the right thing and it will be with you for a long time if you truely liked her
2007-01-27 04:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Surfer_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling and just wait for he to call you, she might be having problems but if she never calls than you know she didn't like you.
2007-01-27 04:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i would take it as she's not interested with you! she doesnt want to tell you directly thinking she might hurt your feelings. so with her not callng or returning msgs is her way of telling you she's not interested...but i could be wrong..step back a bit but not too far cuz who knows she might just really busy with something
i think the question you should ask yourself first "how did our date go?"
2007-01-27 04:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Bizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man! It doesn't matter how fine or sweet she is. If she is not interested, she is not interested. There's is no point trying to contact her after all that. I'm sure you'll find someone else who will treat you better than that.
2007-01-27 04:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just tryin to let u down without feelin like a total meanie. I think she really dont no wat to say. I think u should stop callin ant textin and if she wants to talk to u she knows ur number. U'll find someone else
2007-01-27 04:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not returning your calls then she's just not that into you honey...I bet your a cutie pie-hook up with someone else and make her jealous!
2007-01-27 04:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by ArtisticallyUgly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋