Last night my friend K asked me to meet him in a bar. I went there, and met K's friend G who was also waiting for K.
After an hour K still hadn't turned up, but then he called me, and said that me and G should come to another bar. He had stayed there for an hour to talk with the owner about a job (he's a musician.)
G and I went there, ordered two beers, and before we had drunk half of them, K said he wanted to go to another bar, and G and I sould come there when we had finished our beers.
G and I didn't want to run after him again, so we went to a different bar, texting K where he could find us. K didn't come, but I know he got the text.
Late last night, after I had fallen asleep, K called me and was angry because I hadn't come to the bar he was in. He called me again this morning saying the same.
What's wrong with this guy?
Or did I do something wrong?
(K and G are guys, I'm a girl. None of them are my boyfriend.)
2007-01-26 20:11:46 · 20 answers · asked by Amymoni 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its not your fault, he IS the one who is the problem. Get him off your freinds list and he'll soon get the point. he thisnk he rules when he doesnt and he wants to have all the attention etc like as though your not worth much to him. WHy call him a friend when he does that or even bother with such a guy. Ignore him and see what happen. believe me, he will come running to u if u really are his freind. If he doesn't then that means u wernt worth it and he used u jsut coz he dint have any1 to hang round wiv.sorry to say this, but he aint a good mate or probably he doesnt realise what he does and jsut does it to make him feel secure coz he is more than insecure as i can see it. Try doing role reversal and see if he gives in. Treat him like he treats u and give him a taste of his own medicine. Tell him, thats how it feels and if he doesnt stop it, u dont wanna knw him. Its his loss not uyours coz he aint worth it.
2007-01-26 20:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good friend. Tell him friendship works 2 ways and he was the first to break the arrangement. First non show understandable if he really wanted a job. Second time when he left just ignorant. If he still thinks he right tell it's the end of a beautiful friendship until he matures.
2007-01-26 21:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a very good friend to me. Not only was he extremely selfish keeping you hanging around for ages waiting for him not to show, but to also clear off somewhere else when you have had the consideration to go find him, and before you can even finish your drink, that's just plain rude. I can't say I blame you for not wanting to follow after him. He has absolutely no right to be annoyed with you and G, really it should be the other way round. He sound like he's very self absorbed.
2007-01-26 20:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy the cow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine so that you could attempt to be in a relationship with him so that you'll a minimum of have the probability to locate the sentiments you've for him. If the sexual allure comes later, then tremendous. If it would not, than concentration on what's more desirable popular interior the relationship: interest or friendship. Then go with.
2016-10-16 04:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an a**hole to me but on the other hand there could have been a reason why he moved to another bar.
You should tell him that you didn't appreciate having to travel all over the place to meet him.
2007-01-26 23:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Maggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me when I say, that you didn't do anything wrong. Guys of that type I guess want girls to run after them, so as to just feel good about themselves, it's the youth of today....anyways, I don't know the statues or what happened before with your friendship so I can't really judge...
2007-01-26 21:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt sound like the greatest friend. It could have been an off day but if it happens a lot i would stand up for yourself. a friendship works both ways... u cant do all the work! good luck
2007-01-26 20:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by asian_beetle2006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What sought of a friend treats you like that?
Answer a bad one.
He just likes making you and his other mate look like idiots running after him.He is the one in the wrong making plans and then ditching you every time, tell him to get over it as he is too full of himself.
2007-01-26 20:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by deb m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me thatbyour friend is attracted to a person like you that gives away their power, and you have been doing just that.
also i would make the assumption that your friend is hiding behing a facade of the glamorous artist who is just around the corner from success.
keep your power.
2007-01-26 23:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by meditation and mango juice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people aren't used to not getting things thier way. Just think that you are saving him from years of disappointment.
2007-01-26 20:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋