why is it that the same people keep asking about what to do about the same things over and over again in their relationships?and they keep getting the same answers.after being told the same ol'e thing you would think that they would listen.But i guess there are some people that likes it when a man \ women has complete controll over their minds& their self esteem what do you think?
2007-01-26 20:12:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Someone asking the same question repeatedly either has
a) memory problems
b) selective hearing
c) self-doubt and refusal to acknowledge the answer they receive
because it's not the answer they are "looking" for.
Ever hear the sayings "Truth hurts" or "Ignorance is bliss"?
The person asking you these questions obviously has a red flag somewhere in their mind or they wouldn't continue to ask. Sounds like they probably know the answer but are wanting someone to tell them "the happily ever after answer" so they continue as though there is no problem.
A true friend will give you their honest opinion even if it's not the one you're looking for.
2007-01-26 22:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them want sympathy, and by asking over and over, they're hoping to hear what they WANT to hear from somebody.A true friend doesn't necessarily tell you what you "want to hear"! They will tell you what they think is best for you however!
2007-01-27 05:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They ask over and over because they're in pain and these questions are foremost on their minds.
2007-01-27 04:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called ADVICE and wanting an opinion about something.
2007-01-27 04:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Julie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are stubburn and will never listen. thats just the way the world is.
2007-01-27 04:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Badduck100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋