A married co-worker won't take "NO" for an answer, do I tell his wife?

Question

I don't do married men!

Answer 1

You tell your boss that he won't take no for an answer--don't go to his wife because that might put yourself in danger even if you've been beating him with a stick trying to get him to stop.
Don't file any sort of sexual harassment either until after you talk to your boss first and see how they handle it. You might lose a lot of respect with your boss if you don't ask for help there first--sometimes all it takes in these cases is a sit-down talk one time with the offender. Then once that has happened and he still keeps on hitting on you that's when you go back to your boss and tell them that you will be filing harassment papers against him.

Answer 2

Tell his wife what? If nothing has happen what are you going to tell? Get a little back bone, put it on and the next time he does what ever he is doing to that bothers you so much, Tell him straight out face to face enbarress the fool and say look Im not interested I said NO now which part of that did'nt you understand? And move on.Come on girl alot of woman today are so prissy and soft spoken that when it comes to a man that is throwing themselves at other woman that woman clams up thats why it continues to happen Now WOMAN GET A BACK BONE.

Answer 3

No I wouldnt tell his wife, but I would tell your boss and ask for them to deal with the situation. If you feel that is no good perhaps threaten to tell the married man's wife and he may back off.

Answer 4

First threaten to tell - he will most likely crumble and leave you alone, if he won't leave you alone - mention it to your boss. I think going to his wife should be the last resort, cause even though he might be a pillock, his wife might be devastated!

Good luck

Answer 5

i think you should tell him that if he doesnt quit what he is doing, then your going to tell his wife. And if he keeps at it, set it up to where he gets busted and let that poor lady deal with her husband. Beacuse who knows he might say something to get YOU into trouble. oh, and thank you for the very helpful advise!

Answer 6

confront it as harrassment in the workplace, he has no right personally or work related to put you in that position.if push comes to shove tell him if he doesnt stop askin you will tell his wife, but just make sure you are ready to deal with him in what ever decision you make. best of luck

Answer 7

if u mean that u don't do the married men thing -then tell his wife.what do u got to loose? what ever u do don't lead em on girl u know how they are{yep}

Answer 8

Don't actually tell his wife, but you could tell him you are going to tape him without him knowing it and play it for her.

Answer 9

No, it's not your business to tell his wife, but tell him that you are unequivocably uninterested, and if he makes one more advance you'll file harassment charges.

Answer 10

Yup, give the Mrs the heads up and watcw **** fly!