Hi all, i was wondering what you think i should do. This guy at college liked me but never asked me out and i think it was due to me being a Muslim and he wasn't sure how to go about it but now i like him back and still do but he has a girlfriend now so do you think i should tell him i like him just to get it off my chest for the rest of my life or should i leave it and not say anything and suffer with how i feel knowing i can't have him? I knw i cant but i need to tell him how i felt just so to get it off my chest. What do you think? let me knw.
2007-01-26 20:26:53 · 30 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you think me being Muslim put him off or scared him? He still gives me the looks.
2007-01-26 20:41:52 · update #1
u being a muslim shoulnt have nething to do with it... just talk to him n yeh let him knw how u feel, otherwise u ll never knw if he still likes u back... did he ask u out wen he was going out with that girl?
loving/liking someone is not about HAVING Them... as long as he knws thats all that matters dnt lie to urself or to him...
and wen u do talk to him tell him, that being who ur a muslim musnt frighten or scare him in anyways as ur still just a girl who is in "liking" lol or in "love" with him.. make him realise he cn be comfy with u! :)
take care!
and all the best!
2007-01-26 22:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by YabbaJabba 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would question why he is giving you looks while he has a girlfriend, but if you think he is a decent guy then yea i would tell him...just also let him no that your telling him so you can get it of your chest and you dont expect anything from him, otherwise if he does like his girlfriend then he might feel pressured. Oh an if it has to do with you being muslim then i wouldnt bother with him in the first place.
2007-02-04 03:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by emesumau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a girlfriend then apart from getting it off your chest there isnt anything to gain. What do you expect him to say back? I imagine an awkward embarrassed silence and you could risk him telling his girlfriend and causing trouble. I think you will regret it if you tell him, once its said then you cant take it back. I doubt you being a Muslim had anything to do with it, take it as a compliment that he fancied you and try and move on. Good luck x
2007-01-27 05:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You had your chance. Would you really want a guy who would cheat on his girlfriend or dump her as soon as something better came along? If it doesn't work out between his girlfriend and him, fine tell him. However, really look inside yourself and ask yourself if the real reason that you're now attracted to him is that he is now unattainable. If you REALLY wanted him, you would have told him earlier. If your insecure about your own self you might be more apt to continuously be attracted to the guys you can't have. Be more confident in yourself. This is NOT your only chance at love!
2007-02-03 23:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by J. Hoffman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might have scared him,you hear all kinds of horror stories about what muslim families do to their children if they date a white person.
If i were you id be careful,telling himcould mean a rejection and you feeling hurt or even worse,he could leave his girlfriend for you. That may sound alright but believe me,you dod not want to be the other woman,especially with a very hurt and angry ex girlfriend on your tail.
Just be careful whatever you decide ok.
2007-01-27 08:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rainbow-Taster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should tell him. it could cause problems with his girlfriend. Just by talking to him and taking a intrest in what he says and does should give him an idea that you like him then if the relationship he is in does not work out then you can make your move.
2007-01-27 04:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would advise you not to say anything, he seems to have moved on and if you do say something then he could end up thinking your a bunny boiler and out to savatage his relationship with his girlfriend which would only make you out to be the 'bad' one which I think isnt the case. Carry on with your life and have fun, theri are plenty more guys out there and am sure you are still to meet your prince charming. If him and his girlfriend arent meant to be then they will realise this in time and maybe then you and him might get together....who knows, we cant predict the future. good luck
2007-01-27 06:00:01 · answer #7 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel there is no harm in that and see what happens then. I don't think it is anything to do with you being a Muslim
2007-01-31 13:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by traceylill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down exactly how u feel bout him, n i mean everything. Leave it for a few days, read it back and then if you still feel like you wanna tell him then give him the letter/note
2007-01-31 10:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anna L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don,t tell him anything, You don.t need a guy with a girlfriend....The right Guy will come along soon.. Keep your chest on and your head up?
2007-01-27 04:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Susan A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋