Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I met this guy through mutual friends and we hung out and he was texting and calling all the time..Recently he has not been, I saw him two days three days ago and talked to him the next day. I have not heard from him since. I called him tonight and left a voice mail but he has not called back. He had said how he wanted to take me out to dinner and what not but I have not heard of anything except the last night I talked to him and he said he had no money on him so we would not be able to go.. Should I attempt to call him tomorrow night or just wait? My friend said maybe he was still short on money and didnt want to say that again so figured he would just avoid it...

2007-01-26 18:39:30 · 2 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for numbers here!!!!

What size do you consider a girl to be dating material?

What size would you NOT date a girl at?

2007-01-26 18:39:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering how guys feel about dating girls who are virgins and want to wait to have sex until they get married? Is that a complete turn off for wanting to be in a relationship with them? Would that stop you from being in a relationship with that girl? Any thoughts and opinions are appreciated!

2007-01-26 18:38:42 · 17 answers · asked by Andromeda 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 18:38:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

But not to women especially, I dont like male authority figures, but to women i have a soft side. I think its because my dad beat up my mom when i was kid. I knocked out a high school teacher because he grabbed me in the hallway.I think i have a chip on my shoulder i cant get rid of it.P.S i did graduate luckily.

2007-01-26 18:37:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I accepted the position of a bridesmaid to a friend, even tho I knew I didnt want to. She's 1 of those 'friends' that no-1 really likes, but put up with her basically becos she's the girlfriend of one of the 'boys'. She does have many good points, & I grew very close with her over the last 2 years, but then the bad started to outweigh the good, & she became even more manipulative & just a plain *****. After about of month of craziness, I wrote her a letter, & said I can't be your bridesmaid etc.. This happened last August. Her wedding is coming up in April, & while I still was a bridesmaid, she asked my partner to MC the wedding, which he still is doing. Since then, her partner, & her fam, have pretty mcuh ignored me. & I can totally understand why! All our other friends have supported me through this tho, but I just think it would be easier not to go, since it's obvious Im not wanted. But not going might make an even bigger statement? Appreciate your opion!

2007-01-26 18:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by *~Ally~* 3 in Weddings

: If a woman waits until her early 30's to marry. Does it increase the rate of a longer more successful marriage? Will it increase her chances of choosing the right partner/Husband to build a family with?

2007-01-26 18:36:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-26 18:36:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

reals not trip

2007-01-26 18:36:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need an honest answer to help me move on past the pain. I was married to my highschool sweetheart for 15 years. Back in early nov. she told me that she had no feelings for me and needed her space and wanted to be on her own. I was devestated becuase it came as a shock. Then about two days later I talked to my friends and they told me that they would bet the farm that she is seeing somebody else. Well I found out that week that it was a school teacher where she works. I pleaded for her to stay and work on marriage whatever it takes! We have two small boys7&9 and I was fighting for her. She made it very clear that she was not leaving this guy and did not want to work on our marriage. I divorced her two weeks after that to make sure that I get my sons in my life equally with her. It was VERY hard to do I even cried at the attorneys office. To make a long story short my question is this- might she of had feelings for me but this guy was clouding her emotions?

2007-01-26 18:35:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a woman waits until her early 30's to marry. Does it increase the rate of a longer more sucessful marriage?

Will it increase her chances of choosing the right partner/Husband to build a family with?

2007-01-26 18:35:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for something short and simple. (there's only a limited amount of space around the ring)

2007-01-26 18:33:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if jap and chinese men find filippino girls attractive what would it be and why???

2007-01-26 18:32:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have an unsual relationship. Whenever we are out together and I notice another really hot woman, my girlfriend enjoys proving to me that she can get this woman into her bed while I cant. The only problem is she is right and they never let me join in with them. Instead, they make me sit outside but close enough so that if they call I can serve them refreshments. I still have not slept with my girlfriend even though we live together and I do all the housework. I also have half my monthly salary deposited directly into her account. I love her to death but it is agony listening to her moan for hours with another woman behind a closed door. Begging them doesn't help, they only laugh at me more whenever I do, and I do beg them alot. Sometimes if I take them out shopping on my credit card and carry all their purchases she will let me kiss her feet but that is the most I ever seem to get. Is there anything more I can do for her. I would die if we broke up, she knows it too.

2007-01-26 18:32:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..it doesnt seem right for me. I'm not attracted to him at all. However, I have enjoyed our conversations and appreciate the fact that he has treated me decently.

BUT though it may be that over the phone we get along great, when I'M actually AROUND HIM---- I dont feel any vibes, nor any real connection, nor any sort of energy (not talking about lust)--- I dont feel completed when I'm with him.

AND--- I'm 19, while he's 33 and I did not know this age difference until a few minutes after we went out to lunch last Saturday. We're in completely different stages of life.

MY PROBLEM: Is this all I can expect.? Is this as good as it will get? Guys my age usually compliment me on my looks or stare at me, but not one has TALKED to me in a sincere way. Should I just settle for this guy while it all seems good?

2007-01-26 18:30:52 · 8 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I am handsome :D. 21 years boy and studying at the university at the moment. What do you think? Start having friendship with girls? Even, I have not experienced sex and kiss yet

2007-01-26 18:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what would you do if you suspect that your husband only married you so that he could have kids and be a father, and then after you get married you find out that you can't have children? What would you do? Have kids to keep the man, or let him leave you and start all over again?

2007-01-26 18:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a really shy Asian girl. I really like this other Asian guy, recently his girlfriend has broken up with him. I think telling him myself that I love him will be very hard. He thinks of me as a little sister. What do I do?!

2007-01-26 18:28:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 18:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by Shruti G 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i'm trying to help my friend j.d because he is going to a depressing stage because his 2 best friends died in a car crash and i said i believed in god and then i said do you believe in god and this is what he said and this is what i replied as- J.d-yes i do,but were was a god when my two best friends i ever had slowly died waiting for ambulance?were was god then/
me-oops sorry i 4got to reply this one:/ well j.d you might of wished god was there trying to keep them alive but god can't do everything you wish for i mean i hate that i'm bringing this up but when i was 4 my grandpa died and now i look at pictures because i don't even remember him because i was so little and sometimes i pray and ask god why my grandpa had to die when i was so little but those things happen j.d and you think you did something wrong but you didn't, you think you could've helped them but really how would u have helped them? and i 2 think where was god when my grandpa died??? Well j.d i hoped this helped but prob. it didn't.

2007-01-26 18:25:51 · 2 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Friends

2007-01-26 18:25:14 · 30 answers · asked by papayama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its a site were someone types in the names of the people they have feelings for but it actually sends it back to the person who emailed the quiz to them hahaha its cute but i totaly forget where its at!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-26 18:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance and I are in a Long distance Relationship. The past 20 months, we've only spent 11 days together. We have our share of laughter and tears, but amidst all of that we still find time out of our day (her morning, my evening) to talk to each other, give our "I love you's and I miss you's" to each other. If we averaged it, we have spoken at least an hour a day and have never missed.

We use YM, skype and direct Long Distance using our cellphones... Up to now we have not missed a day not hearing from each other, even just by SMS. We watch movies together (same DVD), play chess, read news and magazine articles, take surveys, send message to friends, chat with friends, play billiards and also tease and seduce each other.

We miss each other everyday and know that our next meeting will be sweet, passionate and exciting. We were college sweethearts, now apart and will eventually be married and spend the rest of our lives together. What are your thoughts? I am just but curious.

2007-01-26 18:24:34 · 13 answers · asked by jabbuhay 1 in Singles & Dating

seriously......they all think about sex and that is all they think about even on first dates.......any good guys left!? why dont they ever want to settle down and actually get to KNOW a girl?

2007-01-26 18:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends introduced me to a friend of a friend online.
He and I got close while I was away overseas for work.
While talking online to him I realised my frieds had mad eme sound a lot thinner than I currently was while talking to him.
I did something really stupid & vain.
I sent him pics form 2 years ago when I was thinner.
He was absolutely crazy about the pics.
Whne I got back home from overseas he wanted to meet me badly. I put him off saying I was busy (which I was but was lame)
He seemed less enthusiastic the longer I put him offf but we still talked. I lost 20 lbs out of 50 I need to lose. But Im a small girl so 30lbs is big deal for me
Finally he gave me an ultimatum. I felt bad for putting him off so we went out. Too much alcohol and we ended up at his place and did IT. I didnt hear from afterwards. But thru a mutual friend I heard that he thought I could be gorgeous but was turned off that i was 'heavy up top' . He didnt tell me this as a reason for breaking it off.

2007-01-26 18:24:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a man about 7 months ago. We did a lot of hanging out during this time and I am friends with all of his friends. In about two months we had our first kiss, then 4 months into it we had sex for the first time, it has only happened once. He has told me that he really likes me and cares about me, he also tells me that I make him happy. He got out of a very nasty divorce a little over a year ago and continues to tell me that he isn't looking for anything, yet he continues to tell me how much he likes me and enjoys being with me. I keep getting mixed signals from him, and I don't know what to think. His friends tease me about how I can't go out with other guys bc I will make him mad, but yet we aren't dating, I am confused and need imput, what is he trying to tell me or prove to me, I think he is still attached to his ex and is letting her rule his life. I thought maybe it was for sex, but why wait 4 months to get it? I have never asked him for anything between us to happen...

2007-01-26 18:24:22 · 2 answers · asked by lizzieRN13 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright I asked a simular question before but I really didn't get a good answer. Well I have been best friends with a certain girl since forever she is in college and I am deployed to Iraq in the army. I talk to this girl every time I have the chance. I talk to her more then I do my parents. Every time I see pictures of her I smile, every time I hear her voice on the phone it gives me a warming feeling like I am not even in the worst country in the world. I guess I don't know, I'm lost, I love this girl and I want to know if she loves me too? I always have this question on my mind. I am going on leave in like 3 weeks and it would be nice to hear some opinions on this matter before I go home and see her and make a big fool out of myself. She doesnt know I am coming home, so I am surprising her at her dorm. I just want to hear some opinions before I do this to see if it is worth it. In my eyes I think it is worth it, but I guess I am just afraid of her not feeling the same way I do. HELP

2007-01-26 18:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have a 2 year old... I think it would be a great time to have another. But, hubby says around 41/2 would be good... what do you think/have experienced?

2007-01-26 18:23:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

men and women are so different. what do you wish we knew/understood?

2007-01-26 18:23:01 · 11 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 18:22:46 · 5 answers · asked by nocirpac 2 in Singles & Dating