I'm just wondering how guys feel about dating girls who are virgins and want to wait to have sex until they get married? Is that a complete turn off for wanting to be in a relationship with them? Would that stop you from being in a relationship with that girl? Any thoughts and opinions are appreciated!
2007-01-26 18:38:42 · 17 answers · asked by Andromeda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just wanted to say thanks for all of your opinions so far everyone, I honestly wasn't expecting to hear such positive things (definitely a nice surprise), but I'm glad I asked. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
2007-01-26 18:52:03 · update #1
They're usually nicer and more loyal. A BIG PLUS.
2007-01-26 18:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by krumpmaster terrell 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
the thing is this... you are who you choose to be. if other people dont like, it dont sweat it. BUT. and this is the way it usually goes is you can know a guy/girl in and out, but intimate connection is a MUST in any relationship, if you dont have that kind of relationship its hard to really want to be with a person. mind body and spirit is what they say. but you cant have one without the other. im not saying lose your virginity but make sure when you find a guy that will be with you, that both of you will be attracted mentally and sexually. because even after you get married sex plays a major role in a relationship and like one of the guys below me said once the cherry IS popped... you'll get the picture. and you gotta know that he'll be the only one for you, and not creepin around the side cuz YOU were wondering how it would feel wit another(cuz remember it was your choice to wait that long), props to you and keep a strong head babe.
2007-01-26 18:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by airdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of relationship I want. If I was looking for sex, then yes. Personally, I dont care to have sexual relations without knowing the girl. Besides, most men would perfer not to marry a "used product". I say respect and friendship is better than sex.
2007-01-26 18:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because you want to get to know the girl and she want to get to know you very well some girls want to get to know the person very well before they have sex with them some even wait until they get marry the best way to get a girl is be friends with them first friends will lead you to girlfriend girlfriend lead you to relationship. Most girls want to make sure they comfortable being with that person.
2007-01-26 18:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
only a stupid and selfish guy would be turned off by a girl who's a virgin.
although i don't realy care if the girl is a virgin or not, it definitely would not stop me from wanting to be in a relationship with her.
2007-01-26 18:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with that! Your virginity is a precious commodity. More power to you.. The problem is finding a guy that wants to wait..
2007-01-26 18:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i prefer to have a virgin girl rather than a girl who just likes to have sex... because at least you wouldn't doubt that she is just into sex and not your love... and at least you know she is loyal and willing to wait for the guy of her dreams...
and at least she knows what she wants... i mean she can control her urge and not go into temptation...
2007-01-26 18:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Karl G. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys who haven't had sex either PREFER to be with a girl who hasn't had sex because it would be extremely special to be eachothers first.
2007-01-26 18:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think thats a great decision! if a guy cant respect that, then u shouldent like him any way. i personally think that waiting is a positive, and i respect those types of decisions.
2007-01-26 18:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kane69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it is a complete turn on. It is like waiting to get eighteen. You wait for it anxiously. Just imagine you will be her first love. If you really love her you will definately be patient
2007-01-26 18:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by cynnie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋