I accepted the position of a bridesmaid to a friend, even tho I knew I didnt want to. She's 1 of those 'friends' that no-1 really likes, but put up with her basically becos she's the girlfriend of one of the 'boys'. She does have many good points, & I grew very close with her over the last 2 years, but then the bad started to outweigh the good, & she became even more manipulative & just a plain *****. After about of month of craziness, I wrote her a letter, & said I can't be your bridesmaid etc.. This happened last August. Her wedding is coming up in April, & while I still was a bridesmaid, she asked my partner to MC the wedding, which he still is doing. Since then, her partner, & her fam, have pretty mcuh ignored me. & I can totally understand why! All our other friends have supported me through this tho, but I just think it would be easier not to go, since it's obvious Im not wanted. But not going might make an even bigger statement? Appreciate your opion!
2007-01-26 18:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by *~Ally~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i would say go to the wedding...just because you declined to be her bridesmaid doesn't mean you can't go with her parter. you belong with him...and you should go as his date. just congratuate the new couple and smile. you will be fine.
2007-01-26 18:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u friends with the guy and if u got an invite then u should go just bc u didnt want to be the bridesmaid doesnt mean ur a bad person they shouldnt be ignoring u thats just not right
2007-01-27 02:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by sIlVeR_rEvLiS_cia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't even like this person. so why go to the wedding that you don't even care about anyway. wouldn't you just feel like a hypocrite?! on the other hand, your boyfriend is the mc. would you be expected to be his escort?
2007-01-27 02:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i don't see any reason why you still have to go to the wedding. you said it yourself that you are obviously not wanted there. you just risk having lots of dagger stares and bad words thrown at you.
2007-01-27 02:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not go to the wedding. That would be like, uh, be so trailer trash.
2007-01-27 02:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋