Alright I asked a simular question before but I really didn't get a good answer. Well I have been best friends with a certain girl since forever she is in college and I am deployed to Iraq in the army. I talk to this girl every time I have the chance. I talk to her more then I do my parents. Every time I see pictures of her I smile, every time I hear her voice on the phone it gives me a warming feeling like I am not even in the worst country in the world. I guess I don't know, I'm lost, I love this girl and I want to know if she loves me too? I always have this question on my mind. I am going on leave in like 3 weeks and it would be nice to hear some opinions on this matter before I go home and see her and make a big fool out of myself. She doesnt know I am coming home, so I am surprising her at her dorm. I just want to hear some opinions before I do this to see if it is worth it. In my eyes I think it is worth it, but I guess I am just afraid of her not feeling the same way I do. HELP
2007-01-26 18:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First thing- simular
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This proves that you really want answers as soon as possible... oh yes. and quick.
Alrighty, I can't answer to you straight out, but just show some signs that you like her. Now that you're coming back home, you should see her more around right? If so, ask if she missed you , if she smiles but says nothing, then help her- like " missed or unmissed..." but on the other hand, don't really push her, as a girl, it's kind of hard to say that you like that person directly.
If she says no, then pretend that you were just kidding - Tip : NO TEARS ALOUD- IT WILL GIVE IT AWAY. JUST HOLD IT IN!!!!!!!!! Act cooly - and ask if she wanted to hear about where you've been and what've you done. If she says no to that- then... sorry kiddo, that's all I could do.
2007-01-26 18:35:44 · answer #1 · answered by rice girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if that certain girl loves you, by the way she talks to you. If she tells you everything or share her secrets with you and tell you almost everything about her and shows her concern towards you or gives you good advises and shows thoughtfulness even though you don't see each other, then maybe it's about time that you tell her about your feelings towards her before someone else does. Don't be afraid to tell her that you love, maybe she is just waiting for you to tell her. Sometimes actions speaks louder than words, learn to read also between the lines so that you will know if she also loves you. Most importantly, show her that she means a lot you. Good luck!
2007-01-26 18:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by barbz752000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys have been friends forever then she must like something in you i would give it a shot and tell her u realy feel about her and the worst that could happen is she doesnt want to wreck the friendship but i bet she likes u too tell me what she says im dieing to know
2007-02-03 15:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often do you talk on the phone? Who initiates communication? What sorts of things do you talk about?
Deep down, you probably already have a feeling about whether she cares or not.
Either way, I would just tell her you love her. Either way, she'll be immensely flattered.
2007-01-26 18:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. she most likely loves you too. but only if you REALLY mean it. ya know, being an air force girlfriend myself, i know that that would be the best thing to hear my boyfriend say after surprising me...but you go with your heart.
2007-02-03 16:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL iT S0UNDS G00D S0 FAR BECAUSE iT SEEMS AS iF Y0U HAVE A SHARED iNTEREST BECAUSE Y0U TW0 TALK AN AWFUL L0T. i THiNK Y0U SH0ULD C0ME UP WiT A CREATiVE WAY T0 TELL HER [[ LiKE A SiNGiNG BEAR ETC.. ]] . BUT LiFE iS AB0UT TRiAL && ERR0R , Y0U WiLL NEVER KN0W iF Y0U D0N`T TRY. i SAY G0 F0R iT ... i HAVE FAiTH iN Y0U
G00D LUCK =]
2007-02-03 13:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup yup, girls love to be told that they are adored and wanted, even if its from a creepy infatuated guy .. which you don't seem anyway... good luck mate!
2007-01-26 18:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE U! if theres no comment back from her let her go! shes gonna try to play u if u stay with her after that!
2007-02-03 14:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be all shy and if she asks you what is wrong well you tell her but try to make it slow and kind of in a way ask her if she loves u
good luck
2007-02-03 14:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by alyssa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not as is as the ordinary do. she treats you as an important person and even do's the favor that you ask to her with no doubts. more on something like that.
2007-02-02 18:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by leachim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋