seriously......they all think about sex and that is all they think about even on first dates.......any good guys left!? why dont they ever want to settle down and actually get to KNOW a girl?
2007-01-26 18:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u cant really not think about it but you can talk to a girl and get to know her.
2007-01-26 18:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few indeed, I think the fact is that the nice guys arent always the hottest guys and unless your not shallow you will never end up with a nice guy. For instance, me im not a model but im nice, sweet and always there for my girlfriend even if it means walking 30 miles in the freezing cold. As for sex, sex isnt what a relationship should be about its about taking your relationship farther and should be respected as such. Good Luck on your ventures and try to look beyond the outside.
2007-01-26 18:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that's the kind of a guy that I am. I am waiting for sex until marriage. I'm a Christian man and that is part of my vaules. I'm what most would consider a normal, cool, good looking guy and girls try to have sex with me but that's not what I am after. I am after a women's heart, I am 25 and looking to settle down and get married. The physical aspect can wait. Right now I am content to kiss and cuddle and just make my girl feel loved and feel special. I feel bad when girls tell me that they dont meet a lot of guys that share my views. I will tell you that those kind of guys are out there. I am friends with some. I wont lie and say there are a lot of guys out there who aren't looking for sex(especially early on) but keep searching, seeking and pray for God to send him to you. I will say a prayer for you now.
2007-01-26 18:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by PAboy05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually trying to get sex on the first date to a lot of men is the 'macho' thing to do. Some guys just think it's manly to at least try. A lot of men do and try to respect women only to be told that they are too nice. When young and even older men are seeing the respect that the so-called 'dogs and jerks' are getting and the women that are so fond of them they will eventually change their strategy. You will meet someone that will want to get to know you and like you for who you are.
2007-01-26 18:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the exact same way that you feel. I'm in my late 20's, I have graduated for college and about to go to grad school, no kids, have my own car and live by myself. In my area that means nothing to men. They would rather go after the women with no jobs and that have about 2 to 3 different kids with different men. This man once told me that men do care as far as what you have going for that sex is pretty much all that they want. I do believe that there are good men out there. Maybe they are not right for you yet, meaning that God is still molding them into the man that you will fall in love with and vice verse. Women are not perfect either, we have issues to. I'm taking this time to take care of me. I can do whatever I want without having to ask my man. Take your time and figure out who you are and what you want out of life and also think about what you have to contribute to a relationship. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. WE WILL MAKE IT!!!!!
2007-01-26 18:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by SWEET HEART 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully I would rather get to know a girl and she get to KNOW me becaouse I dont want to get hurt or hurt anybody ever again if I can avoid it. I have a bad temper and a checkered past that I hold against myself deeply .. I used to be extremely evil and still have a chip on my shoulder for not being focused in the past as I am now a days
2007-01-26 18:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, they are are no intense high quality men accessible. purely wait, and everntually you men will combat, smash up, and you'd be overwhelmed. Its the way the international works. additionally, i'm guessing you men have long gone out what, 3 months? come back to me with this "question" once you hit the a million year mark and tell me you haven't any longer had a combat.
2016-11-01 09:50:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhh, if you find any, let me know-----just kidding. I think most guys have that one thought on their mind pretty much and I don't care what they say, IT's TRUE!!!! But there are some out there who don't think of it as much as some and even if they do, they're not constantly going on about it. Can get a little sickening sometimes.
2007-01-26 18:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there!
Sex is not an big issue to me, if it happands it happands im not going to set it as my main goal to get. I tend to belive im a good guy, that tends to always finish last. I do enjoy going on a date and just talking getting to know the person and everything.
2007-01-26 18:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by alexander_racing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a nice guy and know how to treat a woman and sex with
her is constantly on my mind...
2007-01-26 18:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of those are taken...
Please give us a break, it is what we do. Try to find one who doesn't try to push you into it on the first date. You may have to wait a while though and maybe change hunting grounds.
2007-01-26 18:30:55 · answer #11 · answered by Don't look too close! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋