..it doesnt seem right for me. I'm not attracted to him at all. However, I have enjoyed our conversations and appreciate the fact that he has treated me decently.
BUT though it may be that over the phone we get along great, when I'M actually AROUND HIM---- I dont feel any vibes, nor any real connection, nor any sort of energy (not talking about lust)--- I dont feel completed when I'm with him.
AND--- I'm 19, while he's 33 and I did not know this age difference until a few minutes after we went out to lunch last Saturday. We're in completely different stages of life.
MY PROBLEM: Is this all I can expect.? Is this as good as it will get? Guys my age usually compliment me on my looks or stare at me, but not one has TALKED to me in a sincere way. Should I just settle for this guy while it all seems good?
2007-01-26 18:30:52 · 8 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Danny"--- I am a female-- I've actually had problems creating a woman avatar-- anybody have tips?
2007-01-26 18:48:22 · update #1
You are still young, there are plenty of chances to find the perfect guy!
To settle for this guy, no matter how decent and lovely he is, does not do either you or him any justice. It will just prove to be unfair for you both.
2007-01-26 18:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - it sounds like you may have found a friend but if the sparks arent flying leave it at that. Your 19 - why are you in a hurry. Sign up for some college courses and take classes where men will outnumber women such as sports. When you find the right person, you will know it without a doubt.
2007-01-27 02:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! do not settle for a guy you aren't completely happy with! Expect great things! do not give up on finding a true love! that is definetely not as good as it will get, you deserve better. there is a handsome man somewhere out there waiting for you, and when you find him, you'll know. and just think, if you settle for this guy youre with now, you'll never find the person you are meant to be with. have faith!
2007-01-27 02:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by identityquiet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the guy for you. wait 2 years (that's an inside joke you'll understand shortly) then click the yahoo answers advanced search button and type "the lake house"..... the guy's question should pop up. I just gave him instructions to show sincerity. He'll be pleased to hear from you so soon.
Oh...let him know if you're a girl because the picture yahoo gave you looks like a guy.
2007-01-27 02:44:28 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not attracted to him then dont be with him. It wouldnt be fair to either fo you and besides you did say t yourself, you are both in diffrent stages of your lives. Men at 30 are ready to settle down and start a family, if you are not attracted to him then i think this is not a good choice. Ive always felt that you have to be somewhat attracted to the physical appreace of the person you are seeing, even if you think hes great.
2007-01-27 04:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to settle for this guy your only 19 go to collage or work.you have the rest of your life to find the right guy!Now have a little fun with this guy get him to spend money and time on you.Nothing wrong in that, and it wont be his first time ether that a woman did this to him, we have come to expect it from time to time!!!
2007-01-27 02:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do you'll end up divorced from the sounds of it. You have to really love someone to live with them. It can be a challenge. If you don't really love them, there will be a lot of bickering.
2007-01-27 02:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's too old for you.
he's learned how to be sincere-like, in order to get girls like you. It's better to be alone than date guys like this.
2007-01-27 15:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by mrbobbobber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋