My girlfriend and I have an unsual relationship. Whenever we are out together and I notice another really hot woman, my girlfriend enjoys proving to me that she can get this woman into her bed while I cant. The only problem is she is right and they never let me join in with them. Instead, they make me sit outside but close enough so that if they call I can serve them refreshments. I still have not slept with my girlfriend even though we live together and I do all the housework. I also have half my monthly salary deposited directly into her account. I love her to death but it is agony listening to her moan for hours with another woman behind a closed door. Begging them doesn't help, they only laugh at me more whenever I do, and I do beg them alot. Sometimes if I take them out shopping on my credit card and carry all their purchases she will let me kiss her feet but that is the most I ever seem to get. Is there anything more I can do for her. I would die if we broke up, she knows it too.
2007-01-26 18:32:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your a disgrace to men every were as your the reason some women think they can get anything in life by being pretty. here is my answer get ur self esteem out of the dark hole its in and rejoin the male race when you do that youll realize that you should have left the ***** years ago hell you should have never goon out with her in the first place jesus its not good for you 1 question befor i go are you ashamed of yourself.
2007-01-26 18:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've spoiled her and your brain... Literlally. You treat her like an idol. She's using you. TOTALLY!!! What you siad is right. You do see another hot woman when you're out together. Part of you says that you want to break free, and that's why you still have that part of you of seeing hot women. And part of you says if I treat her continually well, she'll love me even better. Trust me- I answer a lot of relationship questions- go with another girl. But first, find a day that you two people talk and just break up. No matter how she calls, kicks, slaps you, remind your self that this is the key to freedom. Finally - then get with another girl.
2007-01-27 02:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by rice girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldnt die if you broke up, u would just be really sad for a while... and then ud feel like an idiot for ever letting urself get treated this way. she is CHEATING on you INFRONT of you. You may as well go and pick up. What you have isn;t a relationship its a powergame and she is winning. It's not healthy and noone deserves to be treated like she is treating you!!!
otherwise u could try not buying her stuff and demanding a normal relo. if ur not up for that.. leave
2007-01-27 02:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by sammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help with what? Sweetie your being used and you know it! You just said you live with her, no sex but shes having sex with other women. That's not fair! But your doing all the house work and paying for gifts and the bills too. YOUR HER *****!I say shes disrespecting you. You need to leave, how can she love you back? Maybe you need to re read your Question and see where the hell it says she loves you and that she makes you happy. Cause the only thing this girl loves is controlling you and using you. WTF!!! There are other women out there that would die for a guy like you.
2007-01-27 02:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by darlingnicky772 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man u r crazy !get out of her house stop treating her like a queen.thats shitty how she does u.and u havent even slept with her.what kind of refreshments do u serve them?i hate to be the one to tell u but 1 thing u arent playing with a full deck of cards,2 u r being used,3 ur dumb as hell!get a life join the real world.....
2007-01-27 02:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by tootsieroll1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious?coz if you are i dont know what the hell you are doing with someone whos USING YOU FOR YOUR MONEY!!she is clearly a lesbian....kick her out of your house and fix the account problem so she wont get your salary anymore.if she loved you as much as you love her,theres no way she would put you in such a position.shes selfish and she's taking for granted the fact that she knows you you think you will die if you broke up.get rid of her,you'll find someone who'll give you all the love and attention you desearve.imagine yourself doing what you do for her to someone else...some one who appriciates....dont you think you'll get back the same amount you put in?leave her.good luck.
2007-01-27 02:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Let me see if I've got this right.......she gets her rocks off as often as possible and you apparently don't get your rocks off ever?? Not only does she get her rocks off without you but she does it with other women.
Wake up and see what is happening. This lesbian is using you.
Time to move on and find yourself a woman who actually likes you. Not someone who is looking for a man to humiliate
2007-01-27 02:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Julie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all .. she would have to love you and you only and only want to be with you not others,,, you are a good person for doing what you do.. and i understand about not going on with life without her but i suggest you sit down and talk to her... show her some tough love and see how she feels from there.. she may not be your soul mate and you don't want to waste your time on that..
2007-01-27 02:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you won't die if you two break up! you were born in this world alone! and you can die alone too! your girl's a bitchy user! she's just using you and you know that so stop it! you're making things even harder for yourself! there are a lot of girls out there and some are even prettier and nicer! get up and find one of those nice girls! and leave your girl! she's a freakin' whore anyway...
2007-01-27 02:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being serious, you are putting yourself through a lot of torture with someone that sounds like they are taking complete advantage of you. And, you are letting her do it.
Wake up and smell the coffee!
2007-01-27 02:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by quietude61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋