My wife and I are in a bit of a rut....
We decided to talk about fantasies...hers were more of the "loving" kind...mine all involved other guys with her! lol
I'd like to ask other couples -
Do you guys talk about / share fantasies?
Have you fulfilled any/all of them?
Are there any fantasies you would NEVER tell your spouse that you have - but are willing to share it here?
2007-01-26 20:19:24 · 5 answers · asked by deg8158 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fantasy talk can be a dangerous playing ground! Though it can be healthy as well! Yes me & the wife talk a lot about fantasies...we are open & dont hide anything...because we are very close & understand each other deeply. Sometimes it causes some steamy sessions & in the morning we want seconds......pitty we couldnt do any of it as yet!!
2007-01-26 20:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what loving fantasies are, but you should make sure she knows what kind of fantasies you have in mind. Before you tell her that you want her to be with another guy ask her if she has thought about being with another woman and then talk about other couples. Ask her if you satisfy her completely tell her to be totally honest with you and except what she tells you. Then ask her if she would like to be with another man.
2007-01-27 04:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by josh n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I discussed our sexual fantasies.
My wife fantasy is to be having dinner with another couple and have the husband reach his hand under her dress to find she is not wearing any panties. Then he would walk her outside to a secluded location and lift up her dress and hump her standing up.
My fantasy would be to watch her fulfill her fantasy and then hump the other guys wife while she watches. Maybe one day if we're our fantasy will come true.
2007-01-27 12:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHH MYYYY.... a big can of worms. My husband would NEVER let me be with another man while he watched. Therefore, I don't think he would fantasize to that degree. We do talk about fantasies.... with each other. We do fulfill fantasies..... with each other. We have a union based on Christ so to go outside our marriage for some swinger activity is pretty much a no-no. NOW...., about my own fantasies........ I generally fantasize about other people that I see. Not celebrities, just everyday people. Wonder about penis size.... (wait, I did say we were christians......should I shut up I wonder?) Anyhow, you wanted the truth. Size is what I wonder and fantasize about. SHHH... don't tell hubby....I love him very very much!!!
2007-01-27 04:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by squealy68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife told me one of her fantasy's was to be made love to in a public place. So i did her 3 different times in one day once in a parking garage, in a park, and an elevator.
2007-01-27 05:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋