I am a 18y.o male and I have a female friend who liked me well. She really liked me, until i decided to be a loser. (over obsessive). i really like this girl but how can i make up for what i have done. She said she liked me until a decided to be a loser. she wont talk to me now. Please help so i can get the girl that i love.
2007-01-26 20:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by ash c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and also, she wont return my messages or answer her phone to me
2007-01-26 20:34:39 · update #1
i was a loser because i kept sending her stupid love txts. she made me delete her no. of my phone. i really like this girl
2007-01-26 20:39:52 · update #2
i was a loser because i kept sending her stupid love txts. she made me delete her no. of my phone. i really like this girl
2007-01-26 20:42:22 · update #3
Since u ve decided u want the girl anyhow, then no worries. You will! The most imp thing is to tlk to her. To make her understand how u feel. Once she knws tht, I'm sure she ll return. Grls ve a hidden secret. They also like guys to over-protect them and be obsessive at times only. Until u dont let her know how much u love her, nth will be solved. All the best! Cauz nth is impossible!
2007-01-26 20:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make it very clear to thiz girl that you are willing to change for her. Let her know that she means a lot to you... enough make you change into what she wants. Explain to her that what you did waz a mistake and how you are trying to make things right. Be presistant and convince her to not give you another chance, but to give the relationship a chance. Keep reassuring her that things will be ok and you will make something of yourself. Reassurance iz KEY here. good luck brother.
2007-01-27 04:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you mean over obsessive?? not enough information!
& don't call yourself a loser because of a mistake!!
that does not make you a loser!
you are not making mistakes every minute
you need to pat yourself on the back for the nice & good things you do & I bet there are plenty of good things because if you call yourself names you will make your self depressed
2007-01-27 04:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First relax.
Second, drop her a note and tell her that you'd like another chance, but if she's not interested, that's ok. This will show her that you're not obsessing over her.
If she doesn't bite, then it's time to move on.
2007-01-27 04:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her and say you are sorry. let her know that you won't do it again. (BTW what did you actually do?) and that you are gonna leave her alone now but if she wants to go out she can call you. That way you are giving her some space and allowing her to make her own decisions.
If she gives you a second chance don't screw up again!
2007-01-27 04:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a loser.
2007-01-27 04:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do is quit your over obsessiveness or don't be obsessive at all... Then talk to her about what happened and ask for forgiveness...
2007-01-27 04:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some therapy to fix your control issues. If she sees you taking your problems this seriously, she may decide to give you another chance.
2007-01-27 04:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by "loser"? Smoking? Drinking? what?
Um, all I can say is tell her you want to make it up for her.
2007-01-27 04:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by debah v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you'll change if she gives you a second chance. and this is the tricky and important part. DO ITTTTTTTTTT!!!!!! and learn not to be so co-dependent. good luck kid.
2007-01-27 04:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Allister Black Metal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋