Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I am wondering if anyone out there has ever seen the user id given below on any website or group or forum or blog anywhere out there in the web. If so can you please let me know what site it was and in what capacity you saw the id; for example was it a comment on a blog or an active member. that type of thing. thanks
the user id I am looking for it bigofree40.

2007-01-26 08:13:07 · 3 answers · asked by finallyfree 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 08:12:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is the kind of type where he thinks he is always right. I'm just afraid he might one day become one of those delusional tone deaf singers of american idol where they think that the judges dont know what they are talking about when they do

2007-01-26 08:12:38 · 17 answers · asked by thisgirl 1 in Family

ok so theres this 7th grader and i think he likes me but hes 3 years older than me is that bad? but i dont know if he likes me and the problem is im totallay crazy about him pleeeeeez tell me what to do to get him to get him to ask me out cuz there is a dance on the 2nd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-26 08:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by XcourttneyyX 2 in Singles & Dating

really just don't know what to do anymore... Im fourteen, and ive met a lot of new people in highschool, including a particular person who I like waayyy more than i should. He's my best friend, and I cant help but like him as more than that... and Im almost positive he likes me in the same way. The only problem is that he has a girlfriend that im sort of friends with and they really do like each other they're perfect together... but i dont know what to do. I like him so much its hard for even me to believe. And I cant believe how much I trust him after only a few months. I can honestly tel him anything, and he trusts me that much too and I can always be myself around him, and I know its horrible of me to want to take him away from my friend, but I cant help it I want to talk to him about it, but Im so afraid to lose him, or to cause him to lose her or to lose both of them. Im so confused cause I know I shouldnt go after him, but thats so much easier said than done... any advice pleaz

2007-01-26 08:11:59 · 5 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Singles & Dating

The one thats fishin or the one thats diggin worms?

2007-01-26 08:11:48 · 40 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, when I met my friend Elsa* she was quiet, she'd talk and stuff. I found out a few months ago that she is (was) cutting herself. What can I say to help her? I think she may have been abused!??!

*Not her real name...

2007-01-26 08:11:29 · 8 answers · asked by Cara Arlene 5 in Friends

automatically assume when they get a crush on someone, that-that someone is interested too and they begin reading into all these otherwise normal jestures like smiling or saying "hi" to someone and then freak out over it. Know what I mean?

2007-01-26 08:11:11 · 11 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Singles & Dating

Everybody wants to see,
A girl that I know I can't be.
No matter what I say or do,
A perfect person walks on through.

Although she's non existent,
My family, friends, and peers,
Seem to see her everywhere,
But when I look, she disappears.

She jumps through math with straight As,
While I barely lag behind.
She's dating every boy in school,
While they're only on my mind.

She wakes up, takes a shower,
Needs no makeup on her face.
While I slowly walk beside her,
Use more makeup than this race.

I don't know why I must be her,
When I could just be me.
I guess she is the new me,
And I'm leftover debris.

The boy I'd only dream of,
He is nowhere near my reach.
Yet he's standing right beside her,
And she doesn't even see.

She takes it all forgranted,
As it's taken from her side.
And only when she sees it,
does she even realize…
©2006 Raine Nicole

2007-01-26 08:10:16 · 14 answers · asked by Rain Nicole S 1 in Singles & Dating

Im looking for ideas for a date, where the date itself is an icebreaker.

2007-01-26 08:09:46 · 48 answers · asked by graphix 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 08:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by JuliusRomans 3 in Singles & Dating

He is shy. He hasnt approached me at work yet. (we work in different departments) We talked once, and he would laugh nervously and since I've caught him looking at me a lot then looking away when I catch him. Why hasnt he approach me since? He is extremely shy but I want to get to know him better.

2007-01-26 08:09:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would say that 8 out of 10 of my guy friends have or do cheat on their girlfriends. This happens quite frequently and the girls have no clue it's going on. That made me think that us guys could be just as blind to it. I had a girl once tell me that girls in fact do cheat a lot, but they are just smarter about it. What do you think?

2007-01-26 08:08:51 · 3 answers · asked by Trixstix 3 in Singles & Dating

i feel so comfortable with him its been 2 months and im not obsessive or anything...in fact, ive never felt better, ive never had a guy actually like me for me so is it wrong that he seems to be MADLY in love while im just crusin along feelin good?

2007-01-26 08:08:30 · 6 answers · asked by rainice43 1 in Singles & Dating

The thing is that everyone I know tells me that I look like Angelina Julie (who I personally don't think is real that pretty), however, I really don't feel pretty. It seems like people tell me I am beautiful just to boost my self-confidense. How would you know if you are really beautiful? I now looks don't matter, but, I am just wondering and it's killing me. If I am so beautiful, why don't guys hit on me as much? That is the real question ;)

2007-01-26 08:07:37 · 44 answers · asked by soosool 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like him and i think he knows i want to go out with him but im not sure plz help

2007-01-26 08:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Kala♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

the teacher even had to ask the other students (when he wasn't in the classroom)not to laugh at him, talk to him. It's bad a couple of months into the year he was caught changing his colors from red to green before he got home. The principle and counselour actually take turns watching him(at all times)when he's in school. I know, hes acting out, but how can I help him. His situation is this. He lives at his grandmas(other side of the family) his parents are poor, drunk(dad), grandparents are great they do as much as they can. Got it?His Situation sucks!! He's stressed, I know it. How caN I help him?? His is a great kid when Im around, my sisters and brothers too, what can we do?? How do we help him when we only see him 1-3 times a month. I will see him tommorrow, what can I do?? I don't want to impose on the parents(grand parents) but I will!! How do I help him? I have two young toddlers, but he is a really good kid. I am sooo worried, it's only gonna get worst!! Please help!! Thank

2007-01-26 08:06:27 · 3 answers · asked by Mic 2 in Family

i've been dating this guy for over a month and i still haven't been to his house... i know he doesn't have a wife at home cuz he and i are always together! he gave me two reasons as to why i haven't been to his house: !) because he doesn't know if am controlling and i may stalk him once i find out where he lives.2) he told me he has tenants living in his basement and doesn't want them to know his business.... everything else is cool.. i can call him at anytime, we spend a lot of time together sometimes til the early morning! so i know he doesn't have someone else.. why do you think he won't let me see where he lives?

2007-01-26 08:05:56 · 38 answers · asked by chocy 1 in Singles & Dating

well the guy (my ex) turns out that he likes not me but one of my co-workers and its not too good...his best bud went up to me just know im me if i was ok with them two goin out so i ran to the other side of the building and it turns out that my ex wnats her and not me...i dont tink i should still tell him how i feel...but what do i do with this broken heart of mine...(AGAIN)

2007-01-26 08:05:45 · 9 answers · asked by Eleivia V 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys:

I need some advice here. My ex-husband disappeared 15 years ago to avoid paying child support to another country. He still lives there, is married and has 3 other kids (we have 2). I found his website first, I kept searching and now have his address and telephone number.

We also have to kids now 26 & 22. In all those years we never saw a dime, no phone call to the kids, no birthday cards and no Christmas gift. He is a grandfather by my oldest child and doesn't know it.

Should I contact him or should I leave it alone? My kids do not want any contact with him.

2007-01-26 08:04:14 · 34 answers · asked by majajarany 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so i like this guy, but we never talk, and i'm trying to build up the courage to tell him i like him. i think he likes me back, but i was just wondering, should i make a valentine for him and tell him on the card i like him and give him my phone number?

2007-01-26 08:03:54 · 5 answers · asked by lindsey 4 in Singles & Dating

She asks your name, occasionally see each other in passing make small talk. She makes good eye contact says she hadn't seen you in awhile. What should I do, should I ask her what her intentions are or what?

2007-01-26 08:03:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for almost a year now and I love him to death, but he is very sarcastic in nature, especially when it comes to my three yr old daughter. He tells me he loves her and would do anything for her, but he comes across as almost hateful towards her. He's one of those guys that can't say anything nice to anyone, but he says he is only joking. He says that's just the way he is, even with his own two girls.
He even criticizes me in the way I raise her and discipline her. I know I am a very good mother, and we share a very close bond and relationship with each other. He thinks that just because he spends a couple of hours a month with his girls, he knows everything about being a father. But it's weird, the only time my daughter acts up, is when he comes home. Am I just wasting my time with him, or should I just except the way he is. My daughter even tells me she loves him.

2007-01-26 08:03:30 · 12 answers · asked by prima ballerina 2 in Singles & Dating

Over the past two weeks me and this guy I am interested in have been having some issues. We knew each other for a while before we started dating, but then i left town for a month. We talked, and made arrangements to see each other, but when I came back he blew me off. He was going thru some things, but I still wanted him to call me. I got upset and said some things I didnt really mean, and he told me he dosent understand why I dont believe him when he says he cares about me. So he was upset and so was I, but we arranged to talk. He never call me that night and I got mad again and sent him a message about how i dont think he cares and how he wont miss me when im gone. I sent another message since, apologizing for taking things too far, and before he said he could forgive me, but we havent talked since that last message, and its only been a couple of days, but im worried that ive lost him for good.. becuase even if we werent going to date, he was a good friend that made me happy.

2007-01-26 08:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by Darkbutterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and on the bus my friend told me he was a "huge stoner", but I never would have suspected it. Apparently I'm the only one because my other friend practically snorted when I asked her and said it was really obvious. My question is, how could you know if someone was a stoner if you didn't overhear anything telling or actually SEE them with drugs?

2007-01-26 08:03:11 · 8 answers · asked by artfuldodger1300 2 in Friends

2007-01-26 08:02:21 · 33 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would love to date a cute black woman but I don't talk like the hip hop stars and dress like them. Should I change or are they out there? I live near Inglewood, CA.

2007-01-26 08:02:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And why do you think they love you? (Meaning- what qualities do you believe you possess that makes them love you).

2007-01-26 08:00:35 · 16 answers · asked by Elke 2 in Singles & Dating

Found out the other night my wife has been sneaking around talking to some guy on yahoo messenger, never told me about him and now claims their just friends, When I told her it bothered me and to delete him she claimed I was treating her like a child and refused (also we have 4 daughters together involved in this scenario) She only talks to him while I am at work and makes sure to let him know when I am home! So anyone been involved in similiar situation and what was the outcome!!!

2007-01-26 08:00:21 · 19 answers · asked by dragonmaster9970 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How hard is it to get joint custody of children in state of Oklahoma. What is best to do? Just want equal rights.

2007-01-26 08:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by Indian5 1 in Marriage & Divorce