Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

Those were all good answers but i guess i could have given more info.. The bio father isnt on the birth certificate cause he left when I was 3 months pregnant and i really havent seen him since then. He has never helped me out in any means or anything else a father should do. My son is now 3yrs old and knows my fience as his daddy thats what he calls him..We are getting married next yr but its just curiosity for right now until we actually get married. I really need help...

2007-01-26 08:36:27 · 20 answers · asked by ajtownsend83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so ive been friends with this girl for a long time, since back in high school. a few weeks ago, i started to develop a romantic interest in her, but, she wasnt exactly into it, so i dropped it, and that was that.

recently though, we were talking and the topic of weekend plans came up, and i told her that i was going out with this other girl that ive kind of been seeing, and that id be unable to hang out with her.
since then, she has been coming on to me like its her job, telling me all about these crazy sex dreams she had with the two of us, and just all around hitting on me.
im just confused- if she is interested in me, why wait until im seeing somebody else? and if shes not interested, what's with the incessent flirting?

what the hell is the deal here? lol

please, no dumb/joke answers. thanks.

2007-01-26 08:35:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf and i went shopping last night. and i was like "baby, can i get this or that or whatever it is i wanted" you know?
he was like "boo, get what you want"

the only reason i asked was because it's "our" money not just mine you know?

2007-01-26 08:35:36 · 4 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

On Christmas day, my man proposed to me, so were now engaged and thinking of a wedding. We would like to go away somewhere and do it but are not sure where to go or how to go about planning the actual ceremony. I herd the pope marries 1000 couples a year or something. anyone know anything about that? Anyone got any advice on the subject?? Thanks :)

2007-01-26 08:34:52 · 6 answers · asked by cats_fender 2 in Weddings

don't you think it should have been a 'tongues up'?

Wouldn't you just love a flipping 'tongues up' from lowroad?

2007-01-26 08:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys ever think about if u r going to ever get a home run?

2007-01-26 08:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do men find it hard to admit that they are wrong? even when they see that what they did or said was wrong? are all men this way?

2007-01-26 08:32:34 · 7 answers · asked by heavenlyangelscent 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

here's the thing i have a crush on one of my best friends he's so cute and funny i rly like him but i dont know how to tell him i dont want things to get complicated between us people say he likes me too but i don't know what to say i don't want to go up to him and be like i like you do u like me

if any one can help thanx <3

2007-01-26 08:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with a guy that I cannot figure out if he likes me. He is cool, but I want to know if he likes me more than friends. He has called me "darlin", when we first met and had a beer after work the conversation did turn to relationships and our bodies. After that everytime he walked by me he surprised me by tickling me or tapping my shoulder. During busy moments at work, we come face to face for work, I look at him, and he smiles and sticks out his tongue. If he was a female, it would be great, I need new girl friends, but he's a guy!! How can I tell?

2007-01-26 08:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by h.marieh 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a very caring and loving person being a sensitive man. Always respect others in any case. Looking for a friend having opposite sex. I was living in different cities of Pakistan. Now in Lahore because of service. Qualification is graduate. I am also a good officer in my department (people say). Because I am very caring to my subordinates especially. I do not smoke or drink. Can speak Urdu, Punjabi, English only.

2007-01-26 08:31:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im moving in with him this weekend into a house. Why do I have this scared anxious feeling? Is it normal?
I love him and we plan on getting engaged this year. Im 23 he is 27. Why do I feel so nervous?

2007-01-26 08:31:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do guys ever think about if they r going to ever get a home run

2007-01-26 08:31:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-26 08:31:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you and your women got into a fight (not wife just gf) and she went crazy and took your flat screen off the wall and put her foot through it, a couple of times? Would it be ok to hit her, just once?

2007-01-26 08:30:48 · 24 answers · asked by VEGAS 3 in Singles & Dating

Its really worked for me so far but I want other people's input on this particular topic.

2007-01-26 08:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by cheerbabe2214 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not the best 'player' but I like this girl and I want to know whats the best ways to see whether she is 'interested in me'

Oh we do talk we are friends, but I want to know whether she feels... different.

2007-01-26 08:30:26 · 7 answers · asked by Shaun W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 08:30:05 · 4 answers · asked by gina 1 in Friends

I'm fairly happy with my figure, but I'm trying to make my boobs a bit smaller. They're 36D's right now and I wanna go down to a 36C.

I'm not the type of girl to flaunt my boobs all the time. But I'm not conservative either. For me, it all depends on where I am going. So, what do you think? What clothing styles/cuts/colors would look best on me??? I'm proud of my boobs and it gets a lot of attention, but sometimes I dont want that attention, and I don't want my boobs to stand out so much. Even when I'm covered up, my boobs are toally out there and its obvious that they're big!


Any recommendations on what clothes will keep me lookin' sexy and play with my figure well???

2007-01-26 08:29:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im just too nervous i cant

2007-01-26 08:29:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today was the best day for me...and yet the most confusing. I have chosen to go to Bloomsburg University Located in PA in the fall of 2007. I went up there with my boyfriend today...we live about 6 hours away we left early this morning drove up there i payed and everything is done! I'm so excited...but...i don't feel my boyfriend is. When we went up there he kind-of "complained" he said that it was taking to long and wasting his day. he then said that bloomsburg in his opinion wasn't the type of college he would attend. When i finally made my decision and payed and registered and knew that i was 100% positive that i was going there he became REALLY QUIET....he didn't say much the whole car ride home. The only thing he did say was how he had planned to go to a local college near our house for his first year then transfer. When we got home he hugged me said congratulation's and then left...
why is he acting this way? he should be happy for me! He complained today it made me feel bad..

2007-01-26 08:29:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok..so... i like this guy but when i have him i don't want him and when i don't have him... i want him... how do i know for sure if i want him or not.. i have mixed feelings...

2007-01-26 08:29:18 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and would you rather throw a cream pie in their face or give them a huge permenant herpies sore on their lip as pay back?

2007-01-26 08:29:14 · 34 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

On our second date, my date invited me over to her place to watch a movie. Long story short, all the signs were there that she wanted to get intimate (like cuddle, hold hands), but I did not make even one move the entire time I was there, and to top it off didn't even hug her goodbye when I left.
I like this girl, but I move at a snails pace when it comes to relationships, and worry because I feel all I did was indicate that night that I only want to be friends, which is not true.
I've since asked her out twice, once casually for lunch which she declined because she said she was sick. The second time for dinner, which she said yes, but flaked on me the night before saying she wanted to hang out with her friends instead. She seemed sorry, but...don't they all?
All I can do is keep asking her out everyweek, but if I keep calling her to go out, does it seem needy?
Is there any way to find out if she's still interested romantically or simply sees me as a "friend" now?

2007-01-26 08:28:51 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. John L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two gfs, one is awsome and sexy and i love her. Other one is just too caring and sweet and i think she loves me a lot.

which one should i marry?

2007-01-26 08:28:27 · 9 answers · asked by jogia j 1 in Friends

so i broke it off with my boyfriend of 2 years a while ago. and i met this other guy. Im only 18, but hes 21. i really like him, and we hang out all the time. He tells me he wants to make me so happy, bc of all the crap ive had to deal with. we go out to lunch like everyday, he puts his arm around me, kisses me on the forehead...sings to me in the car...all the cute stuff to make a girl sigh. But last night he said we were going to hang out after he got back from this bar he was at. so i waited and waited for a call...but it never came. finally at about 5 in the morning i get a text from him saying "im so drunk. im sorry. i will see you tomorrow." He had texted me earlier that night telling me his phone was about to die. anyways his phone is off, i tried calling. Is he still interested, was he ever interested? what should i do? should i answer his calls? its been so long since i tried to start a relationship...help.

2007-01-26 08:28:14 · 3 answers · asked by raelynn 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this may sound really, really silly, but Im totaly serious. My girlfriend is a truly amazing woman with some really bad past experiences, and I want to make something happen for her.

Basically, both her proms, (Junior and Senior) were ruined after about 10 minutes each by the jack-asses she was dating, and she always says she wishes she could have had those times, but oh well..

Now what I want to do is give her the next best thing, I want to spoil her a little, let her get her make up and hair done properly, pay for a dress she really wants and take her dancing somewhere, somewhere that its like the prom she never had.

Now the thing is I need to know the kind of places to look for dancehalls and dancing and stuff, cos Im actually not american and so I dont know too much about the country right now.

Also, does this sounds like a good idea to the women on here?

All help and serious answers only please. Thanks.

2007-01-26 08:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 08:26:23 · 14 answers · asked by dennis r 1 in Friends

I'm in a longdistant relationship with a man. I find it hard to trust him sometimes cuz he's really handsome and could get any woman he wanted. But he takes me to his local nightclub, where he goes every weekend with or without me. Do you think that if he was cheating he wouldn't take me there hand-in-hand? and introduce me to the bouncers (doormen) of the club? p.s. I've met all his friends and one of his married female friend's who is friends with all his friends. What do you think?

2007-01-26 08:25:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The closer our wedding date gets, the more I'm willing to let my fiance go. It's not that I don't love him, it's just that there are hordes of beautiful women with stimulating minds out there that would love to be with him. I'm getting sick to my stomach thinking that he's settling with me.

He's so positive, up-beat, laid back and doesn't let anything get to him. I am the exact oposite. And I see how he intereacts with people like him: he glows and seems alive. With me, it's like he loses his color and vibrance. I feel like he's making a huge mistake with me. I really do feel like I weigh him down.

I've talked to him about this before but he's reassured me it's all in my head. But I honestly can't shake this feeling. I love him dearly and I all I want is to see him happy, even if it's not with me.

Why do I have such low self-esteem right now? Is this even a self-esteem issue? What's going on?

2007-01-26 08:25:44 · 39 answers · asked by Joa5 5 in Marriage & Divorce

heres why

1. I live in a state called georgia and people are so mean, i say the falcons are an ok team i get stabbed after school.
2. Teacher asked me what college i want to go to i said UCLA i get cut with a scissor from someone that overheard me (georgia is a bad state)
3. My parents hate me and they cannot move out of this god forsaken state.
4. My parents hate me and they pray to god why i was born like im the devil's son or something.

5. I have absolutely no friends

6. i miss chicago where everything was good.

7. I have been in georgia for 7 years.





How should i commit succide though?

2007-01-26 08:25:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends