He is hiding something, like maybe he still lives with his parents. If your sure he is not married, it is something else because the excuses he gives are just plain LAME.
2007-01-26 08:13:02
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answered by TD R 5
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He may be embarassed. That's what it sounds like. Just let him know that you'd feel more comfortable knowing where he lives, even if just a precaution. Those tenants in the basement could be captives! Investigate girl ... If he still says no, you may want to let him know that he's f'in with your comfort levels. I need to know where a guy lives if we've been dating for a month. It's just necessary. He gives bad reasons as to why you can't come over. Tell him to shove those and get some better ones, otherwise, you just may have to stalk him to find out where he resides! good luck!
2007-01-26 08:12:45
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answered by msdrdn 3
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Perhaps he's embarrassed with his living conditions. Maybe he still lives with his mom. Or trust me he could still very well have someone on the side. I dated a guy for 2 yrs who spent 5-7 nights a week with me and he still managed to juggle 2 other females! I couldn't believe it when I found out since we were always together. Though you guy could just be telling the truth about worrying about someone stalking him. Perhaps he's had a bad experience in the past and wants to see how things go before he takes you home.
2007-01-26 08:15:55
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answered by Jess 1
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Hmmmm...consider the possibility that he is telling you the truth. He MAY have had a controlling girlfriend in the past, who could not hear a "No" or a "No thanks" when he had to say it. Or he may feel that the relationship is too new to go there. RELAX! Do NOT pressure him about going there. Nothing is wrong here. Be grateful that he appears to be honest with you. Maybe he does not want his tenants to scope out his private life until he feels more committed to you and then it won't matter. Just be patient and understanding, that will go a long way toward his trusting youand letting you into his space. Good Luck!
2007-01-26 08:14:29
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answered by mountain woman 3
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If you are really serious about being with this guy then just believe him. It all starts with trust. But if you really have to know then just start acting like you dont want to know. On top of that, start making your house unavailible to spend time at too. If he wants a little you and him time alone then he will have no choice but to let you meet the basement tenants!!!
2007-01-26 08:14:02
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answered by The Answer Guy 1
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He is hiding something 100% , i wouldn't trust this guy at all!!!! He could very well have a wife, just because he spends a lot of time with you means nothing!! He could be lying to her as well, as to why he is never home. He is bad news!! Why would his tenants care one way or the other if he has a girlfriend???
2007-01-26 08:12:53
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answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7
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-if you cant go to his house
-if you cant meet his friends
-if you dont know his family
-if you cant go to his job
-if you cant call his house, but only his cell
those are signs he may be with someone else. If those dont apply to you, maybe in time he would be a bit more secure. That or he is really ashamed of where he lives. He may just also still be living with his mom or a "friend"...
I would be a skeptic though- it is very unusual to not know where he lives.
If you have his home #- try going to http://www.reversephonedirectory.com and search for his address and find out yourself. Or try zabasearch.com.
2007-01-26 08:11:59
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answered by glorymomof3 6
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I think those are lame answers he is giving you, he may have something else to hide, like a really dirty house or who knows what else? Do you have any common friends you could ask? In any case, don't push the issue just yet. If he doesn't invite you over in the next month I would break up with him.
2007-01-26 08:15:45
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answered by wendygirl1000 2
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I know guys who are protective of their hosue and protective of their girls. Him saying he doesnt want his tenants in his business is understandable. But if he thinks you will stalk him when you find out where he lives, says a lot about his character not to mention his trust in you. I would give it a little more time for him to understand that you are a trustworthy person, but dont wait around forever.
2007-01-26 08:12:39
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answered by unknowngirlx 2
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Certainly not for the reasons he gave you. I smell a cheat. Just because you spend alot of time together does not mean he does not have someone at home. Granted his significant other may not be happy with his being out all the time but she may just put up with it because of the kids. Something just aint right.
2007-01-26 08:11:45
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answered by sweetlaughter434 3
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Well, obviously he's been stalked before or knows someone who has. My ex recently moved and didn't want me to know where, and was hestitant to tell me where he worked. I have to admitt, that I did follow him because he was cheating and I guess he just didn't want me to do that.
But really guys don't understand that when you keep secrets, you give a woman a reason to be suspicious and curious. Tell him that you can't continue to date someone that doesn't want you to know where he lives. If he's worried about you stalking him then he has something to hide.
2007-01-26 08:12:32
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answered by geminig 1
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