She asks your name, occasionally see each other in passing make small talk. She makes good eye contact says she hadn't seen you in awhile. What should I do, should I ask her what her intentions are or what?
2007-01-26 08:03:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok. Are you stupid or something, *e-slap*. Ok lets get down to business. Don't EVER ask a girl what her intentions are. There are clues and hints for this. And yes she does like you. Now you have to show her you like her back. A good way would to show this would be to smile when you see her and ask her for her name and stare her in the eye when talking. Talk to her about the things she talks to you about. Bring up facts and opinions RELATIVE to the conversation. We want connection here. Be sure to listen to her when she talks, so when shes done you have something to say back. Now your going to want to make friends with her friends, this way you can get near her. Don't get too close to her friends because then she'll think your using her to get close to her friends. Say "hi" to her and smile often. Body language for you is a necessity. Your single and open, so think and act "single" and "open". Don't fold your legs, or cross your arms. Show confidence and power in your posture. Look at yourself in the mirror and practice. Don't slouch your shoulders. Flirt with her, tell her jokes, but good jokes. Tease her, but don't hurt her. You may play "the game" but don't take it to the extreme, she likes you and respect that. And most of all be yourself, because thats who she liked in the first place ;) Hope all works out
- The Date Doctor Robert
2007-01-26 08:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Robinhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might think that you two are friends. Or she might just be wanting to get to know you better. Girls are very complicated trust me. Don't ask her what her intentions are that will scare her away. So just play along with the way she is acting as in talk to her like you would talk to a friend~Good Luck
2007-01-26 16:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by livvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very little to go on. If that is all that is happening I would not ask her what her intentions are; you might embarrass yourself. She might just be friendly. Why not ask her out for coffee, or lunch? If she says no or finds an excuse I would take that to mean she is not interested.
2007-01-26 16:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by wendygirl1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like any conversation you'd have with a friendly person on the street. How can you just assume you has intentions from that? If you want to ask her out, ask her out, but don't assume how she feels until she tells you or really shows it.
2007-01-26 16:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she could be interested. Take it easy you don't want to rush into things. Take it meeting by meeting. Let things happen, don't force them. Just keep talking with her for awhile and you should get a feel for her interest in you or if she is generally a flirt!!! Good luck!!
2007-01-26 16:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by kid on the block 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant really tell that she is interested in ya, but maybe the next time you two see each other talk to her and ask her if she would like to go for a drink or wateva you two are into doing and see what she say's???? it wont be all that bad..
2007-01-26 16:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by emma_18d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start small friend. Ask her for some coffee. Make it light. Let things grow naturally. Flat out asking her could be disastrous. Good luck man
2007-01-26 16:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Alex G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think asking what her intentions are will scar the sh&t outta of her. You obviously have no relationship if you haven't even been out on a date yet...just see eachother in passing...my suggestion is that you ask her out on a date, or drop it.
2007-01-26 16:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by violet1656 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could always ask her out for coffee that is a slow way to proceed and you will know by what she responds with I hope
If not then you could ask her to join you for lunch some day
or go for an ice cream... something not too difficult and friendly
2007-01-26 16:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking a girls intention is like shooting yourself in the foot of dating.
It's REALLY obvious, find something you love to do and ask if she wants to join you.
2007-01-26 16:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋