Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

he says he is having fun with it and i do too actually but i'm just wondering if this is normal.

2007-01-24 18:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey...Does anyone know of a good song that talks about 2 people who are in love but can't be together? They can't be together for several reasons, but do love eachother and wish they could be. If only circumstances were different.

2007-01-24 18:47:06 · 5 answers · asked by ecrc 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently left my husband and he moved in with the woman he had an affair with and he tells me he wants to work it out and sleeps on the couch. I called him the other day and it was 11am and he said he was still sleeping, now there are 14 dogs and two familys that live in this house with children and I asked him how he could sleep that long with all that noise? His response was anger and asked me what I was accusing him of, I said I am not I just asked how you can sleep with all the noise of people comming and going and he said I am not sleeping with her and they all respect me here so they do not wake me up. Why would they respect him when he does not work and contribues nothing to the house hold, why is he so defensive?? could it be that he really is sleeping with her, I just wish he would stop thinking that I am a F**cking idiot. some input please

2007-01-24 18:45:50 · 6 answers · asked by twinki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Robert

2007-01-24 18:45:37 · 7 answers · asked by Cheryl M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 18:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by honniebabee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 18:44:24 · 20 answers · asked by yuyu 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the new version of it.
Her face showed no sign of the emptiness she felt, her broken heart was hidden under layers of lies that she herself had spun.

Starved for attention and craving the love she never had, the girl lost her self in a sea of false hopes and rejection.

Her plea’s for attention were ignored by the ones she loved most, her crying was never heard and her real feelings never shown.

People envied her, but no one felt the hurt she felt, never cried as much as she cried, never was rejected so many times. She hurt inside, but no one cared.

She had tried so hard, she felt so empty.
The girl had lost count of the times she had tried and failed for there attention.

It was a race that seemed to have no finishing line, she felt drained, she was giving up, one more step and she would stop, and reach for the gun that would set her free.

Additional info..
She's 12.

2007-01-24 18:44:03 · 2 answers · asked by made_up_cinderella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Add to that the fact that you both have nothing in common anymore except the past?

2007-01-24 18:43:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and i actually told him, that I wasn't intrested in the free session he's trying to push on me...so he comes up to me tonight asking me about it again, and I went ahead and did it..but it's like damn..

2007-01-24 18:42:52 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is a guy, we have been friends for 21 yrs we met in high school and have been friends ever since. We do everything together, we go to clubs. we go to dinner. we go to football games, we do everything. When my grandmother died he stood by my side, and when my husband died he was there. He was so amazing, and wonderful. When he got his divorce I was there for him also, his wife said she felt like he was married to me more than her. Now I am in love with him, and I love him very,very much. About 2 yrs. ago we kissed and it was wonderful, now everytime he brings me home he kiss me on my forhead. I tell him that I am dating but I am not, I am saving myself for him. I love him so much, and I am trying to do everything to win his heart.

2007-01-24 18:42:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a new version of her text she did a couple of days ago.

Her face showed no sign of the emptiness she felt, her broken heart was hidden under layers of lies that she herself had spun.

Starved for attention and craving the love she never had, the girl lost her self in a sea of false hopes and rejection.

Her plea’s for attention were ignored by the ones she loved most, her crying was never heard and her real feelings never shown.

People envied her, but no one felt the hurt she felt, never cried as much as she cried, never was rejected so many times. She hurt inside, but no one cared.

She had tried so hard, she felt so empty.
The girl had lost count of the times she had tried and failed for there attention.

It was a race that seemed to have no finishing line, she felt drained, she was giving up, one more step and she would stop, and reach for the gun that would set her free.

Additional info..
She's 12.

2007-01-24 18:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by made_up_cinderella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just how sad you really are..

2007-01-24 18:41:02 · 10 answers · asked by renja27 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf last night called me at 1 : 30 am to go out with him , becuse my parents are away so its me and my sisters are at home .. so i told him i cant i dont want to go out its so late and lets c each other tomorrow at the right time so he yeld at me and is angrey with me so he says to me im a layer i just dont want to c him ?? so i said its not true . so now hes ignoring me he says its a chance to go out at night when your parents are out ..what should i do and what should i say to him ? im I worong or he is ?

2007-01-24 18:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell hard core for this guy that I was going out with but now we are just friends. I cannot help but still think of him in that way even though it has been since last September that anything happened. I'm constantly thinking about him as well as an old HS crush that I keep in contact with. How does a girl begin to change her frame of mind when she knows that she has to get at least a BA? What are some good ways to refocus my mind so that I'm more concerned with the people around me than if guys like me or not?

2007-01-24 18:37:42 · 2 answers · asked by Eyerichlassie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning on getting a job tomorrow,anyway...I wanna tell this girl I like her on Valentines day,what can I do to make it special/cool/unique...ANY and ALL suggestions will be apreciated,ANYTHING

I thought about just getting a huge box of chocolates,not heart shape,were black,we want chocolate that taste good...and then telling her I like her,I already know she likes me back,so anything I do will work,but I still wanna make it super special...corny wouldn't be so bad either

so anyway,any idea's

2007-01-24 18:36:49 · 8 answers · asked by RandomGreed 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 18:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have the biggest problem with letting go of the past. mainly: my boyfriends ex girlfriends and crushes. i seriously need some advice on LETTING IT ALL GO. i love him so much and i know that he loves me, still i cant seem to get over it. i really hate being like this because i know it upsets him and i feel terrible about it. i hate being this way. please can someone help me to let go of his past? i don't need people telling me to just "get over it" or that im being insecure and stupid, because i already know. thats why i want some help getting over things. i know that hes not with them, hes with me and allll of that. but i still keep letting it get to me. any ways to make these feelings go away?

2007-01-24 18:36:37 · 10 answers · asked by Jenniferrr 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 18:35:44 · 4 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's just the love I had before when we first went out is gone and replaced with another kind of love that I don't understand and very much unfamiliar to me. && it seems to be a little weird between us. ii was wondering why is it like that after geting back from a break up??
another thing that I want to question is my boyfriend hangs out with girls, and yes it bothers me. maybe it's because ii knoe that their are girls out their that would try to win away a taken guy from a perfectly great relationship. ii trust him but ii don't trust the girls. ii knoe 100% sure that he would never cheat on me and he loves me deeply and everything. ii mean he proves it to me everyday with his actions and what he says and how he told me he wants to work things out and make our relationship better.I was wondering why he likes hanging out with them?? maybe because my boyfriend is really sensitive or maybe he's just too nice to say no but ii'm not sure.
please help me out.

2007-01-24 18:34:48 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Casey 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a lover who has expressed discomfort regarding an oil portrait of my late husband.

I live with my sister for the time being. In order to be sure it is properly cared for I have hung an oil painting of my late husband and I in the bedroom suite that I live in.

My lover tells me it makes him very uncomfortable to be intimate in the same room with this painting. I have rather jokeingly covered it with a sheet but he says he still knows it's there and feels he is being watched by my dead husband.

I considered moving it to another room but it is rather large and there really is no other place in the house for it. Mind you, my bf only visits my room on occasion and does not even spend the night.

Tell me guys (and girls) would this bother you? Would you move the painting to a galery for storage (tho there is some cost involved and I actually enjoy the painting when alone), or would you just tell him to get over it? I don't want to be insensitive.

2007-01-24 18:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Ande 4 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been together for four months. He is proof to me that when you meet "the one", you just know it's for real. In the very beginning stages of our relationship we spent a great deal of time together. When he wasn't working, he spent the majority of his time fixing cars in his best friends garage (his best friend is a mechanic.) I pretended to be interested in cars for the sake of impressing my fiance. Little did I know I would become bored of spending so much time in the garage and secretly wish for more alone time with him. The only thing we did that I actually enjoyed was off-roading in his 4x4 Blazer. After a month of spending everyday together in the garage, I asked him to take me out. After all, I had supported his hoobies, despite the fact they weren't or personal interest to me; so the least he could do was return the favor by doing something I'd like to do.

2007-01-24 18:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by Desiree 5 in Singles & Dating

You were visiting a friend or family out of state(staying in their guest room) and you woke up and their spouse was standing over you staring at you?..........

2007-01-24 18:30:41 · 7 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i was walking past their room to get my bag, and i heard..... noises coming from the inside. i suddenly felt so embarrassed and scared though they didnt know that i was outside (or maybe they knew?) so while walking back to my room my mum suddenly opened the door. and yah everything was back to normal. but.. i could not help myself but to think about this every now and then. is it normal? i mean.. i felt disgusted which i dont understand why.. because if they didnt do that.. i wouldnt be here.

2007-01-24 18:30:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or would it sort of be emasculating him. I would like to buy him a ring and get down on my knees and ask, of course I wouldn't forget the roses and candelight. Would a man like this if he really loved someone?

2007-01-24 18:30:13 · 9 answers · asked by tunafish 2 in Weddings

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and i actually told him, that I wasn't intrested in the free session he's trying to push on me...so he comes up to me tonight asking me about it again, and I went ahead and did it..but it's like damn..

2007-01-24 18:30:04 · 5 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Friends

2007-01-24 18:28:40 · 19 answers · asked by newyorkchick 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend is being a pain in the ***. I'm mad at him and annoyed. How should i ignore him? Totally pretend I can't hear him if he says something? Or talk breifly and pretend I have better thigs to do? Give me ideas?

2007-01-24 18:28:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf always chats with women online but he woke up and caught me doing it and he's mad at me. why is he mad when he always does it right in my face. but i do it and he gets all upset?

2007-01-24 18:27:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like they would be more respectful and more faithful and stuff...........

2007-01-24 18:26:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 18:26:11 · 4 answers · asked by inlove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships