Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

2007-01-24 19:20:19 · 5 answers · asked by Cheers 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I have this manipulative friend, she always treats me horribly, treats her other friends like garbage, puts me down to make her feel better about herself... yeah she's a 100% toxic friend that puts me down and then yells at me for being upset about it later.

Anyways, I wrote her a note on myspace (yeah, lame.. i know) to avoid conflict (I didn't want her to get all worked up and yell and throw a tantrum).

And she did the thing I really didn't expect her to do... apologize. But only for a past argument she had with me, not the entire toxic friendship.

But, the thing is, I'm really not sure whether or not to buy her apology. I'm afraid she's just going to continue her behavior.

How do I know she is sincere? Part of me doesn't want to hang around her long enough to find out just incase she isn't... what should I do? Any advice?

2007-01-24 19:19:21 · 3 answers · asked by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 in Friends

I feel i have a problem with me... Sometimes wen i tend to say No to my hubby for sex he takes it and does not show me any unhappy expressions.. But if that happens to me... i tend to get irritated and angry at times.. i get pissed off.. & immediatly start thinking tat he doesn't finds me sexy anymore & he have gone bored doing it with me... wat is wrong with me??

2007-01-24 19:18:06 · 2 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Singles & Dating

If you have been dealt a raw deal in a broken relationship, and you are having a hard time getting over that relationship, does it help to start seeing another person whether temporarily or to start another relationship?

2007-01-24 19:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Bleeding heart 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I realy like but he wont even ask me out. Where I live it is not right for a woman to ask a man out. I met him this other day and we talked. He has never phoned me since that day but he used to phone me and we would spend 20, 30 minutes talking. Please Help what should I do to get his heart?

2007-01-24 19:16:31 · 4 answers · asked by magy 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend now wants girls night out once a month or week wahtever, without me. we have been together for 5 years and i have never messed up with our relationship meaning flirting or cheating on, but she has twice one time less than 6 mo ago. we ahve 2 kids we love and one on the way i am only 23 and she is only 21. we need to save our relationship and we are also both going together to marriage counciling. waht do i do?

2007-01-24 19:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by luke m 1 in Singles & Dating

he told me that he love this girl and wanted me to accept the situation that their having a baby soon.We have 2 children and still living together.I told him to leave us and be with this woman but he doesnt want to. He wanted to stay with us because of the fact that we are his family. I dont see any sign of love from him for me although he keep on telling me that he still loves me. Im confused and I dont know how to deal with this kind of situation. Im hurt and still continue hurting. I love my husband very much and wanted to keep him despite of the situation.He told me also that its his obligation to support the child.I love him but i dont want to be cheated over and over again.please help.

2007-01-24 19:12:36 · 35 answers · asked by lady in love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It really makes me laugh when people who have cheated say they love their husband/wife..If they really and truly loved their spouse they never would have cheated..anybody agree with this

2007-01-24 19:12:36 · 16 answers · asked by lauren l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 19:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by tricksy52002 2 in Singles & Dating

Unfortunantly, with my whole body,soul,and mind we've distanced due to a 26yr. old (young and fresh piece of .....)Sadly to say, when i discovered that my baby would be delivered stillborn c-sec. I needed him there. He says infact he was there but in the waiting room.(WAITING FOR WHAT) WHERE AM i GOING WITH THIS?? I guess the first part of the question is inevidible (28yrs He forgets I Know him better than anyone) And yes I know we are all human and mistakes will be made and can be forgiven, including mine.BUT, IM SO ALONE.....IM SO ANGRY....ALL I WANT IS THE TRUTH......Im sure alot of you readers are thinking.."Wake-up"!. Its not that easy.Ive always been 10ft. tall. And he always adored me and loved me. I think i took it for granted!! Oh-well we cant change the past.Oh Yeah !!now I remember my Ques. I dont know? This mess is asking 1000 questions I will consider any answer. Signed, jello

2007-01-24 19:10:25 · 10 answers · asked by lee m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 19:09:58 · 11 answers · asked by ali_numan_raza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you marry someone who is not the same race as you or doesn't share the same religion as you?

2007-01-24 19:09:15 · 9 answers · asked by H Vice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance are getting married at the courthouse. We were wondering if it's possible to receive wedding gifts. I realize we should send cards out to family,friends, relatives etc to announce our marriage has occured but is it possible to in that note express we would like to receive gifts or not? I don't know what to do and of course wedding gifts would be lovely since we don't have much at our apartment.

2007-01-24 19:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if a guy thinks that you're pretty and cute it doesn't necessarily mean that he likes you, right? and if he gets excited when someone said to him, 'i think she likes you' it also doesn't mean anything, right?

sensible and helpful answers please.

2007-01-24 19:08:31 · 7 answers · asked by ceecee 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night I was at my house with my best friends little sister, watching a movie, when she decides to go to the restroom. Amelia’s twenty-three and I’m twenty-seven, her brother and I go back to elementary school. I’ve known Amelia since the day she was born. We never really got along too well, she was always arguing about something and I was always telling her to shut up.
Anyway when she went to the bathroom I though I would pull a prank on her and scare her… I know stupid and a childish idea, but I didn’t think any harm would be done! Everyone’s done it before, hide in a dark corner and scares the hell out of the unexpected person.

Well let me get to the point. My house is very big and can be pretty creepy at night. I waited until she was done in the bathroom and walking out down the dark hall, then I jump out and scared the crap out of her!

I guess I thought she would have laughed it off or try to punch me like always. Well she screamed really loud and punched me in the chest, and stormed off. I was laughing because I thought it was funny at the time. When I went back to the living room where we were watching a movie her back was tuned towards me, and her shoulders were shacking really badly. I was kind of shocked because she NEVER cries!

I don’t know what came over me but the next thing I knew I was on the sofa with Amelia in my lap while she sobbed, as I stroked her hair and back, telling her I was sooo sorry. It was like an hour later and she was still holding on to me crying hysterically. She cried until she was physically exhausted.
I don’t get it we do dumb crap like that all the time and she has NEVER cried before. I know it was a stupid, stupid thing to do. I think she was crying for some other reason but I don’t know what.
Could she be crying for another reason? Is this a normal reaction?

2007-01-24 19:08:06 · 38 answers · asked by amesB 1 in Singles & Dating

or imagine what would you want from your girlfriend for valentines day, if u r single

2007-01-24 19:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

Not even one of those little "school boyfriends either". Im not a freak or anything, I jus cant seem to find the right person...

2007-01-24 19:03:27 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex dont have his either.because he felt he didnt need them because he had his 2nd divorce papers from his second wife.i call the city hall and other numbers and there no where the only papers they can find are the divorce papers from his second wife.i want to get married again but i cant because of these papers what can i do?i also contaced the lawyer who did the divorce.and he said he dont keep his records that long.

2007-01-24 19:03:03 · 6 answers · asked by bassetluv 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he is 22. goes to gym everyday. we live in different cities (3 hours away, not too bad). been together 3 years. he works full time. he is also a full time student. so he is very busy and tired all the time.

2007-01-24 19:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Deesa 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl i havent seen for like 3weeks maybe more. now i see her at school in the dining room. i dont have her phone number. whats a slick way to ask for her number? can i tell her that she is a cool and funny person (bc she really is) and i would like to have her as a friend? does that seem kinda weird?

2007-01-24 19:01:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

An Indian jus arrived in UK. Wat all things should be kept in mind while talkin or interacting with ppl in UK. Would also like to know wat things UK ppl dont like about newly arrived Indians. Would also like to have tips from British Girls ???

2007-01-24 19:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by sssshhhhhhh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend very much and have no interest in any other guys just to make that clear and he feels the same about me except replace other guys with other girls. I have an ex boyfriend who happens to be a good friend of my current boyfriends and for some reason my bf thinks that my ex is still in love with me. I don't think he is because all my ex does is pay me out and push me (not like violently but just like playfully) i think of my ex as a little brother and not in that way at all. I dont know what to do because i dont see the way my ex acts as flirting or showing interest. Am i just blind to him liking me by his acitons or am i right in thinking that its nothing more than just being friendly?

2007-01-24 19:00:19 · 7 answers · asked by Tam 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy loves me. he is my bestfriend, i love him so much ( i wasnt sure what kind of feeling i have to him).however, he is very nice and sweet, caring and gentleman, i get butterflies and feel secure when he is around. i think i love him back, is that true???!! and if yes, is it possible to love someone but still able to like other guys?? i mean when some times i`m out i see other guys, and sometimes they take my attention, but if i love my best friend, how can i still be able to like others??!!!! is it possible. or is it normal??

2007-01-24 19:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by confused lover 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend I just broke up last week and ever since have been on good terms. I mean we did have alittle trouble with stopping our habbit of calling eachother all the time like we used to,but other than that we still have a good friendly love for eachother. Today I got home and I checked my voicemail and he left a short message to the extent that he has "bigger plans than me". My first reaction was that we already broke up, so why are you trying to brake up a relationship that doesn't exist? Then I started to get angry b/c just last night he and I were just talking about how we were glad our relationship was only a strong friendship and now he has the nerve to act like a jerk when I'm a supposed to be a "friend"! I really don't know how I should react to this and how to even deal about it with him since Im just so darn confussed! Please help?

2007-01-24 18:59:45 · 2 answers · asked by Barlow 6 in Singles & Dating

on their first date..but husband is still married, wife doesn't know.this is cheating is it?what kind of woman is she?

2007-01-24 18:58:29 · 10 answers · asked by anol b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 18:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by sees_lwo_na 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband had an affair i took him back because i thought i loved him but every day-night i cant stop thinking about him and her together,when we have sex i think is this what he was like with her its driving me mental,although he says he had no feelings for her i find it hard to beleive after sleeping with her for 3 years please help.

2007-01-24 18:52:50 · 20 answers · asked by kerry b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner came home from a night out and he was talking on his mobile phone - so i got up to see him and when i came downstairs he hung up the phone and switched it off - Anyway we had a massive row about who was on the phone he said it was one of his friends and he had turned the phone off when he heard me because he was drunk.
My problem is this he swears it wasn't his ex or anything like that but i just dont believe him - it's made me so paranoid i check his phone etc - this happened a few years ago now but it still bothers me and i cant let it go becuase i dont believe what he said. when i try to talk about he he just says he cant do it as it was so long ago - should i move on and forget it or have it out with him?

2007-01-24 18:52:39 · 8 answers · asked by Pebbles 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 32 years old and recently moved back with my parents, OUCH! The kicker is that I am romantically involved with someone from my dad's work. Does anyone have any ideas of ways that we can be alone without my dad finding out. His place is NOT an option and my parents are home ALL of the time. If he as much as calls or pulls up to our house they will know something is up. I know that I am old enough to do what I want. But, trust me, them finding out now is not a good idea.

2007-01-24 18:51:26 · 14 answers · asked by lustful TR 2 in Family

There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but he's always telling me to text message him for trainer sessions, and i told him several times, I'm a broke *** college student, and I cannot afford them, but then he's still asking me to told me to call him on his cell phone for a free session, and he told me not to worry about it...and i actually told him, that I wasn't intrested in the free session he's trying to push on me...so he comes up to me tonight asking me about it again, and I went ahead and did it..but it's like damn..

2007-01-24 18:51:17 · 3 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Other - Family & Relationships