Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

2007-01-24 19:45:30 · 4 answers · asked by nadih_18 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been in a relationship for 7yrs and we have 3 children togather.
he like to call me names and put me down there are 9 kids that live in our house,he dont help clean the house.take care of the kids he lets them do what ever they want while i'm off for a break,while he plays the x-box 360,he pays no attention to me because of the x-box360,he goes to work comes home and gets straight on x-box 360 till 1or 2am non stop till he goes to bed.and he is always telling me to get a job!
how do i ?
he thinks it is normal and i get upset am i in the wrong to get upset ?
what should i do?
please help me

2007-01-24 19:42:48 · 12 answers · asked by lilmommeranda 1 in Friends

2007-01-24 19:41:32 · 12 answers · asked by shez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I usually go on and on about a problem to my g/f repeating myself because she acts like she isnt listening or is disinterested in my problem with the situation. I keep going because she does this. How do I deal with her differently and still feel like I mad a point or she understands. I feel like if I dont make my point the problem will persist and she doesnt ever talk she just says ok, yeah, no or whatever to everything I say. But then when I dont say anything at all she is all over me asking me whats wrong until I say whats bothering me then she doesnt want to listen. How do I handle this situation because we do love each other very much.

2007-01-24 19:41:24 · 10 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Singles & Dating

I've got four groomsmen/one bestman and my wife to be has four bridesmaids/one maidofhonor...we also have four ushers, two ringbearers, a flowergirl and a jr. bridesmaid...we both come from big families and are tryin to have everyone be apart of our day but are finding out that wedding cost alot more than expected...when finding out the cost of my groomsmen's tuxes when of their wive's flipped out going on about how they were just as broke as us but in their wedding no one paid for anything (mind you they had one person each..not five)...am i asking too much of them???

2007-01-24 19:38:44 · 18 answers · asked by perdue_18 1 in Weddings

my fiance...whom i was getting married to in 3 months tells me that he's not in love with me...all of a sudden after seeing his ex wife. I ask if he's in love with her and he says no. He loves both of us. We'd moved to a different state to get away from drama...and have been living here for over a year. When we went home to visit...that's where the drama is and that's how he saw her. A friend of mine that also moved...went down to visit a few months back. I trust her...more than anyone else right now and she says that she heard gossip of my fiance's ex wife and him talking and that they were talking about getting back together because she's about to leave the guy who she left my fiance for...they'd only been married 6 months. I've talked to her...and it seems she never stopped loving him. I think this is a really messy situation and it HURTS..and you now...we live together..have a life together and he could be leaving to go back home in a few days...and i feel betrayed and im scared of

2007-01-24 19:38:18 · 18 answers · asked by Starla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 19:37:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 19:36:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do she loves that guy the rev jim jones.from the peoples temple.she defends him and i hear all the time how he was set up.help what can i do.this is all she thinks about .i was reading on how some woman love the bad boys.could this be her case.i mean if this happen in 78 she was 15 when this happen.good thing she didnt join that cult.im tired of hearing about him.and to make things worst she found this web of one of the woman servivors who said he was a good guy,but set up.help! im geting the creeps.

2007-01-24 19:35:56 · 5 answers · asked by bassetluv 4 in Singles & Dating

Why or why not?

2007-01-24 19:35:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

am a single guy with no children and am looking for female friends of all ages and nationalities. I do not judge people by their appearance, but by their actions and I hope that others will treat me the same. I enjoy a multitude of sports that include scuba diving, archery and shooting, as well as an enjoying a night out with friends, as well as a quiet night home with someone special.

I am not the best looking guy in the world, but I am not the worst. I have this unfortunate trait of coming across to women as more of a big brother than a lover or husband.

2007-01-24 19:34:19 · 17 answers · asked by Glenn M 2 in Singles & Dating

Her boyfriend told me he was going to knock me out.His name was K.O.

2007-01-24 19:33:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 19:33:27 · 13 answers · asked by TAGG 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Even if the girl is thin?

Given the choice, what would you rather have a pancake butt, or a no-butt.

2007-01-24 19:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by wonderwhy2100 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 19:33:22 · 3 answers · asked by katto 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a mother of a 10 year old girl. In that time my stretch marks have not faded at all. Some of them go to my ribcage. I am at my ideal weight and feel really good physically. However, I am in a relationship and we haven't been intimate yet. I know that our next date will change that. Any ideas on how to lighten, distract attention from or get rid of them all together. I don't have the $ for surgery and really don't concider that an option. Any ideas?

2007-01-24 19:32:31 · 10 answers · asked by lustful TR 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel decieved at times by my g/f because she doesnt give me reasons to things she does that bother me. She used to think hanging up on me was ok and didnt understand why I would be mad about it, she tells me that she is getting a book from the library and cant even tell me wha the name of the book is. I see it as petty that she cant tell me the name of a freakin book and she thinks its petty that I have to know what the name of the book is. I said she shouldnt have told me she is getting a book if she can tell me the name of it because she knew I would ask. It seem like a power trip. Then she tells me her ex b/f is in town and the first time I came to her parents house she still had a pic up of him and her in the living room and her bedroom and she thought it wasnt a big deal. Shouldnt she have taken the pics down and understood Id be mad. She tells me some huge things that I wouldnt ask but when I ask her something simple she wont say anything. Is she trustworthy and just gaurded

2007-01-24 19:31:39 · 10 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Singles & Dating

You aint going to sleep with other guys over the weekend?? do u think that person is just paranoid or over protective ?

2007-01-24 19:30:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I have a good view of myself after living in an abusive home for 25 years? My mother was very abusive and because of her abuse and controlling ways, I never got to experience a normal childhood/adolesence.

I know I'm a great worker and an asset to any employer. I have a great hobby where I feel great, too.

I want to be in a relationship but I don't feel like any guy would settle for me. Why would they settle for me if they could have someone prettier, skinnier, with nicer skin, with a nicer body?

The only time I feel REALLY confident is when I'm training my horses and riding students. I KNOW I'm good at that and it makes me feel good to do it-- compared to others? I don't always feel so confident.

How do I get to a place where I can feel confident about my appearance to have a relationship?

I'm a nice person, I'm a great friend, but I don't feel like I'm pretty enough to be asked out, or taken out.

2007-01-24 19:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by kerrisonr 4 in Singles & Dating

Describe an activity or hobby that you enjoy doing in your free time, and explain why you like that activity so much.

On my free time I like to go out to play golf because I enjoy the sport and love it. It helps me out on my exercise and I'm out doing something.

2007-01-24 19:29:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well, incase you dont know the whole story, earlier this week, me and my brother in law were on a trekking trip together and he came on to me. We ended up having sex. I was filled with so much guilt that i shut everyone out of my life for 2 days just to think. I finally garnered courage and confronted him to tell him its all wrong and we should just forget about it. he told me that he and my sis were havin marital problems and that he was going to file for a divorce anyways. He says that he's bisexual but prefers men over women, and that he loves me alot. I dont want to get into all of this, and i definitely don't want to be with him - but what if i say no and he tells my sister? I dont know how to deal with this.

2007-01-24 19:27:36 · 24 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

takes a deep breath before approaching you, says hello and makes no eye contact with you...and mumbles something under his breath? Is that a sign of interest or repulsion?

I'm thinking he probably didn't want to talk to me.

2007-01-24 19:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 19:25:37 · 26 answers · asked by Sara J 2 in Singles & Dating

And why?

2007-01-24 19:23:44 · 29 answers · asked by Colette 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 19:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by Liit 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would a guy still write to you when the e-mails are really quite mundane by nature? I am beginning to get tired of the e-mails? How do I stop e-mailing a person without feeling guilty?

2007-01-24 19:23:06 · 16 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

Is cybering considered cheating?

2007-01-24 19:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Louy 5 in Singles & Dating

He tells his mom everything! And i have to addmit it sometimes gets on my nerves! I mean he tells his mom when we dont use a condom! I mean its not just things about sex eaither (tho that is the worst) he tells her about our finacial things too! And what makes me even more upset is the fact that she dosnt ask me the questions! I mean i will be standing right there and she will look at him and ask how i am doing at work!! It gets me so upset! We are getting married soon and moving closer to where his mother and father live! I am just really scared that it will end up like one of those "Everybody Loves Raymond" shows! It scares the hell out of me! I mean me and my mom are mot even as close as they are! UGHH! I just dont know what to do! I dont wnat him to get upset and tell his mom about this! That would be great one thing she can tell his family! Grrrr!

2007-01-24 19:21:41 · 8 answers · asked by HaZeLeYeZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the chances she will get mad?

2007-01-24 19:20:42 · 15 answers · asked by Greed...Is Good 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought I was over my ex, but I just miss him. Its super hard not to text him and call. And know that we're trying the friend thing, I think it makes it hard for me to be honest about my feelings with him. His friends have told me that he misses our realationship and would like to get back together, but only once he thinks we've both ready to be mature about lives together. I also wonder if it is worth the bother to try again b/c there is ten years between us. I just want to know if I should follow my heart and try it again or move on for better or worse?

2007-01-24 19:20:27 · 7 answers · asked by Barlow 6 in Singles & Dating