I feel decieved at times by my g/f because she doesnt give me reasons to things she does that bother me. She used to think hanging up on me was ok and didnt understand why I would be mad about it, she tells me that she is getting a book from the library and cant even tell me wha the name of the book is. I see it as petty that she cant tell me the name of a freakin book and she thinks its petty that I have to know what the name of the book is. I said she shouldnt have told me she is getting a book if she can tell me the name of it because she knew I would ask. It seem like a power trip. Then she tells me her ex b/f is in town and the first time I came to her parents house she still had a pic up of him and her in the living room and her bedroom and she thought it wasnt a big deal. Shouldnt she have taken the pics down and understood Id be mad. She tells me some huge things that I wouldnt ask but when I ask her something simple she wont say anything. Is she trustworthy and just gaurded
2007-01-24 19:31:39 · 10 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend is acting exactly the same way I acted when I was becoming less and less inetersted in my ex. Little questions he would ask would annoy me and I didn't want to answer them. The simplest things like asking how my day was would annoy me and I'd snap an asnwer at him. The reason she is snapping at you is because she wnats to break up, but she doesn't want the responsibility of doing it herself, so she'll start a fight over little things subconsiously hoping you'll break up with her in anger so she wont have to. It sucks I know. Besides, if she has pictures of an ex, RED FLAG!
2007-01-24 19:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it sounds like you two haven't been together for a long time, and haven't yet reached the 'comfortable stage' where you tell eachother everything and aren't embarrassed infront of eachother about anything...and because of that, to me, i think that your girlfriend is embarrassed infront of you, maybe she was picking up an embarrassing book and didn't want to tell you what it was in case you took the mick out of her. Or maybe she's just a very secretive person.
You must reassure her all the time, never fail to tell her that she can trust you, she could tell you anything and if she ever had a problem, you'd help her, tell her that you love her and that you'd do anything for her, just be careful that she doesn't bottle up all her feelings, because thats the worst thing you can do, because it all makes things worse
I think you two just need to talk and tell her everything thats on your mind, tell her everything thats bothering you and if she can't see eye to eye, then maybe she's not for you, it happens.
Good luck.
2007-01-25 03:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Yellow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's a complete psycho power tripping whore. Keeping pictures of an ex. So how is it OK to tell you her ex is in town but cant even tell you the name of a damn book!? Figure that one out Einstein. She's a lying whore at best, a pyscho ***** at worst.
Dump that *****. She's not worth it. **** her hard, go anal on her, and get those frustration out. Then, later that day, dump her. If she asks why, because you think she's a lying whore.
2007-01-25 03:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by wonderwhy2100 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
psssssst....let me let you in on a little secret....this isn't about her...this is about you...
the question you need to be asking is what has happened in your past to make you so insecure & what the heck are you going to do about it so you don't sabbotage every relationship you are in from here on out.
Hun, you don't need to know every little detail of your girlfriend's life...it's just a book. The name is irrelivant, you know it she knows it, you were just picking a fight to pick one...you need to figure out why you do that and STOP IT!
It's YOUR power trip...not hers. She just won't give into it and I don't blame her.
The pictures...no, she doesn't need to take them down. She had a past, she had other realtionships, she has had however may years of life she had before you met her chock full of memories. (so have you by the way) She doesn't have to hide or get rid of anything simply beacuse you are now in her life. That is unrealistic of you and extremely immature.
She's trustworthy...YOU are guarded...and you need to let that guard down and just TRUST & ACCEPT if you ever want a healthy long term happy relationship.
2007-01-25 03:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On one hand, its probably because she still loves her ex-boyfriend and is using you to make him jealous! On the other hand, it might be a way to test how much you love her and how much a patient and understanding person you really are!
2007-01-25 03:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Dubaiyuki 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U r jelousy why r interfering with pples life forget about her they are not 11 like Jesus's disciples go on and look for another one
2007-01-25 03:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by titi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dude, move on... as a woman, i know thisgame... its called 'lose the guy, but make him decide to break up'...shes not into you, dude, seriously...especially if shes flaunting her exbf in your face!!!! thats blantent disrespect and your better than that.. there are girls that dont do that stuff.... let her go..she doesnt want you
2007-01-25 03:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by s p 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop trying to control her so much, thats old fashioned
2007-01-25 03:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Leila 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave her alone n she's playing fool with u.she's really not honest to u indeed.
2007-01-25 03:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you care what she is reading. She has rights too, you know.
2007-01-25 03:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋