Family & Relationships - 24 January 2007

the problem is i am REALLY VERY SHY.....nd she is outgoing type of a person.........so i just dunno how to tell her my feelings...............we travel by the same bus back 2 home after college.....nd tlk like normally.....nt a lot!!!..
nd i also think she atleast likes me(jz guessin......)....coz in a day or 2 she teases me like playfully....if i say sumthing wrong accidently....or sumthing like that!!!!!but thats jz guessin...the thing is i really luv her nd would atleast like to tell her all that!!....pls help me..wat to do?

2007-01-24 20:57:24 · 13 answers · asked by 4_d_soul 1 in Singles & Dating

Well....I was getting married in 3 months...when my fiance's ex wife...tells him that she has feelings for him still. She is currently in a situation where...she's about to leave the man that she cheated on my fiance with about 5 yrs back. I thought he was finally over her...we've "officially been together for about..8 months. We used to be best friends and he led me on and I fell in love with him. I have been rejected by him 3 times..due to his feelings for another...but I always loved him for four years....
We moved to another state...and just last week we went home for a visit. That's wher all the drama is. That's how he ended up seeing her. He kept telling me that it was just a friends thing. I knw they'd been emailing each other...i didn't like them seeing each other or talking..given past history. He kept assuring me that I was being paranoid. This past Sat. night we get back from our trip and he tells me that he's not in love with me because he still has feelings for her.

2007-01-24 20:56:53 · 18 answers · asked by Starla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 20:56:15 · 25 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

I do and was wondering if that is normal??

2007-01-24 20:49:29 · 9 answers · asked by THE ACTS OF POWER 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if your mom/dad cheated on the other and you were about 11 yrs old...when you get married can that influence you cheating on your spouse? just curious...

2007-01-24 20:49:17 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a.hate him/her for ever
b.accept it
c.ignore him/her
d. not a and c
e. other ___________<-define

2007-01-24 20:48:57 · 6 answers · asked by SURVEY 2 in Friends

2007-01-24 20:47:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met her on a soccer game, I played keeper while she played guard. we sometimes say sth to encourage each other. I barely know her but I think I really like her and she likes me too.

We will have 3 more games in the intramiral league : Feb 5th, 12nd, and 15 th. And those are the times I m going to meet her.

should I ask her to be my valentine? should I ask her before the 14th? what should I say to her??

thanks ,

2007-01-24 20:47:34 · 25 answers · asked by LB James 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 20:47:17 · 17 answers · asked by baby 1 in Singles & Dating

I was engaged to that man, 2 years ago, we booked the church and everything was fine. He said he wanted a child, too, so I was then pregnant. Well, two days before the even he ran off with some foreign woman, an immigrant. Apparently he was seeing her on the sly, and she gave him several STDs at once, and then promised to cure him without going to the US doctors - she was to bring some pills from her country, as she was a doctor there and got them clandestinely. (She ws seeing five other men at once at that time).
I, luckily, got none.
I cried first, then tried to forget.
When recently I found out that they got married and that the STD
woman was not idle - all this time she was diligently sending out
false complaints about me to the police, FBI and even Interpol for
some reason.

2007-01-24 20:46:34 · 5 answers · asked by all w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 20:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by ntendeanthony 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-24 20:42:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its our anniversary on Monday and its a big deal to us. But I don't know what to get him.... He currently lives about 1200km away from me and unfortunately I can't go visit him at this time because of college and work... Any ideas about what I can get him? I really love him and want to get him something nice... Please help

2007-01-24 20:41:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it an affair even though there's no kissing,petting,or sex.Just occasional hugs?......

2007-01-24 20:40:39 · 15 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 20:37:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that she loves you very much and wants to stay with you even if you date other girls. would you stay with her! isn't it better to help her forget you by igonring her phone calls and stop seeing her? or maybe its better not to break her heart and keep dating her along with other girls? what is the best way to avoid breaking her heart?

2007-01-24 20:37:34 · 19 answers · asked by answer@yahoo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 20:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by sarsor 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 20:35:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sat next to this pretty girl during traffic school, we talked to eachother, we got a long good, so then I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime, she said sure, so I asked for her number, she gave it to me, it wasn't a fake number, I called her, but not a lot, she never picked up, then the next week of traffic school she told me that the reason why she didn't pick up her phone was because she has a boyfriend & that he freaks out when other people call her, she said sorry first before she told me, she said it's ok. I was mad & confused, why would she give me her number in the first place if she has a boyfriend?, I thought girls are always loyal to their man, why didn't she just give me a fake number instead?, how does she expect me to hang out with her or call her if she has a boyfriend?, man, sometimes I wish the world was just all males, it would please me if someone gave me advice or gave me some answers

2007-01-24 20:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-24 20:35:18 · 4 answers · asked by boo 5 in Friends

my friend is angree with me actually one day i told him that "MERA DIMAG MAT KHARAB KARO"after this sentence he don't want to talk with me acually on that day i was in tention and i was not able to talk anybody that's why i do this what can i do for him?

2007-01-24 20:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-24 20:33:36 · 2 answers · asked by boo 5 in Friends

how do I stop this...

2007-01-24 20:32:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girl and i went to a restarant the other night and we didn't have the much of a good time, we weren't comfortable because of her nanny sitting at the table with us, anyways after that she wasn't herself she wasn't talking to me like she used to..and not texting unless i do, and then the day after that she didnt call or text me at all, but that didnt stop me from texting her i did but guess what no reply and that was before like 4 days :S and i miss her so much.. and im worried sick about her and im starting to get crazy thoughts like she's cheating on me or something, but i hope not..:( so can you please tell me what to do!!!!

2007-01-24 20:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by kooki 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello i have got arranged marriage since I was 21. Had two kids straight after and now virtually no sex at all for the past 7/8 years Two years ago i met a divorced woman who has a kid 5 years old. Started having an affair. Sex was really high on the agenda. She treats me like her husband and has asked her son to call me dad. my wife found out everything about her and me. She wants me to get rid of her or else she will divorce me. This girl although i love her very much but has got a very bad temper. Everytime i tried to leave her she would threaten to kill herself if i left. She cannot live without me. She has to settle in her life but she cannot go to anyone as she is madly in love with me. I am scared of her as she has got very bad temper and a few months back she hit me on my hand with a knife and i have to go to hospital to get stitches. She also came to my house and made a big scene. LAter she apologised. She wants to get pregnant and live with me. I dont know what to do?

2007-01-24 20:30:48 · 39 answers · asked by indian_hunk_no1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In our country everbody including a peon wants to have an assistant to be working under him. Agree or disagree?

2007-01-24 20:28:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-24 20:27:35 · 28 answers · asked by lil'lee 1 in Singles & Dating

she only remembers the fight and not what she did she is my best friend and she was drunk and all over my cousin and bro but does not want to talk to me

2007-01-24 20:26:48 · 4 answers · asked by drakken 1 in Friends

I have this girl, we are good friends, and we had sex few times, but the dilema is that im not sure if it love or just sex , i'm confuse, becouse those goes hand to hand...
And i see a change of behavour with this girl...
Ok, im waiting your honnest opiniond and advices

2007-01-24 20:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night I was at my house with my best friends little sister, watching a movie, when she decides to go to the restroom. Amelia’s twenty-three and I’m twenty-seven, her brother and I go back to elementary school. I’ve known Amelia since the day she was born. We never really got along too well, she was always arguing about something and I was always telling her to shut up.
Anyway when she went to the bathroom I though I would pull a prank on her and scare her… I know stupid and a childish idea, but I didn’t think any harm would be done! Everyone’s done it before, hide in a dark corner and scares the hell out of the unexpected person.

Well let me get to the point. My house is very big and can be pretty creepy at night. I waited until she was done in the bathroom and walking out down the dark hall, then I jump out and scared the crap out of her!

I guess I thought she would have laughed it off or try to punch me like always. Well she screamed really loud and punched me in the chest, and stormed off. I was laughing because I thought it was funny at the time. When I went back to the living room where we were watching a movie her back was turned towards me, and her shoulders were shacking really badly. She had this very frightened look in her eyes,
I was kind of shocked because she NEVER cries!

I don’t know what came over me but the next thing I knew I was on the sofa with Amelia in my lap while she sobbed, as I stroked her hair and back, telling her I was sooo sorry. It was like an hour later and she was still holding on to me crying hysterically. She cried until she was physically exhausted.
I don’t get it we do dumb crap like that all the time and she has NEVER cried before. I know it was a stupid, stupid thing to do. I think she was crying for some other reason but I don’t know what.
Could she be crying for another reason? Is this a normal reaction? What should I do?

2007-01-24 20:25:00 · 21 answers · asked by amesB 1 in Singles & Dating